Have you heard of CMNM and are you into it?


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Wondering how much of a strange unicorn I am although we do have a small group on this site. How many of you guys have heard of or are into the CM-NM (clothed-man, naked man) form of exhibitionism/voyeurism? Basically this is a scene where only one guy is naked with other guy(s) who stay dressed. It takes a lot of forms, from being part of BDSM/SPH to muscle worship depending on how the NM is to be treated. There are some porn sites that either intentionally or inadvertantly include this kind of content and a lot of possible role-plays that can happen in real life. So wondering what your experience is. Stories in the comments!
 
I’ve really enjoyed the CMNM situations I’ve experienced, both as the CM and NM (though the NM is especially exciting). I agree it’s not an area with too much decent accessible content unfortunately.
 
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I like this idea too, but I don’t really have too many experiences. It happened once when I was in the shower room of my college dorm, and when I stepped out of the shower stall naked, I encountered a group of guys wearing suits and apparently preparing for a ceremony. They were all dressed up and I was the only guy naked. There’s nothing sexual but I just felt excited when they saw me in that situation.
 
In to this too mate. Started last summer when I went to a clothing optional beach. Stripped off, walked down to the sea and got stopped by a clothed mid 50’s couple who asked me the time (waterproof watch). Told them and had a 10 minute chat. They both kept looking me over and the wife lingered on my cock which was getting harder. They both said good on me for being so comfortable with my body and off they went. Looked down an I was dripping pre-cum. Since then been in to it
 
Of recent, I've become intrigued with CMNM environments. While I can't quite place my finger on it, something about it remains curious.

Taking a stab at it....
Recently I've been much more of a dedicated home nudist. A handful of my friends stop by and hang out in the nude as well, but a couple of them haven't stripped down until I've said that it was their choice to remain clothed or not.

And, while non of this (at least for me) is about a power play, I do feel that as the NM, I have much more control over the setting.

I also recall that last summer I was at a bar that was hosting a naked event. When it ended, I was chatting with a participant who had just re-dressed and patrons from the front bar started filtering in to the back bar. I was standing, naked, talking to this guy while other CM started filtering in. I recall wondering what the newly clothed arriving patrons must have thought about the situation.

A bit of an exhibitionist thing I suspect..... but even with that, it's not the overtness that I find intriguing. It's something else....
 
In to this too mate. Started last summer when I went to a clothing optional beach. Stripped off, walked down to the sea and got stopped by a clothed mid 50’s couple who asked me the time (waterproof watch). Told them and had a 10 minute chat. They both kept looking me over and the wife lingered on my cock which was getting harder. They both said good on me for being so comfortable with my body and off they went. Looked down an I was dripping pre-cum. Since then been in to it
Sounds an amazing experience you had, iv been to party’s beaches clubs love it
 
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Of recent, I've become intrigued with CMNM environments. While I can't quite place my finger on it, something about it remains curious.

Taking a stab at it....
Recently I've been much more of a dedicated home nudist. A handful of my friends stop by and hang out in the nude as well, but a couple of them haven't stripped down until I've said that it was their choice to remain clothed or not.

And, while non of this (at least for me) is about a power play, I do feel that as the NM, I have much more control over the setting.

I also recall that last summer I was at a bar that was hosting a naked event. When it ended, I was chatting with a participant who had just re-dressed and patrons from the front bar started filtering in to the back bar. I was standing, naked, talking to this guy while other CM started filtering in. I recall wondering what the newly clothed arriving patrons must have thought about the situation.

A bit of an exhibitionist thing I suspect..... but even with that, it's not the overtness that I find intriguing. It's something else....
Hi I really enjoy it, been to beaches clubs partying and at home with friends Who have turned up all I’ve been decorating
 
I'm a nudist with a bit of an exhibitionist streak and sometimes it's sexual for me, sometimes I don't feel like wearing clothes but the people around me are clothed, and sometimes it's just practical like me not wanting to put my clean towel against my dirty ass just because whoever designed my gym locker room put the sinks and toilets between the lockers and the showers.

I just wish the porn were better. I like it when it's just about exhibitionism or voyeurism, or the power dynamic is the CM telling the NM what to do, like medical stuff or strip searching prisoners, but the one CMNM site where everything is guys getting manhandled and humiliated kind of dominates any sort of search and their stuff doesn't do it for me.
 
