Describe what anal sex feels like for you. Describe the sensations, where you feel them, etc. Especially (but not exclusively) interested in hearing from guys that enjoy it even without masturbating/touching themselves. But for those who do masturbate, speak up too and describe how the anal sex enhances your masturbation as well as the sensations of the anal sex itself.
Describe what anal sex feels like for you
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I love it! It’s just the most amazing feeling—physically and psychologically: I love the sensation of being opened up by a cock. If it’s a new one, the anticipation of what it will feel like is the best, wondering how deep it will go. The best is when it hits up against my bladder and causes the sensation of having to pee or peeing. The idea of giving myself over to a guy to let him give it to me in the ass is extremely hot to me. I love that aspect of being on the submissive side. I don’t jerk off or touch myself when getting fucked, I just enjoy the cock inside of me. When the top is cumming, the best part is if I’m in a position to look at him in the eyes and watch the look on his face as he pumps me full of his very essence. I always want them to linger a bit before pulling out, or when a guy will leave it in me until he gets soft. I’ve even been lucky enough to have one or two guys get hard again still inside me and then use their own cum as new lube to have a second go! Now I’m hard…
I love the feeling of a tight hole wrapped around my dick. I love that hole drawing back slowing on my shaft when I pull out. I love the look in their eyes when I first enter. Their pupils dilate. I love to watch the goose bumps and their hair stand up when I push a little further and get through the next sphincter. Feels amazing.
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As a top. I love the feeling of a tight hole clenching on my dick and also how the hole eventually becomes open and sloppy due to the my continuous thrusts.
I hate to put it so crassly, but if you want the straightforward truth, you already know what it feels like if you've ever defecated and really enjoyed it. Just imagine experiencing that pleasure back and forth over and over again. That's the only way I can literally describe the physical sensation.
Of course, sex is better because of the intimacy. Personally, I'm not the type of bottom who desperately feels the urge to ram just about anything in my hole, and I don't really understand those who seem to take it to a fetishistic level. That's like some Freudian anal fixation thing, and I'm not a psychoanalyst.
Not trying to be judgmental, just being 100% honest. Other people can do whatever they want even if I don't get it.
Of course, sex is better because of the intimacy. Personally, I'm not the type of bottom who desperately feels the urge to ram just about anything in my hole, and I don't really understand those who seem to take it to a fetishistic level. That's like some Freudian anal fixation thing, and I'm not a psychoanalyst.
Not trying to be judgmental, just being 100% honest. Other people can do whatever they want even if I don't get it.
Defecation is not a feel good act, sorry. It’s just a bodily function.
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Topping - it feels amazing pushing my hard cock into his tight hole and the feeling of warmth from his hole around my cock, watching him go cross eyed as i enter. the clenching of his hole around my cock each forward trust inside him and him riding my cock.
The reach around to pleasure his cock as I fuck him going fast getting into the rhythm of each others bodies the feeling of been one The togetherness of sharing a intimate moment of connection, the body contact, the noise of flash on flesh and the movement of climax as i fill him with my load and fucking to get ever last drop inside him seeing it come out at the side as we fuck then afterwards seeing his gaping hole open and close.
Bottoming- the anticipation of him entering my tight hole me giving myself over to him the feeling of him as entering the sharp snap of pain , the moment of intense pleasure of him getting deeper, the feeling of his hard cock inside me his pubes brushing my ass.
When he shoots the loads the instant feeling of warmth inside me
The reach around to pleasure his cock as I fuck him going fast getting into the rhythm of each others bodies the feeling of been one The togetherness of sharing a intimate moment of connection, the body contact, the noise of flash on flesh and the movement of climax as i fill him with my load and fucking to get ever last drop inside him seeing it come out at the side as we fuck then afterwards seeing his gaping hole open and close.
Bottoming- the anticipation of him entering my tight hole me giving myself over to him the feeling of him as entering the sharp snap of pain , the moment of intense pleasure of him getting deeper, the feeling of his hard cock inside me his pubes brushing my ass.
