It's late at night, and so this might not come out the way I mean it.. but there are times when I feel bad for guys because of the pressures society puts on you.
As a woman, if I want to touch another woman (even if it's totally non-sexual), it enhances my bedroom mystique for whoever else I might sleep with. If a guy so much as thinks about touching another guy, he gets hit with labels that hurt, from society or from that part of society that's been burned into our own minds. (And if he is gay and follows through to meet his needs, well.. the world's still too full of horror stories about what happens when that news hits the mainstream.)
Touch who you want to touch, as long as there's consent and everyone's the appropriate ages so nobody ends up in jail. Be smart about it and safe about it and careful about it - but don't let society close off an avenue for fun and exploration. Touching another guy doesn't "turn you" gay any more than touching the counter in McDonalds would "turn you" into a hamburger. If you weren't the hamburger before you touched, you ain't gonna be after.
Or so sayeth this sleepy old lady.