Do endowed men have a higher sex drive?

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hiiii just wanted to ask something that’s always been a question of mine. I’ve dated a few guys who were very blessed down there, and in my experience… they wanted sex probably 3 times as much as guys I’ve dated who were average. Is this common? Do guys with big dicks have higher sex drives? I’ve also noticed that the endowed guys I’ve been with are more attracted to big tits/big butts than their smaller counterparts. I know men can be attracted to any type of person but I’ve always been curious about that too. Thanks for reading!! <3
 
I can't speak for anyone else, but I can say being well endowed has been a huge part of why I have been pretty promiscuous. The first reactions alone are a buzz.
Is it perhaps because you are more secure to disrobe?
 
hiiii just wanted to ask something that’s always been a question of mine. I’ve dated a few guys who were very blessed down there, and in my experience… they wanted sex probably 3 times as much as guys I’ve dated who were average. Is this common? Do guys with big dicks have higher sex drives? I’ve also noticed that the endowed guys I’ve been with are more attracted to big tits/big butts than their smaller counterparts. I know men can be attracted to any type of person but I’ve always been curious about that too. Thanks for reading!! <3
I don't know if the size of a guys dick makes them have a higher or lower sex drive or not. I use be a regular at a sports bar where I lived and every so often when the bar closed one of the waitresses would come back to my place for a nightcap. I recall one of them was telling me she knew I had been with one of the other waitresses. So I asked what did she said about me. She told me the other waitress said that I had "...big dick."
 
I can't speak for anyone else, but I can say being well endowed has been a huge part of why I have been pretty promiscuous. The first reactions alone are a buzz.
I've read about your various experiences for years now, how many women have you had sex with now? Have you ever been married and had a family or have you always been a bachelor?
 
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As rope said, personally my size has been a leading contributor to how much sex i have had, in my 20s i never had a serious relationship because i would get bored quickly and want something new so i always had a group of women that was ready and willing
 
I've read about your various experiences for years now, how many women have you had sex with now? Have you ever been married and had a family or have you always been a bachelor?

I've read about your various experiences for years now, how many women have you had sex with now? Have you ever been married and had a family or have you always been a bachelor?
Just shy of 150. I've been married twice, for a total of about 20 years. I was off the market during those years, which in retrospect, seems like a mistake.
 
I think dick size can get you more options but as far as the drive itself, I don’t think so.

Given the number of pornstars who identify as nerds (from an old interview with Peter North I read years ago) I think it’s more a reflection of channeling extra energy (anxiety?) into sex.

I’m specifically thinking of thin/skinny classic nerd types who have or had an anxious personality. Most of the kinky/poly/sex tape dudes I know fit that description.

And most of them have smaller to average cocks.

I guess what I’m saying is regardless of dick size I think skinny, nerdy dudes are the real horn dogs. :joy:
 
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hiiii just wanted to ask something that’s always been a question of mine. I’ve dated a few guys who were very blessed down there, and in my experience… they wanted sex probably 3 times as much as guys I’ve dated who were average. Is this common? Do guys with big dicks have higher sex drives? I’ve also noticed that the endowed guys I’ve been with are more attracted to big tits/big butts than their smaller counterparts. I know men can be attracted to any type of person but I’ve always been curious about that too. Thanks for reading!! <3
I am certain that it was determined long ago through scientific study that penis size and the male sex drive are unrelated.
 
hiiii just wanted to ask something that’s always been a question of mine. I’ve dated a few guys who were very blessed down there, and in my experience… they wanted sex probably 3 times as much as guys I’ve dated who were average. Is this common? Do guys with big dicks have higher sex drives? I’ve also noticed that the endowed guys I’ve been with are more attracted to big tits/big butts than their smaller counterparts. I know men can be attracted to any type of person but I’ve always been curious about that too. Thanks for reading!! <3
I don't know. I'm only a little bigger than the supposed average but I've been told by numerous of my past and present partners that my drive was among the highest of anyone they'd been with. I don't get into the details about this big guy vs this littler guy, but I'm not sure size specifically has much to do with it.

I'd say, if anything, confidence is a bigger part of that than anything and cock size can certainly play a part in that.
 
hiiii just wanted to ask something that’s always been a question of mine. I’ve dated a few guys who were very blessed down there, and in my experience… they wanted sex probably 3 times as much as guys I’ve dated who were average. Is this common? Do guys with big dicks have higher sex drives?
I don't think there's any correlation whatsoever. I've always had a high sex drive, even when I had no idea at the time I was considered well endowed. My sex drive also fluctuates depending of relationship status, health, stress, time of day, time of month, and a hundred other factors.

I will tell you that being in a relationship that involves sex, means I want to have sex whenever I'm with that person. Yes, there's that 'honeymoon' period where you're fucking all the time, but even after being with a woman for years, I still would at least have the desire to be sexual with her, every time I am in her presence.

Libido is a function of body chemistry and likely psychological factors as well. I doubt if it has anything to do with a guy's 2 inch or 8 inch penis.

I’ve also noticed that the endowed guys I’ve been with are more attracted to big tits/big butts than their smaller counterparts. I know men can be attracted to any type of person but I’ve always been curious about that too. Thanks for reading!! <3
There's plenty of straight me here on LPSG that have expressed interests if all kinds of shapes and body types of women, ranging from super skinny and flat chested to women who are morbidly obese, and everything in between. My personal preference is for naturally busty women, with curves in all the right places, but not heavy or grossly overweight women. I like the classic bombshell look. BTW, you fall into that category!
 
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I think most men on average have a much higher sex drive than most average women, I also think beyond the body positive rhetoric, most well endowed men will be granted more chances on average to act upon that sex drive than average men, and so rarely deviate from the propensity; wherein average men tend to figure out very quickly the majority of their sexual interest is not reciprocated and learn to attenuate the urge to match the demand, and society's behavioral expectations for sexually undesirable men.
It wouldn't surprise me that men whom were average to small but highly sexually sought after due to other metrics (height, jawline, build, socioeconomic status) are probably reported to have just as much as a drive as well endowed men.
 
I have a high sex drive... always have... but I think that's it's tough to say why that's the case as each individual man only has his personal sex drive to compare it with.

This might be more of a question for people who have sex with men?
 
I doubt it.

I don't know if it's because my sex drive is higher or because the size of my cock has created so many opportunities with so many partners but having a lot of sex became a habit when I was young and has run my entire adult life.

Partners don't come to my house for tea & crumpets. They come here to fuck.