DEVASTATED: A man fell in love with the wrong man, how to heal?

calvin_jef

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I am not a good writer but this story happened to me in the last 3 months and I am devastated . Met a guy on Sniff app, we both bi, and I am married to a W. The guy reached out to me, we met, had sex, and went dating one night, but the guy suddenly disappear. I found him using XYZ sources to find out he was a Priest, I accepted him and continue dating until he found out that he was falling in love with me and ended everything. I fell used and dirty, and told him how I feel. Things end up badly, we don’t talk to each other as he cannot fall in love and must attach to living a celibate life. However, I did fall in love and I am devastated. How can I heal fast?
 
I’m going to be honest: I’m not sure there’s a quick fix. But if you give it time, it really does heal all wounds.

It also sounds like there’s more going on than meets the eye. You mentioned being married to a woman. Are you satisfied in your marriage? Does she know that you’re bi and/or that you’ve been having sex with guys? For the record, there’s no judgment from my end; I just bring it up because it sounds like that may be part of the reason why this hit you so hard.
 
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