Bussy - so fucking CRINGE

[coordinatedchaos]

Seriously, why is there this trend to equate male-on-male sex with male/female sex?
as a man, one's arse is neither a vulva nor a vagina.
sure - if people want to do this as a kink, so be it. but it's cringe to see the word "bussy" online all over the place. Nobody HAS to "feel female" when getting fucked. Maybe part of the reason is said people are actually trans, and haven't admitted it to themselves yet or come out. If so, more power to them. And in that case, it makes sense for a trans woman getting fucked in her ass to call it a bussy, even if she is non-op and never wants SRS.

I agree with this article - it's fucking cringe. How Gay Men Actually Feel About the Word 'Bussy'

 

[Sagittarius84]

Seriously, why is there this trend to equate male-on-male sex with male/female sex?
as a man, one's arse is neither a vulva nor a vagina.
sure - if people want to do this as a kink, so be it. but it's cringe to see the word "bussy" online all over the place. Nobody HAS to "feel female" when getting fucked. Maybe part of the reason is said people are actually trans, and haven't admitted it to themselves yet or come out. If so, more power to them. And in that case, it makes sense for a trans woman getting fucked in her ass to call it a bussy, even if she is non-op and never wants SRS.

I agree with this article - it's fucking cringe. How Gay Men Actually Feel About the Word 'Bussy'

Plumbing. At its core the simplest expression of male/female sex is male penetrates, female is penetrated, and this attitude is reflected in our social dynamics. Nobody HAS to "feel male" when fucking, but I don't think it's surprising the studly/butch half of a lesbian couple is usually wearing the strap.
A lot of gay men lean into women's allyship and social support moreso than earning camaraderie from other men, and this one of the unforseen consequences of doing so.

 

[coordinatedchaos]

Plumbing. At its core the simplest expression of male/female sex is male penetrates, female is penetrated, and this attitude is reflected in our social dynamics. Nobody HAS to "feel male" when fucking, but I don't think it's surprising the studly/butch half of a lesbian couple is usually wearing the strap.
A lot of gay men lean into women's allyship and social support moreso than earning camaraderie from other men, and this one of the unforseen consequences of doing so.

the plumbing is different. a man cannot get pregnant. the mechanics are therefore not the same, even if there are similarities. that said, equating it totally to male/female sex is odd.
you bussy advocates are hypocritically intolerant. you want acceptance but then if others say they don't agree (which seemingly is the masses) you whine and say others are not imaginative enough or are "bad". let people have their tastes.
You also make a lot of projections and wild assumptions. which gays have "women's allyship"? even if that were the case, it doesn't necessaite thinking one is female. with respect, your logic is very twisted and badly applied. One can be an. advocate for feminism without taking on a female persona. I doubt that many men who have anal sex have that strong allegiance with women's issues as you cite. and even then it's an odd link to make.

 

[coordinatedchaos]

Moroever, YOUR experience doesn't mesh for all, nor can it.

 

[coordinatedchaos]

Plumbing. At its core the simplest expression of male/female sex is male penetrates, female is penetrated, and this attitude is reflected in our social dynamics. Nobody HAS to "feel male" when fucking, but I don't think it's surprising the studly/butch half of a lesbian couple is usually wearing the strap.
A lot of gay men lean into women's allyship and social support moreso than earning camaraderie from other men, and this one of the unforseen consequences of doing so.

many men don't feel female whilst getting fucked. what works for you doesn't work for others. it seems you don't get what sex positivity is, or you have a very internally skewed view of such.
but then like the other "breeding advocates", you'd worm you way out and turn tables on others. lol. never accepting another view. i said your view is cringe. that's not the same as saying it's inherently invalid. but you'd never not equate the two. you can view my view as cringe, and i genuinely will move on and won't care.

 

[coordinatedchaos]

funny how you people are so hypocritical and in your heads.
"everybody hasthe right to an opinion!" really? do you ACTUALLY believe that? Or I'm not part of everybody? Or everybody has no context, and means every person? lol. weirdos.