First off, would like to thank all the gals contributing and providing support on this site even when the men act like morons. ( I've only ever heard one plausible reason 20 years ago on Dr Laura (Schlessinger), which in short is that sex is a very powerful thing in humans and it can inadvertently become associated in each of our minds with a whole wide variety of different, and to some, completely irrational, predilections and behaviours as a result. )
My question: I want to validate a similar experience I've noticed a few time in two different long term lovers over the years.
Background: I've had (suffered with?) the so called penis size obsession since I was a teen where i recall avidly reading Forum articles from old discarded Penthouse magazines that featured a common theme that Bigger is simply Better. A large member is like a powerful magic wand: it weakens knees, and wets whistles.
By my late 20s these media influences greatly directed my fetishes. I began experimenting with bigger-is-better sex toys with both my first wife, and then much later with my second wife, with different large dildos or cock-sheaths, or on occasion my fist, with their express curiosity/permission, and countless bottles of Astroglide.
I've noticed an occasional but definite recurring pattern, which I will describe in a moment, that I'm curious about.
I would like to hear if other women have had this sensation as well and, also please comment on how you think this might affect me in the years to come.
Every now and then the next day after a night where we played with the 'the big toys', both lovers in their time, had/have whispered similar intimate comments; about how their lady parts were still tingling, or how they "could still feel me inside." In those moments I swear felt actual "bonding" taking place.
I still love hearing these reports from my second wife today, and it definitely means it won't be long before the big toys come out again for play time.
My question: I want to validate a similar experience I've noticed a few time in two different long term lovers over the years.
Background: I've had (suffered with?) the so called penis size obsession since I was a teen where i recall avidly reading Forum articles from old discarded Penthouse magazines that featured a common theme that Bigger is simply Better. A large member is like a powerful magic wand: it weakens knees, and wets whistles.
By my late 20s these media influences greatly directed my fetishes. I began experimenting with bigger-is-better sex toys with both my first wife, and then much later with my second wife, with different large dildos or cock-sheaths, or on occasion my fist, with their express curiosity/permission, and countless bottles of Astroglide.
I've noticed an occasional but definite recurring pattern, which I will describe in a moment, that I'm curious about.
I would like to hear if other women have had this sensation as well and, also please comment on how you think this might affect me in the years to come.
Every now and then the next day after a night where we played with the 'the big toys', both lovers in their time, had/have whispered similar intimate comments; about how their lady parts were still tingling, or how they "could still feel me inside." In those moments I swear felt actual "bonding" taking place.
I still love hearing these reports from my second wife today, and it definitely means it won't be long before the big toys come out again for play time.
