Dating Problems

WhiteRabbit8

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Ive recently had problems balancing my kinks and trying to date. I know I’m still young and new to this stuff but what’s the secret to introducing a new relationship to your own kinks/fetishes without scaring them off?
 
It really depends on the kink and the person. My kinks are relatively tame (leashing, collaring, long term domination over days). I usually got a sense of boundaries with a gradual progression, telling her what to wear on a date, a hand on her neck, a fistful of hair, etc… pushing the line until we find it.

From conversations with close friends and partners with other kinks, I think it comes down to the comfort level between those involved.

That’s a copout, but I think it’s a cliche for a reason.
 
Ive recently had problems balancing my kinks and trying to date. I know I’m still young and new to this stuff but what’s the secret to introducing a new relationship to your own kinks/fetishes without scaring them off?
I typically introduce them in the talking phase because I only date a very particular kind of man.