Difficulty Finding Size Queens?

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The straight guys I know who identify as having a huge cock (whether I've seen it or a 3rd party has verified it to me through some means or they just claim they do) say that most women aren't size queens in bed, even if they are attracted to the sight of a huge cock and are relatively decent at sucking them. They'd rather opt for an average or slightly above average cock so that discomfort and/or pain becomes less likely.

If you're straight and above 8", have you had difficulty finding women who enjoy being penetrated by guys your size? If "difficulty" doesn't quite fit, would you say you frequently run into more women who can't take your cock than ones who can or do you disagree with this viewpoint entirely?
 
I've not been with someone who would call herself a size queen. I also don't really care for it much. I have sex with people I form a connection with not because the love the size of my cock haha. And most girls can take me after some patience and good foreplay, sometimes I have to be a bit more careful but I don't mind that
 
Disclaimer : >>>> I do not have an 8 inch or larger penis.

Some woman can find discomfort even with a 6 inch penis, Should the conditions / preparations / there is not enough foreplay; or she has a partner who is only thinking about how hard and deep he can penetrate her.
 
Woman don’t pick guys for size because they don’t know. And regardless of size if you don’t know what you are doing it is not good for a women. As I man with a relatively large penis most women can take it if you know what you are doing. If a woman is intimidated by your size then you allow them to get on top to control penetration. Eventually they will adjust to size or just take what they need and almost always if the connection is there, both parties will enjoy it.
 
Woman don’t pick guys for size because they don’t know. And regardless of size if you don’t know what you are doing it is not good for a women. As I man with a relatively large penis most women can take it if you know what you are doing. If a woman is intimidated by your size then you allow them to get on top to control penetration. Eventually they will adjust to size or just take what they need and almost always if the connection is there, both parties will enjoy it.
Except sometimes they do know...
They don't tend to hold back when talking to their friends. When I first got with my ex she thought it was just a done off and told her friends, one of her friedns knew my sister so even she found out! I went out with my sister and her friend once, my sister went home and I was left with her rather drunk friend, she suddenly started asking about my big cock and got a bit carried away trying to put her hand down my pants in the bar saying she wants to feel my big dick!
She was very embarrassed the next day!
 
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I know a guy who is horse hung and he says that they are very few size queens out there and that has caused him difficulties.

After he has stretched out his partners he has to give then a week or two to recover.

Given he is 18 he has a high sex drive so he needs to have 15 or 20 women to allow them to recover between sessions. He says it is a lot of work to organize things.
 
I would say most women like the look of a big dick. The side turns on most women but not all. When you’re actually fucking, I would say most women like the thickness but not the depth. I would say about one and 10 really like it deep but those one and 10 really like it. Like they crave it and will do anything to get big dick.
 
It wasn’t difficult to find women that wanted to have sex, they mostly just don’t care about size as a determining factor. There have been several questions about if it will fit or not, and soreness is an issue at times, but if there are into you, it won’t matter unless you want to “pound away”. To put it another way, I don’t think I got laid directly because I’m big. There were a few dates where we ended up not having sex because of apprehension though.

As far as size queens, I think there are mostly just talking trash. It’s an ego thing for some of them.

Disclaimer: I had dozens of partners before marriage. Most of them were, for lack of a better term, marriage material. Some of my buddies that hook up with OnlyFans type social media duck face chicks say there is more interest in size, but still a small amount.

Probably much like dudes. Guys that want a relationship care about different things than guys that want to fuck. I was always more attracted to athleticism, sense of humor, and generally the (genuine) next door type. Some of my trashbag buddies love fake tits and short dresses and women that look like they are in training to be a Real Housewife of Local Municipality.

