Do I Need Medical Help About Not Getting Horny When Sucked?

[Passandre92]

Hey guys

Recently me and my husband were taking about our sex frequency, and we ended by realizing that he is a Top that loves sucking dick and because I don't get horny being sucked (generally) he loses his boner and get a bit upset. So I am a 100% bottom and want to have sex more frequently, but now I realized why we were not having a lot of sex.

Is there anything I can do or take to start feeling pleasure being sucked?
I've already cummed being sucked before a few times, like 3 in my whole life, but I don't know exactly what triggered it. If I was SO horny or if I was making up my mind a lot...

Right now I'm upset 'cause I'm not sure I will naturally start getting horny being sucked, and even when talking about using the blue pills he felt like it would be unnatural and he would not get that horny because I'm not in fact feeling horny, it is just the chemical results of the pills.

What can I do? Pills? Any other medication? Any unknow training practics or therapy?

 

[malakos]

Do you have any reason to suspect that it's a physiological problem? Do you have problems with "getting horny" in all sexual contexts, or are there other sorts of sexual interactions that are arousing for you, and that you respond to physically?

 

[DiomedesXVI]

Some guys just don’t like oral, they aren’t wired that way and that’s okay. It’s a lot like nipples, some love them being played with and some get absolutely nothing from it. There are tons of other sex acts to enjoy. I’ve had guys who just enjoy sucking me soft, so maybe your bf can get into that.

 

[Dave NoCal]

Since you are a bottom, how do you think you and your husband would feel about him tickling your prostate while he sucks you? It might work and possibly retrain you into enjoying it more.

 

[BubbleButtHungBoy]

I think you need a psych evaluation lol

 

[garlicwhore]

I used to not enjoy oral on me.... then I realized the guys I was with were pretty bad at it (when I finally got a good BJ)