sodominsane
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HmmmWho decided that monogamy should be the norm ?
possibly nobility that wanted to consolidate power by keeping single mines of inheritance
HmmmWho decided that monogamy should be the norm ?
Who decided that monogamy should be the norm ?
I discovered that I was in an open relationship and didn't know it. My boyfriend at the time said he wanted a relationship, but didn't want to give up casual sex. He just never bothered to discuss it with me first. He traveled once a month or so for work. Sometimes within the US, other times to England, or South America. Turns out he was fucking his way around the world and telling people he was single, then coming home and pretending to be an attentive boyfriend. When I confronted him about it he said he was getting the affection he felt he deserved. It didn't make any sense because we had great sex, but I guess it goes back to not wanting to give up the casual sex. So, I told him if he's telling people that he's single, then he really should be. I heard that it's been a perpetual pattern for him and he's still single all these years later.
I love the last line of your post.Sounds like my second wife. But I like the way you put it: we had an open relationship except I wasn't let in on it. She did tell me that I had plenty of opportunity to screw around on her. I said yes, but I unlike you I did not. I asked her if she wanted me to cheat on her, and she actually said she would prefer if I didn't.
So, you're going to quit cheating?
Probably not.
So, you want to use my attorney or get your own?
We’ve been together for 3 years in a non-opened relationship
It amazes me that people today are so easy to forgive a selfish cheater. There is no excuse period. I have been on the end of a cheater. He was my first boyfriend, my first sexual partner, my first everything. This is a long story, but here it the footnote to it:
We had been together for 7 years... he started cheating on me somewhere around our 4th year. I was not aware of this until we moved into our 7th year. How I found out was thru a blood test...he had giving me HIV. I went into in the hospital that very same week. I was extremely sick and nearly died. Once I was healthy I left him. He is dead now and I am here telling my story...that was 20 years ago.
Where is this etched in stone
I can think of a few perfectly fine relationships where some cheating has gone one
I’m also a very not judgmental guy so people share a ton with me. Plus used to have a occupation where I was got a lot of trusted info (doctor)
there is a lot more cheating going on then you think. And a lot of ....cognitive dissidence....
“I’ve never cheated “
“ what about billy”
“ that doesn’t count because.....insert reason....”
A. I was drunk
B we were on break
C it was a war zone halfway around the world
D. It’s was just a kiss/bj /handy etc.
E... I’ve heard tons they go on forever.... to include just plain not remembering
so much cheating goes on... you would also be shocked at how many kids have different fathers than they thought
people report that about 13 percent of women have cheated on a spouse
30 percent reported by men
but ....... paternity result say different (estimates between 9 and 30 percent(disclaimer that old data from my medical school days...but my experiences.... seems right)
and that doesn’t even include all the fucks, bj, and handjobs that don’t result in pregnancy
and don’t forget the super popular topic on this site.... married men who are not gay but use a cocksucker????!!!! Wtf btw
lots and lots of cheating