When he shoots the loads the instant feeling of warmth inside me
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I’m a top. Entry is usually pretty intense, as I am trying to gauge the bottom’s level of comfort with the pressure I’m feeling all around my cock. Inexperienced bottoms or ones that took a bit of a break are usually so tight that the squeeze almost feels painful, but the intense sensation tends to make my cock even harder. I try not to throb, as it tends to be a bit much for the btm at the moment. Once I gingerly ease my cock all the way in by going 1 inch forward 0.5 inch back, all while kissing and caressing the bottom, I stay still for a while, feeling the sphincter muscle melt around my cock. Then I pull most of the way out and ease back in again, this time with less difficulty, hopefully, and more pleasure for the bottom, as the pressure becomes less a quivering death grip and more a submissive “holding on” to my cock. This “submission” signals to me that the hole is ready for a bit more thrusting.
Towards the anus end, especially when I’m very stoned, I can almost visualise my cockhead sliding past or pushing against the prostate. As I slowly move my hips and carefully angle my cock, the pressure change causes the prostate to tighten into sort of a knot that I can massage and tease and push against.
Past the prostate, the passage is a bit wider, and looser without the powerful sphincter muscles. The texture of the walls feels similar to the underside of the tongue sliding on my cockhead, slick, every so slightly rippling, and warm. The deeper you go, the warmer it gets.
As I thrust to the deepest that I can push, my pubic bone firmly presses against the bottom’s warm perianal area and ass cheeks. The more muscular the bottom is, the more intense this pressure feels, while fat provides a softer embrace. It can hurt with very skinny (read: boney) bottoms. This tends to cause the bottom to first tighten, then relax, further loosening the grip.
Bu this point, most bottoms are ready for ruthless ramming and jackhammering, which can create friction on the cockhead. This isn’t particularly my jam, as it could easy become overwhelming and is very likely irritating the bottom’s linings, making longer sessions uncomfortable for them. Though, it can be the fast track to cumming, so many bottoms habitually just seem to take it and get ready for breeding.
I often don’t even cum during sex, so these days I mostly try to stay in the prostate massage while peppering some deeper strokes here and there to keep the bottoms on their toes, either til I get them til they cum, or they get overwhelmed with the prostate pressure and ask for a break.
Edit: this is all referring to the missionary position, where I feel I reach the deepest. Positions like doggy or cowgirl usually feels quite different, the former feeling less tight and less deep, and the latter feeling a bit cock-bendy/breaky when the bottom moves forwards and backwards.
Towards the anus end, especially when I’m very stoned, I can almost visualise my cockhead sliding past or pushing against the prostate. As I slowly move my hips and carefully angle my cock, the pressure change causes the prostate to tighten into sort of a knot that I can massage and tease and push against.
Past the prostate, the passage is a bit wider, and looser without the powerful sphincter muscles. The texture of the walls feels similar to the underside of the tongue sliding on my cockhead, slick, every so slightly rippling, and warm. The deeper you go, the warmer it gets.
As I thrust to the deepest that I can push, my pubic bone firmly presses against the bottom’s warm perianal area and ass cheeks. The more muscular the bottom is, the more intense this pressure feels, while fat provides a softer embrace. It can hurt with very skinny (read: boney) bottoms. This tends to cause the bottom to first tighten, then relax, further loosening the grip.
Bu this point, most bottoms are ready for ruthless ramming and jackhammering, which can create friction on the cockhead. This isn’t particularly my jam, as it could easy become overwhelming and is very likely irritating the bottom’s linings, making longer sessions uncomfortable for them. Though, it can be the fast track to cumming, so many bottoms habitually just seem to take it and get ready for breeding.
I often don’t even cum during sex, so these days I mostly try to stay in the prostate massage while peppering some deeper strokes here and there to keep the bottoms on their toes, either til I get them til they cum, or they get overwhelmed with the prostate pressure and ask for a break.
Edit: this is all referring to the missionary position, where I feel I reach the deepest. Positions like doggy or cowgirl usually feels quite different, the former feeling less tight and less deep, and the latter feeling a bit cock-bendy/breaky when the bottom moves forwards and backwards.
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Amazing writing! Best yet from a top’s perspective. Very grphic/descriptive! Thank you.
We need to hear from botttoms in the same manner!
