Burning Sensation In Anal?

[NudistSlo]

Hi Guys,

Does anyone else experience a burning sensation in anal sex. Is it lube? Or something else? I use water-based lube.

Any suggestions?

 

[biosbardo97]

i was going to ask if you use enough lube so i have no clue in your case

 

[Michel Foucault]

Maybe it’s the stretching so it will burn regardless a bit? Of course if it’s really painful stop.

 

[Brodie888]

It could be:

- Latex allergy from condoms
- Not enough lube
- Not reapplying lube often enough
- Lubes with warming ingredients
- Lubes that aren't anal sex compatible for you
- Internal hemorrhoids
- Progressing too quickly with penetration

 

[NudistSlo]

Thanks guys!
Nice list Brodie. I would really like to find out which one it is. I will exclude haemorrhoids and allergy. I hope it's last one. If it's the wrong kind of lube, which ones are best for anal?

 

[Brodie888]

I have been with my partner for over 6 years and bareback. We both hate water soluble lube because it gets absorbed so quickly and is some what messy and tacky as it dries.

I melt a jar of coconut oil in the microwave, pour it into a baking tin lined with plastic wrap. I set it in the fridge then cut it into sugar cube sized pieces.

I keep the pieces in a container the fridge then insert them as needed. They melt almost straight away and washes out of sheets easily.

 

[tito21]

LPSG doesn’t offer health diagnoses. And you shouldn’t be taking free Heath diagnoses from strangers on the internet.

Go see a health physician if your anus is on fire! May be lube allergy issue or may be STD/STI. We don’t know. Only a doctor can give you the correct diagnose after seeing your flaming bunghole up-close!

 

[dreambridger]

Try a silicone based lubricant. Water-based lubricants require a lot of reapplication, and the silicone lubes are actually waterproof and seem to create an artificial gel-like membrane for the anal walls.

can I ask about your anal preparation tendencies too? Like if you over-douche with steaming hot water, you'll actually strip your internal anal mucosa, which you don't want to do. I've learned now to only douche with lukewarm water.

Anyway I'm sure that the burning sensations is microfissures from stretching and does not sound abnormal. Try these suggestions and let us know if they make a difference.

 

[canadian_guy486]

I have been with my partner for over 6 years and bareback. We both hate water soluble lube because it gets absorbed so quickly and is some what messy and tacky as it dries.

I melt a jar of coconut oil in the microwave, pour it into a baking tin lined with plastic wrap. I set it in the fridge then cut it into sugar cube sized pieces.

I keep the pieces in a container the fridge then insert them as needed. They melt almost straight away and washes out of sheets easily.

I’ve been wanting to try using coconut oil as I’ve heard it’s a more natural way to use lube vs the conventional kind that is filled with chemicals etc. But what do you mean “insert them as needed?” Do you stick a cube of solid coconut oil up your hole or how does that work?

 

[Brodie888]

I’ve been wanting to try using coconut oil as I’ve heard it’s a more natural way to use lube vs the conventional kind that is filled with chemicals etc. But what do you mean “insert them as needed?” Do you stick a cube of solid coconut oil up your hole or how does that work?

Yeah, you are basically prelubing. One cube is enough. It melts within seconds.

The top just has to lube his cock enough to penetrate you and the oil inside you will do the rest. If you are doing a long session you can add more but don't use too much as your body doesn't absorb oil like water based lube. There's nothing sexy about splattering farts or oozing oil everywhere. No different than using any other lube.

Go buy a cucumber and trial it out by yourself. Just don't put the cucumber back in the fridge after!

 

[NudistSlo]

Thank you guys. I tried water, silicone and oil. I just think I was stretching to fust. Got fucked twice yesterday morning there was not burning sensation I'm gonna keep on stretching

 

[BigHairyWolf]

Water based lube dries and the moisture can be absorbed. Also it’s entirely possible that the area is just irritated from the action.

Try a silicone based lube (test a drop on the back of your hand to make sure you don’t have a reaction), and maybe use a smaller toy first to get things going.

 

[Xerb9]

In the UK, I'd recommend baby lotion (NOT baby oil) which has the same texture as lube but never dries up.

 

[Donismon]

With me, burning happens with water based lube only.

 

[bravesoldier]

That was my number one complaint, burning sensation to the sphincter muscle during anal. I don't know about you but all of the internal lubing you do won't do your sphincter any good, if that is what you're not lubing. Another approach, which I find to be extremely important is before your guy gets past the sphincter and into the fucking is to condition or break the sphincter in. It is a powerful muscle and for good reason, lol. When your guy penetrates it, (with heavy lube) have him come back out and go back in slowly several times. This will make sure it is lubricated and I believe it makes it relax to a certain degree. The anal canal isn't the pain problem I believe, its the sphincter. Work on it good and I believe you'll be far better off.

Poppers sure help too. If you don't know, poppers dilates the sphincter and makes penetration and continued fucking much, much easier.

 

[Beanie]

I’d change up your lube, there certain ones that I can’t use because it burns. It tends to be the more cheap or ‘medical’ ones. When it comes to lube you get what you pay for.