HELP!!! Need some advise on using non-dominate hand for J/O. Any tips or tricks, I can get hard, but cumming is difficult.
Broke My J/o Hand
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Try some water based lube or oil based if you're about to shower....
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I always use lube with my non-dominant hand and dry with my right hand. A fleshlight or pocket pussy might help, too.
You're lucky... your typing hand is still working!
You're lucky... your typing hand is still working!
2 fingers on my dominate hand still work.. (thankfully)
Hope your hand gets better soon!
Plenty of lube will do the trick. And enjoy the sensation, because it will be a different one.
Plenty of lube will do the trick. And enjoy the sensation, because it will be a different one.
Using your non-dominant hand will make it feel like someone else is jerking it. 
Lol.
One of my brothers, at about age 19, severely injured his right hand. It was in a cast for the better part of a year during which time he learned to write and eat with his left hand and, yes, to jerk off with it as well.
One of my brothers, at about age 19, severely injured his right hand. It was in a cast for the better part of a year during which time he learned to write and eat with his left hand and, yes, to jerk off with it as well.
But wait @Madmedic85 pretty much needs 2 hands to do the job on his dick. Given the length... Just sayin.
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Grab your cock with your non-dominant hand turned upside down so your thumb is closest to your body. Stroke.
Practice. This motor skill comes from the opposite side of your brain than your dominant hand. Given our right brain left brain split it's almost like another you is doing it.
(Shhhh... this is secret: the left and right hemispheres of your brain operate so differently there are really two of you in your noggin).
Practice. This motor skill comes from the opposite side of your brain than your dominant hand. Given our right brain left brain split it's almost like another you is doing it.
(Shhhh... this is secret: the left and right hemispheres of your brain operate so differently there are really two of you in your noggin).
I've never had a problem switching hands, so I don't know what to tell you about that, other than that if you haven't done it before it will feel pretty cool when you do switch hands for the first time.
I've been playing with vibrators lately. Not in my ass, on my cock. I found a small vibrator that was just shaped like an oval and it had a strong vibration. It took a bit of work but I was able to get myself off with the vibrator alone, and the orgasm was great. I've tried a couple of other vibrator since then, but if its not a really strong vibration it just isn't enough for me.
You could also try a fleshlight with a mount attachment. I haven't used one with a mount, but I've seen them with suction cups so they can be attached to a surface and you can fuck it hands free. I'm not a big fan of fleshlights, but they are pretty good, and if you don't have any other options then its a lot better than waiting for your hand to heal. It might be a pain to clean with only one hand, though.
I've been playing with vibrators lately. Not in my ass, on my cock. I found a small vibrator that was just shaped like an oval and it had a strong vibration. It took a bit of work but I was able to get myself off with the vibrator alone, and the orgasm was great. I've tried a couple of other vibrator since then, but if its not a really strong vibration it just isn't enough for me.
You could also try a fleshlight with a mount attachment. I haven't used one with a mount, but I've seen them with suction cups so they can be attached to a surface and you can fuck it hands free. I'm not a big fan of fleshlights, but they are pretty good, and if you don't have any other options then its a lot better than waiting for your hand to heal. It might be a pain to clean with only one hand, though.
I actually prefer to use my non-dominent hand. I find it better for edging. Maybe it's something about having the somewhat uncoordinated movements because the orientation is a little off. Keep at it and you'll find what works for you
I often switch hands but always cum with my dominant hand so maybe I'd have the same problem it I broke it. I think it is probably just a case of practice makes perfect, though, i.e. just keep doing it with that hand and it will get easier.
"...if you haven't done it before it will feel pretty cool when you do switch hands for the first time."
This reminds me of the first time I slept in my bed backwards. That is, my head where my feet would normally be and my feet where my head would normally be.
Oh my gosh, it was a totally different experience! I urge everyone to try it at least once.
Not sure why it would be such a problem. The majority of the time I always use my non-dominant hand for the simple fact it allows the other one to work a mousepad when looking at porn and I can use an overhand technique better which in turn adds more stimulation to the head.
Ever since breaking my right arm when I was younger, I've been able to train the non-dominant one to do many things almost as well and it is actually better when it comes to strength related tasks like lifting. The only thing I can not accomplish yet is things that require fine motor skills such as writing or the aforementioned controlling a computer.
So practice, practice, practice. After all, isn't that what masturbation is all about?
Ever since breaking my right arm when I was younger, I've been able to train the non-dominant one to do many things almost as well and it is actually better when it comes to strength related tasks like lifting. The only thing I can not accomplish yet is things that require fine motor skills such as writing or the aforementioned controlling a computer.
So practice, practice, practice. After all, isn't that what masturbation is all about?
Thanks everyone for the advise. Its definitely getting better.
Sounds like you and i take a lot to make us cum. if you don't mind telling me the name of the vibrator and where you purchased it. It takes a lot to get me to cum as well. I had a penile implant in January of this year and it just takes a lot more for me to cum. I'm in my senior yrs but really love to fuck my wife of 36 yrs. If you have any suggestions on products that might make me cum i would greatly appreciate it. My wife and I usually fuck 2-3 times a week. I am one of those guys that has to have pussy or i am not a happy camper. I could fuck her for an hour every day but that is to much for her at this point in her life. We really enoy 2-3 times a week. My wife cums harder than anyone i have every seen. We really enjoy fucking each other. best of luck to you man!
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Soft plastic sandwich bag, lots of lube. Wedge it between your mattress and box spring or mattress and pillow and fuck it. It was the best I could manage during my virgin late teens.
I wouldn't say that I have a hard time cumming. I say it took a bit of work to get off because a vibrator is just a different type of stimulation, and its just not as effective in my experience as just stroking normally. But it is an interesting feeling and I think the variety of trying something different is very enjoyable.
I've purchased two different vibrators, and I wouldn't recommend either one of them. But they were cheap and if you want to try them you can find them on Amazon by searching these names, though one of them is sold out:
Massage Travel - Portable Waterproof Bullet Toy Muscle Therapy for a Couple of Games
VibeMax Mini Wand Massager: Compact - Lightweight - USB Rechargeable (Black)
The first one, if the name didn't make it obvious, is a very cheap import from China. Its sold out, and I don't recommend it, but it was the better of the two. The vibration was stronger and I hold it in my hand against my shaft while I stroked. This vibrations felt really good, especially on the underside of the head, and it was different feeling to stroke with something extra in the hand. But it died after a couple of months, and the materials made me nervous.
The second one was a much nicer product, but even on its strongest setting just didn't provide enough stimulation.
I think vibrators are mostly designed with insertion or clit stimulation in mind, and I guess its better if the vibration has a faster and weaker pulse. I think for a penis, or at least mine, its better to have a slower but strong pulse. I think that a Hitachi Wand might be the answer. I've seen a few reviews from men and they are pretty positive, and they sell attachments for men for them too. I might actually buy one right now, and if I do I'll give you an update.
I do have a Theragun, but I think it would be dangerous to use that.
I was in a similar situation when I ruptured my left bicep tendon, and had the arm in a brace for a long time. It only works with my left hand (although I am right-handed), and the brace just prevented me from reaching. I was very self-conscious about the brace, etc., so I mostly kept to myself until it was off. And therefore didn't get off. However, when I did get back into the social scene, my friends said I should have asked for help. They would have been glad to lend a hand (or more...). So never be too proud to ask for help!