You're the only top here who actually talks about bottoms like they're intimate partners — even human beings — not just "holes."
You're the holy grail of tops. Or, at least, close enough.
I am more passive . In my beginnings I was active only as I was afraid of being passive.
Active fucking gives me a power over the passive one. Good feeling to give the other one happiness.
Passive fucking for me is more personal... I am offering all I can give to the active part. And his power runs through all my body
Active fucking gives me a power over the passive one. Good feeling to give the other one happiness.
Passive fucking for me is more personal... I am offering all I can give to the active part. And his power runs through all my body
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Let me try describing the sensations from a bottom's perspective. The experience I'm about to describe was with a guy who had the perfect size, girth and upwards curve - so it was the best experience I had in missionary position.
Starting with making out with me lying under the top, feeling the warmth of his body and his hard cock needily grinding against me. I can't even recall when or how my legs spread and I can feel him grinding against my hole. He pauses while looking for confirmation in my eyes to go on and as I nod I feel the pressure against my hole. I can feel his cockhead slowly penetrate through and by the time his cockhead is fully inside an intense sharp pain couses through my body. The top sees this and slowly moves out, making out with me more until the pain subsides before he tries again, looking for confirmation.
I try to relax more and he slowly enters me. This time I feel no pain at all, only his cockhead sliding past the ring of muscles effortlessly and brushes over my sweet spot, causes an intense pleasant sensation. It feels like you're almost about to bust a nut and I can't help but moan silently. As he pushes all the way in and past the sweet spot the pleasant feeling subsides and I can feel how hard and warm his cock feels. I can feel each throb of pleasure of his cock and it makes it press against my sweet spot causing short pleasant sensations.
At this point I feel like I can just let go of all control and the body is in autopilot, knowing what it needs to do - and begging for more of that pleasant sensation.
Sex as a bottom, when done with a good top feels like intense edging, like you're just a second from cumming. I was never a fan of "jackhammering" as the feeling can get literally painful and just too much. But if the top catches my rythm it's the best thing ever.
You can also feel the top getting close, as the thrusts become shorter and their pupils dilate, their grip on you tightens, breathing becomes fast and sharp. This top would constantly thrust against my sweet spot when he was close, so we could climaxe at the same time.
Best top ever haha
Starting with making out with me lying under the top, feeling the warmth of his body and his hard cock needily grinding against me. I can't even recall when or how my legs spread and I can feel him grinding against my hole. He pauses while looking for confirmation in my eyes to go on and as I nod I feel the pressure against my hole. I can feel his cockhead slowly penetrate through and by the time his cockhead is fully inside an intense sharp pain couses through my body. The top sees this and slowly moves out, making out with me more until the pain subsides before he tries again, looking for confirmation.
I try to relax more and he slowly enters me. This time I feel no pain at all, only his cockhead sliding past the ring of muscles effortlessly and brushes over my sweet spot, causes an intense pleasant sensation. It feels like you're almost about to bust a nut and I can't help but moan silently. As he pushes all the way in and past the sweet spot the pleasant feeling subsides and I can feel how hard and warm his cock feels. I can feel each throb of pleasure of his cock and it makes it press against my sweet spot causing short pleasant sensations.
At this point I feel like I can just let go of all control and the body is in autopilot, knowing what it needs to do - and begging for more of that pleasant sensation.
Sex as a bottom, when done with a good top feels like intense edging, like you're just a second from cumming. I was never a fan of "jackhammering" as the feeling can get literally painful and just too much. But if the top catches my rythm it's the best thing ever.
You can also feel the top getting close, as the thrusts become shorter and their pupils dilate, their grip on you tightens, breathing becomes fast and sharp. This top would constantly thrust against my sweet spot when he was close, so we could climaxe at the same time.
Best top ever haha
I'll give you my experience on what it feels like for me to bottom and cum from just anal sex alone, without stroking my cock.
To preface, what works for me is not universal. But I enjoy a more average sized dick. Especially a nice, fat head on the end - perfect for hitting my spot. If he has an upward curve, fuck yes. Whether missionary or riding him on top, I find face-to-face allows the best angle to hit my prostate right, plus it's just hotter and more intimate and he can thrust better.
