helgaleena
Sexy Member
- Joined
- Sep 8, 2006
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- Location
- Wisconsin USA
- Sexuality
- 50% Straight, 50% Gay
- Gender
- Female
I stayed with a technical cheater only when he began to include me in his hookups. That ended when i finally had my own place and income stream.
I dropped a man like a hot brick when he confessed that he had been lusting after somebody else for a year and had finally slept with her. What bugs me is that I was rejecting other guys during that time only to stay 'faithful' when he was not even willing to screw anymore for no particular reason i could tell. Just though he'd come back around. What really made me feel like an idiot was how I couldn't tell he even had a problem with me.
I was willing to forgive the father of my child for trying to have sex with someone else when I was very pregnant, except that they put him in jail for it. That one was definitely out of my hands.
All three situations would have benefited from more honesty and open communication.
The sex in 'cheating' is not a problem; it can be pleasant. What hurts is the dishonesty. Without the deception, it's just another kink.
I dropped a man like a hot brick when he confessed that he had been lusting after somebody else for a year and had finally slept with her. What bugs me is that I was rejecting other guys during that time only to stay 'faithful' when he was not even willing to screw anymore for no particular reason i could tell. Just though he'd come back around. What really made me feel like an idiot was how I couldn't tell he even had a problem with me.
I was willing to forgive the father of my child for trying to have sex with someone else when I was very pregnant, except that they put him in jail for it. That one was definitely out of my hands.
All three situations would have benefited from more honesty and open communication.
The sex in 'cheating' is not a problem; it can be pleasant. What hurts is the dishonesty. Without the deception, it's just another kink.