Do You Find That Seeing Someone That You Know Naked Is Rewarding?

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Don't you find that seeing someone that you know for a while naked for the first time is exciting and kind of rewarding?
I am talking about knowing this friend or coworker for years or a roommate and suddenly you have the opportunity to see him naked for the first time. It has to be someone that you find attractive or at least there's something about him that makes you curious. In my case, I am always imagining what guys I know looked like naked.

Does this happen to you?
 
For me, this has happened with some of my straight friends, college buddies, and even some coworkers. Actually, it just happened last year before the pandemic with my ex-roommate, this cute straight guy who was 29 at the moment. We lived together for about a year and one day he took a shower and just walked out from the bathroom to his bedroom completely naked. He was not aware that I was at the apartment. He reacted in surprise and apologized (I don't know why) and continue walking to his room. He looked better than I would imagine, decent size cut cock, tamed bush, nice little white bubble butt.
 
This happens to me all the time. I usually try and imagine what guys look like naked. Something about the mystery of what their cock looks like or how big it is intrigues me. I had a friend who ended up messing with one of my coworkers and they shared with me a few xxx photos of that person that had been sent to them. It was hot seeing what they looked like naked and even a short video of them shooting a load. Every time I see him at work, I feel like I have this card up my sleeve cause I know what his cock looks like. Surprising smaller than what I would have guessed.
 
This happens to me all the time. I usually try and imagine what guys look like naked. Something about the mystery of what their cock looks like or how big it is intrigues me. I had a friend who ended up messing with one of my coworkers and they shared with me a few xxx photos of that person that had been sent to them. It was hot seeing what they looked like naked and even a short video of them shooting a load. Every time I see him at work, I feel like I have this card up my sleeve cause I know what his cock looks like. Surprising smaller than what I would have guessed.

Yes, exactly. It is more satisfying than seeing a random stranger naked. Maybe it has to do with the familiarity, probably is someone that you like as a person already and then there are the built-up expectations finally coming to fruition.
 
Yes, exactly. It is more satisfying than seeing a random stranger naked. Maybe it has to do with the familiarity, probably is someone that you like as a person already and then there are the built-up expectations finally coming to fruition.
Exactly. I have a long list of guys that I know that I would love to see naked. Or see how they fuck their girlfriends. I’m intrigued as to what their sex process is like and how they get off.
 
For me, this has happened with some of my straight friends, college buddies, and even some coworkers. Actually, it just happened last year before the pandemic with my ex-roommate, this cute straight guy who was 29 at the moment. We lived together for about a year and one day he took a shower and just walked out from the bathroom to his bedroom completely naked. He was not aware that I was at the apartment. He reacted in surprise and apologized (I don't know why) and continue walking to his room. He looked better than I would imagine, decent size cut cock, tamed bush, nice little white bubble butt.
Who was the first guy you saw naked?
 
In my circle of friends there are two straight friends that I would love to see naked. It definitely would be very rewarding to my fantasies. To see their dick would be hot but to see their dick erect would amazing to me and yes, very rewarding. I have known these two guys for 11 years and they are definitely getting hotter as they age. Yum!
 
In my circle of friends there are two straight friends that I would love to see naked. It definitely would be very rewarding to my fantasies. To see their dick would be hot but to see their dick erect would amazing to me and yes, very rewarding. I have known these two guys for 11 years and they are definitely getting hotter as they age. Yum!
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Has there been a situation where you almost got to see them naked?
 
As a lifelong nudist I am not at all shy or modest when it comes to being seen naked by others. On the flip side, I find that seeing my friends naked is not only rewarding but the bonding that occurs is an amazing experience. Being naked with friends is the ultimate in trust and vulnerability. It's not a sexual thing, but losing that final barrier or social mask that society requires of us by being clothed brings our friendship to another level. Being relaxed around others in a social, non judgmental environment while nude allows a deeper connection as there literally is nothing more to hide and people can truly be themselves.
 