The entry is intense sometimes, as one top mentioned above. It either involves a brief pain from the spasm when my hole clenches down, or it slides in really really easily and completely and utterly painless. Usually it's somewhere in between for me, but more on the painless side. I found if I lube my hole good before he goes in, rather than just putting lube on his cock, works best. If my sphincter is really tight or there's any pain, usually pulling out almost entirely then going back in relaxes it.
There's a point after a few seconds when the internal sphincter, which is under involuntary control, just relaxes completely. This is when the whole game changes.
Those first strokes after my hole relaxes, taking his penis all the way to the balls, is a feeling that lacks adequate words to describe. It feels right on a primal level, like this is what I'm supposed to be doing. Taking a dude's dick up my fuckin ass. It literally takes my breath away for a moment. It feels perfect. Extremely satisfying. I love to grab onto his thighs or ass and pull him in and just hold him there. It's like the ultimate male-bonding experience, the closest I can be to another man. By this time he's usually throbbing a bit from his own excitement, which is just awesome to feel inside me. The entire moment - the intimacy, the vulnerability of it, the eye contact and smiles, the letting go mentally, holding onto another man who I'm really into, the male energy between us - is just as good as the penetration itself.
His dick sliding back and forth feels good against my hole, and the sensation of him filling my rectum is incredible. But nothing compares to how he feels against my prostate.
Holy shit.
From that first relaxed stroke, it's like I'm on the edge of cumming the entire time. I can feel the ridges of his fat glans slide across my prostate. It sends me into a sort of trance. My dick stays rock hard from it. The mechanics of the fucking really depend on the mood. Sometimes I love the sensation of going slow, him being intuitive and figuring out where to hit and slowly sliding back and forth across my prostate, which by this point is engorged and hard, making it easy for him to feel and hit just right. Other times, I like to ride him and work his cock, being in control, grinding his cockhead hard and slow against it. And other times, I just want him to hit that spot as hard and fast as he can and just fucking crush my prostate. No matter what, I am rock hard this entire time. I don't jerk off, I feel like it "transfers" the sensation from my prostate into my dick and it's not the same.
This is when being really into it is key. The hornier I am, the better. I can turn into a fucking animal. This obviously depends on your personal preference and what turns you on. The sensation overwhelms me. As I said earlier the whole time feels like I'm on the verge of an orgasm, like perpetual edging. Cock rock hard, leaking pre cum like crazy. And then that feeling finally happens - I know if he keeps going, I'm gonna cum. At this point I've already lost control. I am probably making noises I didn't know I could. It's like I am incapable of what's happening to me.
And then it happens. A pure anal hands-free prostate orgasm. I hold on for dear life.
First I feel it in my prostate. It's like a white-hot, internal feeling. Imagine all the best orgasms you've ever had from jerking off. Now package that into a super dense ball, radiating from inside you. I feel it deep inside my rectum, which clenches down hard on his cock. My anal sphincter becomes a vice grip. And I just fucking explode. I cum HARD. I shoot huge ropes of cum. The pleasure radiates out from my prostate and feels so fucking incredible in my ass, traveling up my hard dick, pulsating as I shoot. Sometimes my legs shake. I've almost blacked out during it. I can't adequately describe how good this feels. It does not even compare to a penile-only orgasm, not even close. It is so much richer, deeper, and more satisfying. And for me, and why I love anal sex so much, is that every time this happens to me it feels just as good as the first time.
Tops don't seem to last much longer after this. I love when tops also lose control and moan really loud as they're about to cum inside me. The hottest sex I have is when the top grabs onto me while he cums. I can't feel the cum hitting my walls inside because we don't have the nerve endings for that but I feel the warmth of it and feel him pulsing. My favorite is when he pushes in all the way when he cums, so I feel his tight balls right against my hole and can feel them pulse against me. I love when tops leave it in deep and hold it until their last cock quiver fades.
It honestly might be the best feeling there is.
To preface, what works for me is not universal. But I enjoy a more average sized dick. Especially a nice, fat head on the end - perfect for hitting my spot. If he has an upward curve, fuck yes. Whether missionary or riding him on top, I find face-to-face allows the best angle to hit my prostate right, plus it's just hotter and more intimate and he can thrust better.