I'm a nudist with a bit of an exhibitionist streak and sometimes it's sexual for me, sometimes I don't feel like wearing clothes but the people around me are clothed, and sometimes it's just practical like me not wanting to put my clean towel against my dirty ass just because whoever designed my gym locker room put the sinks and toilets between the lockers and the showers.

I just wish the porn were better. I like it when it's just about exhibitionism or voyeurism, or the power dynamic is the CM telling the NM what to do, like medical stuff or strip searching prisoners, but the one CMNM site where everything is guys getting manhandled and humiliated kind of dominates any sort of search and their stuff doesn't do it for me.
Yeah agreed. I would love to create movies that have an actual story line that is focused on a CMNM dynamic. I would also love to find guys to act out the fiction I write!
 
Over the past two years I've been running into a guy at the gym. Tall - maybe 6'- 1". Slender but toned. Darker complected. What originally caught my eye were his dark, hairy legs. Very handsome overall. Dark eyes. Thinning hair.

We'd occasionally acknowledge one another with a nod. We'd also pass one another on the street from time to time and it turns out he lives in the building next door. The last time I saw him at the gym I got the impression that he was purposefully attempting to stay within eye shot of me. A bit flirtatious I thought - but ever so subtle.

About a week ago, after having not seen him for about a month and thinking, perhaps, he'd moved, I ran into him at the gym. I walked to him, took out my headphones and said hello - noting that I had not seen him in some time. We chatted briefly. Very heavy accent. We exchanged names.

Yesterday evening my neighbor from across the street came by for drinks. We have always stripped down when we meet up for drinks - his place or mine. He'd just come back from a week at his parents house and we spent a couple hours catching up.

One thing led to another and I mentioned the guy from the gym. Following my description my buddy said that he knew who I was referring to - and when I said his name, yes, it was the same guy. So.... my buddy texted him and told him to come over for a drink.

"Should I tell him that we're naked?"
"Do you think it'll be a problem if he walks and and finds us naked?"
"Probably not - he's cool."

Not more than 15 minutes later there was a knock at the door and there he was. The doorman had let him in and up he came.

We fixed him a drink and he sat down - joining the conversation. He, fully clothed, and my buddy and I naked. He didn't flinch. Sat down - and joined the conversation. Completely unexpected. Never anticipated that he'd be in my apartment. Yes, I'd thought about how, over time, I might get to know him and likely he'd come over - being a neighbor.

He eventually stripped down - and continued conversing with both of us. But there it was, CMNM - out of the blue and completely unexpected.
 
I love the cmnm scene and have for many years. I suppose it's part of my streak of exhibitionism/voyeurism. Maybe it's because I've seen so much porn that I really am stimulated by the films of men naked while others are dressed. It could be a power film in which someone is forced to strip naked ( especially if it's in front of a group) or merely a model/photographer scene. This is what I'm talking about; I just find it more interesting than formulaic porn.... and it's real life, not fiction.

 
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I love CMNM as the CM. As part of my kinky hook-ups in London I often arrange CMNM roleplays, doctor/patient medical is a classic one, also a job interview between boss/employee where the employee must strip in order to keep his job. Tutor/student is another, where the student must strip in order to get the good grades and not be thrown out at the end of term. These are really enjoyable scenes for my guests and I, usually culminating in my boss/doctor/teacher character jerking off the NM, maybe with bondage but often without. Sometimes I get naked too and we get involved in more physical acts, making out, body worship, cock/ass sucking etc. It's a very enjoyable scene. I'm always happy to make new friends on the scene too so if anyone's ever visiting south-east London, do look me up!
 
My first boyfriend is the one who molded me sexually. He used to throw dinner parties or game nights for him and his friends and he always wanted me to be naked around them and I loved it because they were always complimentary about my body and I like being groped and it graduated to me being a houseboy not only at our house, but a few of his friends houses too
 
I love CMNM as the CM. As part of my kinky hook-ups in London I often arrange CMNM roleplays, doctor/patient medical is a classic one, also a job interview between boss/employee where the employee must strip in order to keep his job. Tutor/student is another, where the student must strip in order to get the good grades and not be thrown out at the end of term. These are really enjoyable scenes for my guests and I, usually culminating in my boss/doctor/teacher character jerking off the NM, maybe with bondage but often without. Sometimes I get naked too and we get involved in more physical acts, making out, body worship, cock/ass sucking etc. It's a very enjoyable scene. I'm always happy to make new friends on the scene too so if anyone's ever visiting south-east London, do look me up!
I live in East London.
if i am your type - i am up for fun ;)