Women are different in that same way, but a higher percentage are into relationships over flings.
 
from personal experience, women don't really care unless you're very much under or over the average size.

that being said, imho (and i might be mistaken not being a woman), a vast majority of girls are, some just don't know it yet, and only a very tiny minority truelly don't want anything to do with big ones.

and i mean big ones of course, not true monster cocks in the double digits range, those would indeed make a bunch if not the majority of average women call it quit the bigger it get.

but heh, i think that's the kind of problem barely 5% of guys might encounter and defenetly not with every girls they might have sex with.

from personal experience, it might be an issue with your first sexual partners, or for getting a girl into anal for the first time, but my size is yet to be a complete turn off for anybody i've been with.

the ones who cared the most about it are often counter intuitive funny enough.
two biggest i've been with were teens, one korean and my current one (redhead),
t-girls seem to really be into big ones aswell, now of course no one beat guys when it come to that lol ^^

but i would argue there's far more sizequeens now than there was before, mostly due to such easy access to porn, it doesn't take long for the average girl to see a few real big ones, and very often it become a fantasm, among others, to at least try it once if only to feel the difference.

from what i've been told having this discution with a few girls, just like most of us, women are turned on by the idea of the challenge, and just like we love it nice and tight, they love feeling really filled/stretched up.
 
One of my best friends has a straight up mutant cock. Like it’s massive, probably hangs around 7” maybe more and he’s a sold 9” hard. He turns for 40 this year and he’s still single because no women he’s met wants to have sex with him on a consistent basis. He can get laid pretty much whenever because there’s always a woman curious about it, but they never want to stick around.

It’s too bad, he’s a great guy. I know specifically two of his ex’s broke up with him because of his dick.

He’s a pretty regular guy not necessarily into a ton of kinky stuff, he just wants a regular relationship. The few women he has dated who were proper size queens were also into way more kinky stuff than him and kinda used him like a trophy. I think that made him really uncomfortable honestly and kinda turned him off to women who identify that way.
 
Size queens are rare for sure
they would rarely admit it unless they're with a guy who actually huge himself.
they know we are very touchy when it come to that.

the famous "it's just the right size, big ones hurts anyways".

but imho you can put that one on the same shelf as "only interior beauty matter" ;)
 
Nah man, while too big isn’t really true anatomically, it is a thing.

I’m hung, athletic, cute, and funny. Pre-marriage, the compliments went in reverse order of that list. Now married, my size is one of the last things my wife compliments me about. Because why the fuck is it a compliment? It’s like my blonde hair, but less significant.

Well, humble is usually the first compliment, obviously.
 
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they would rarely admit it unless they're with a guy who actually huge himself.
they know we are very touchy when it come to that.

the famous "it's just the right size, big ones hurts anyways".

but imho you can put that one on the same shelf as "only interior beauty matter" ;)
It’s very rare. Most women aren’t built for 7 inches length 6 inches girth. Only one women I have been with was a legit size queen. She can be pounded at any speed and roughness, she needed big cock gangbang with big cock. She was definitely an outlier.
 
The straight guys I know who identify as having a huge cock (whether I've seen it or a 3rd party has verified it to me through some means or they just claim they do) say that most women aren't size queens in bed, even if they are attracted to the sight of a huge cock and are relatively decent at sucking them. They'd rather opt for an average or slightly above average cock so that discomfort and/or pain becomes less likely.

If you're straight and above 8", have you had difficulty finding women who enjoy being penetrated by guys your size? If "difficulty" doesn't quite fit, would you say you frequently run into more women who can't take your cock than ones who can or do you disagree with this viewpoint entirely?
Over these nine months, I’ve had two steady female partners who have no problem taking me because we make sure that they are ready to receive my member physically, as well as emotionally by me seducing them and spending a lot of time on foreplay; makes for a nice enjoyable time…

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So, I wouldn't say I intentionally seek out "size queens." part of that feels a little pretentious. I will say, from my experience a lot of women do tend to find 7-7.5 inches ideal/more comfortable. So, It can be challenging finding women who enjoy taking all of me balls deep.
 
Couples things: 1) thinking you are a size queen and being a true size queen are different things. Being turned on by size does not make you a size queen. A size queen has to be able to take big cock in any position for a decent duration without tapping out. For example, I tell my wife she is a size queen, but there are positions she can’t handle me and/or she can tap out from other positions just from hard fucking. She does better than most women, but still not perfect.

2) what the fuck do you care if she is a true size queen. The question of if I can fuck someone with their legs over my shoulders for an hour to make me happy is not valid. Yeah - fine it’s great, but I am not going to holdout and have that as the final detail for consideration.

My wife can’t get half my cock in her mouth, but she loves to suck cock. I’m not going to hold out waiting for someone to deepthroat me. No one has ever been able to deepthroat me even though several thought they could. Just enjoy the ride :p