The entry is intense sometimes, as one top mentioned above. It either involves a brief pain from the spasm when my hole clenches down, or it slides in really really easily and completely and utterly painless. Usually it's somewhere in between for me, but more on the painless side. I found if I lube my hole good before he goes in, rather than just putting lube on his cock, works best. If my sphincter is really tight or there's any pain, usually pulling out almost entirely then going back in relaxes it.
There's a point after a few seconds when the internal sphincter, which is under involuntary control, just relaxes completely. This is when the whole game changes.
Those first strokes after my hole relaxes, taking his penis all the way to the balls, is a feeling that lacks adequate words to describe. It feels right on a primal level, like this is what I'm supposed to be doing. Taking a dude's dick up my fuckin ass. It literally takes my breath away for a moment. It feels perfect. Extremely satisfying. I love to grab onto his thighs or ass and pull him in and just hold him there. It's like the ultimate male-bonding experience, the closest I can be to another man. By this time he's usually throbbing a bit from his own excitement, which is just awesome to feel inside me. The entire moment - the intimacy, the vulnerability of it, the eye contact and smiles, the letting go mentally, holding onto another man who I'm really into, the male energy between us - is just as good as the penetration itself.
His dick sliding back and forth feels good against my hole, and the sensation of him filling my rectum is incredible. But nothing compares to how he feels against my prostate.
Holy shit.
From that first relaxed stroke, it's like I'm on the edge of cumming the entire time. I can feel the ridges of his fat glans slide across my prostate. It sends me into a sort of trance. My dick stays rock hard from it. The mechanics of the fucking really depend on the mood. Sometimes I love the sensation of going slow, him being intuitive and figuring out where to hit and slowly sliding back and forth across my prostate, which by this point is engorged and hard, making it easy for him to feel and hit just right. Other times, I like to ride him and work his cock, being in control, grinding his cockhead hard and slow against it. And other times, I just want him to hit that spot as hard and fast as he can and just fucking crush my prostate. No matter what, I am rock hard this entire time. I don't jerk off, I feel like it "transfers" the sensation from my prostate into my dick and it's not the same.
This is when being really into it is key. The hornier I am, the better. I can turn into a fucking animal. This obviously depends on your personal preference and what turns you on. The sensation overwhelms me. As I said earlier the whole time feels like I'm on the verge of an orgasm, like perpetual edging. Cock rock hard, leaking pre cum like crazy. And then that feeling finally happens - I know if he keeps going, I'm gonna cum. At this point I've already lost control. I am probably making noises I didn't know I could. It's like I am incapable of what's happening to me.
And then it happens. A pure anal hands-free prostate orgasm. I hold on for dear life.
First I feel it in my prostate. It's like a white-hot, internal feeling. Imagine all the best orgasms you've ever had from jerking off. Now package that into a super dense ball, radiating from inside you. I feel it deep inside my rectum, which clenches down hard on his cock. My anal sphincter becomes a vice grip. And I just fucking explode. I cum HARD. I shoot huge ropes of cum. The pleasure radiates out from my prostate and feels so fucking incredible in my ass, traveling up my hard dick, pulsating as I shoot. Sometimes my legs shake. I've almost blacked out during it. I can't adequately describe how good this feels. It does not even compare to a penile-only orgasm, not even close. It is so much richer, deeper, and more satisfying. And for me, and why I love anal sex so much, is that every time this happens to me it feels just as good as the first time.
Tops don't seem to last much longer after this. I love when tops also lose control and moan really loud as they're about to cum inside me. The hottest sex I have is when the top grabs onto me while he cums. I can't feel the cum hitting my walls inside because we don't have the nerve endings for that but I feel the warmth of it and feel him pulsing. My favorite is when he pushes in all the way when he cums, so I feel his tight balls right against my hole and can feel them pulse against me. I love when tops leave it in deep and hold it until their last cock quiver fades.
It honestly might be the best feeling there is.
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I am a bottom but have only ever used dildos. How would I get myself ready for a guy to penetrate me?
