Choose one….

The woman.

When I consider everything that grows
Holds in perfection but a little moment,
That this huge stage presenteth nought but shows
Whereon the stars in secret influence comment;
When I perceive that men as plants increase,
Cheered and check'd even by the selfsame sky,
Vaunt in their youthful sap, at height decrease,
And wear their brave state out of memory;
Then the conceit of this inconstant stay
Sets you most rich in youth before my sight,
Where wasteful Time debateth with Decay
To change your day of youth to sullied night;
And all in war with Time for love of you,
As he takes from you, I engraft you new.

Sonnet 15
Shakespeare
 
The woman.

When I consider everything that grows
Holds in perfection but a little moment,
That this huge stage presenteth nought but shows
Whereon the stars in secret influence comment;
When I perceive that men as plants increase,
Cheered and check'd even by the selfsame sky,
Vaunt in their youthful sap, at height decrease,
And wear their brave state out of memory;
Then the conceit of this inconstant stay
Sets you most rich in youth before my sight,
Where wasteful Time debateth with Decay
To change your day of youth to sullied night;
And all in war with Time for love of you,
As he takes from you, I engraft you new.

Sonnet 15
Shakespeare
That is amazing, thank you for your thoughts.
 
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Woman...

(History in other threads and posts)
Women to me are for romance... love... public dates... open expressions of all associated things.

Men, the "highest level" they can achieve with me is "Best Friends who also let me suck their cock whenever we hang out" haha.

The perfect woman gets the "date" every single time.
 
A little more perspective for myself (me being "turned on"...a scale of 0 to 100):

When I see (or think of) a woman in lingerie or casually nude---> 200 (!)

When I see (or think of) a man in briefs or casually nude---> 100


In other words, I am really turned on by both, but a woman's breasts/nipples and the shadow of pubic hair showing through her panties...well, that just reaches a different level.
 
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If I were single, I’d definitely choose the woman. But since I’ve been with my male partner for over 10 years, and we share a strong bond built on love and trust, I’d ideally want them to meet, get along, and build a connection. Eventually, I’d share my desire to explore a throuple dynamic with them.

My partner already knows I’m bisexual, and we’ve been in an open relationship for years, though we’ve never had a throuple experience or brought a woman into our dynamic. However, we’ve had a long-term FWB situation that’s still ongoing.

But if both or one of them can’t understand or accept this, I’ll still choose to stay with my partner, no matter what.
 
If I had to make an instant decision, then the woman's beauty and beguiling attraction would sway me every time, as men do not have that effect on me.

But there'd be a little devil version of me on my shoulder whispering in my ear "pick him"
 
If I had to make an instant decision, then the woman's beauty and beguiling attraction would sway me every time, as men do not have that effect on me.

But there'd be a little devil version of me on my shoulder whispering in my ear "pick him"
So for me it about the person not the equipment, I can fall for a man or woman. I have been married to a woman and have two great kids. I recently ended a year long thing with a male model, he was amazing but spoiled. could not take No for an answer and also did not understand people change their minds. I wished him luck, but the boy needs to grow up and learn what real relationships are like. So for me I can't just pick one over the other. I mean I ended up dating a Trans SHE/Her was amazing to look at but under that dress hide a 9 inch cock. I fell for her after dating a while, the cock she hid was a bonus. But she headed over seas to get it removed and have working somewhat female parts. I could not blame her, I would have preferred she stay as she was and stay with me. Fuck I would have done anything for Her. The same goes for the model, I would have made his world/life fucking amazing. But I have to move on and have.
 
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The man…

With women it’s mostly just her sucking me some then me fucking her … never anything more that is more erotic for both her and me


The perfect man.. I like to treat his body like one big lollipop lick every inch from head to toe.. suck on anything sticking out.. nipples cock n balls .. fingers and toes .. and rimming his nice sweet hole a long long time
 
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If the perfect man and woman walked up to you.
Would you take the man or the woman on the date, knowing the other person will disappear forever.
A man. But he can't look or sound like bk. This man would really care about the LGBTQIA+ community. He'd be a person that's an advocate and doesn't use it as a shield. He show up with not empty words or actions. This man i'd go on a date with would be a man of his words and not hypocrital. And this man is lovely he wouldn't project homophobia. He would uplift men and not spread misandry. He communicates and doesn't bottle things in. I love to see him and his guy friends dressed in black I call them the men in black!. One other though I can't go on a date with a man if his name is Edgar. And shares a title the farmer some how.
 
A man. But he can't look or sound like bk. This man would really care about the LGBTQIA+ community. He'd be a person that's an advocate and doesn't use it as a shield. He show up with not empty words or actions. This man i'd go on a date with would be a man of his words and not hypocrital. And this man is lovely he wouldn't project homophobia. He would uplift men and not spread misandry. He communicates and doesn't bottle things in. I love to see him and his guy friends dressed in black I call them the men in black!. One other though I can't go on a date with a man if his name is Edgar. And shares a title the farmer some how.
And honesty I love that for me!. I'd be getting that man and his homies all bewildering about me. And not me singing lover girl by Megan Thee Stallion. I don't have to play ennie minnie minnie mo. I'll just be singing out loud MY MAN MY MAN MY MANS THESE HONEYS DKIN ME DOWN SPOLIN ME DRIVIN ME CRAZY!?.
 
If the perfect man and woman walked up to you.
Would you take the man or the woman on the date, knowing the other person will disappear forever.
The only thing that disappeared forever was my v card. Thank you for inspiring me to indulge in the men all that I want and need to. The gay men, bi men, pan men, even straight men. Let me know if you have gay friends or another men that want the power of the gay!?!. No matter position or role my versatility is 24/7 for the men's.