Choose one….

[Beekeeper13]

If the perfect man and woman walked up to you.
Would you take the man or the woman on the date, knowing the other person will disappear forever.

 

[GWAR]

The woman.

 

[mushroomcap]

Definitely the woman.

 

[halcyondays]

The woman.

When I consider everything that grows
Holds in perfection but a little moment,
That this huge stage presenteth nought but shows
Whereon the stars in secret influence comment;
When I perceive that men as plants increase,
Cheered and check'd even by the selfsame sky,
Vaunt in their youthful sap, at height decrease,
And wear their brave state out of memory;
Then the conceit of this inconstant stay
Sets you most rich in youth before my sight,
Where wasteful Time debateth with Decay
To change your day of youth to sullied night;
And all in war with Time for love of you,
As he takes from you, I engraft you new.

Sonnet 15
Shakespeare

 

[Beekeeper13]

The woman.

When I consider everything that grows
Holds in perfection but a little moment,
That this huge stage presenteth nought but shows
Whereon the stars in secret influence comment;
When I perceive that men as plants increase,
Cheered and check'd even by the selfsame sky,
Vaunt in their youthful sap, at height decrease,
And wear their brave state out of memory;
Then the conceit of this inconstant stay
Sets you most rich in youth before my sight,
Where wasteful Time debateth with Decay
To change your day of youth to sullied night;
And all in war with Time for love of you,
As he takes from you, I engraft you new.

Sonnet 15
Shakespeare

That is amazing, thank you for your thoughts.

 

[Beekeeper13]

Three so far say the woman. This is very interesting.

 

[Nick Briggs]

Woman...

(History in other threads and posts)
Women to me are for romance... love... public dates... open expressions of all associated things.

Men, the "highest level" they can achieve with me is "Best Friends who also let me suck their cock whenever we hang out" haha.

The perfect woman gets the "date" every single time.

 

[WilliamG]

The woman.

With me (like many bi men), it's just the sexual attraction for men. With the woman, there is a deeper emotion attached.

 

[Beekeeper13]

Thanks guys. I am enjoying your responses and explanations. Keep it up.

 

[GWAR]

A little more perspective for myself (me being "turned on"...a scale of 0 to 100):

When I see (or think of) a woman in lingerie or casually nude---> 200 (!)

When I see (or think of) a man in briefs or casually nude---> 100


In other words, I am really turned on by both, but a woman's breasts/nipples and the shadow of pubic hair showing through her panties...well, that just reaches a different level.

 

[williethefoo]

If I were single, I’d definitely choose the woman. But since I’ve been with my male partner for over 10 years, and we share a strong bond built on love and trust, I’d ideally want them to meet, get along, and build a connection. Eventually, I’d share my desire to explore a throuple dynamic with them.

My partner already knows I’m bisexual, and we’ve been in an open relationship for years, though we’ve never had a throuple experience or brought a woman into our dynamic. However, we’ve had a long-term FWB situation that’s still ongoing.

But if both or one of them can’t understand or accept this, I’ll still choose to stay with my partner, no matter what.

 

[latinluva]

Women

 

[elklindoxxx]

If the perfect man and woman walked up to you.
Would you take the man or the woman on the date, knowing the other person will disappear forever.

The woman....who is now my partner.