I do find it rewarding. It happens so many times when I was studying in Japan because they have a bathhouse culture, and it is very common for male friends to go to a bathhouse together. And honestly, there were a few times where I asked my friends to go to a bathhouse just because I wanted to see their naked bodies.
 
Don't you find that seeing someone that you know for a while naked for the first time is exciting and kind of rewarding?
I am talking about knowing this friend or coworker for years or a roommate and suddenly you have the opportunity to see him naked for the first time. It has to be someone that you find attractive or at least there's something about him that makes you curious. In my case, I am always imagining what guys I know looked like naked.

Does this happen to you?


That's exactly my whole life!:p
 
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I think rewarding is the wrong word IMO but it does depend on the person. If it’s a secret little crush or someone you fancy then yeah that would be hot to me but not like a random work colleague at the gym then it’s a nah from me.
 
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Seeing someone naked for the first time can be rewarding if there is a level of attraction there but I think being naked in front of others can be just as rewarding. Some people are more voyeuristic while others might be more of exhibitionists. I personally enjoy both. I think I get more gratification out of being seen naked however.
 
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I'm reminded of the time, I was about 30, when I had designed my first house for clients; I was also the general contractor. It was a large house in the country overlooking a scenic river.
The husband of the couple was a gorgeous hunk of a man, slightly taller than me--so probably 6'-3" and about 210#. I thought he was really handsome fully clothed; I had known him socially for several years. He helped us quite a lot on site with mostly hard labor sorts of things. One day he was helping the stone mason: hauling stones around, lifting them up onto scaffolding, mixing mortar etc. It was a beautiful early summer day, and he accidentally poured a bit of wet mortar down his sweaty T-shirt and it got into his loose fitting gym shorts....and down into his public hair, on his dick and balls! Well, there was nothing to be done except to go to the water hose, strip and rinse it all out. There were probably 6-8 guys working that day, and I was the boss, AND he was my client, AND I was back in the closet at that time....but damn! I wanted to help him rinse off! I would have scrubbed him down...and more. Bill was very muscular, had a nice light pelt of fur on his chest and abs, and the best 6-pack I had seen at that point.
And, he had a wonderful cut cock that was 8x6 as I remember it even at half-staff.
That image fed many of my bate sessions for years.
Later that summer, it was my turn. We got into the habit of the whole crew walking down to the river at the end of long days and going for a swim, but the first day Bill proposed it, I was commando and had no swim trunks with me as everyone else did. Bill said, "C'mon it's just us guys!" Somehow, I managed to not display a wooden to my client and crew, but we all had trunks after that.
 
I do find it rewarding. It happens so many times when I was studying in Japan because they have a bathhouse culture, and it is very common for male friends to go to a bathhouse together. And honestly, there were a few times where I asked my friends to go to a bathhouse just because I wanted to see their naked bodies.
I am jealous. It's more difficult here in the US as there is no bathhouse culture and because guys are less prone to get undressed in front of other guys unless they're buddies and there's some trust built from years of friendship. I even suggested a day of relaxation in a Korean spa with an ex-roommate and a few friends in common (no shady intentions just genuine spa day) and they didn't like the idea just because of the nudity involved.
 
As a lifelong nudist I am not at all shy or modest when it comes to being seen naked by others. On the flip side, I find that seeing my friends naked is not only rewarding but the bonding that occurs is an amazing experience. Being naked with friends is the ultimate in trust and vulnerability. It's not a sexual thing, but losing that final barrier or social mask that society requires of us by being clothed brings our friendship to another level. Being relaxed around others in a social, non judgmental environment while nude allows a deeper connection as there literally is nothing more to hide and people can truly be themselves.
I completely agree. Seeing them naked is just because of curiosity. But the bonding is the cherry on top. I had that kind of bonding with my best buddies in college. We used to hang out naked in front of each other without even thinking about it.
 
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I had a handsome buddy that was a member of a nudist community in the US. I never had the pleasure of seeing him naked live but after he moved away, I was thrilled to find a few pics of him naked on the internet.
 
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I am jealous. It's more difficult here in the US as there is no bathhouse culture and because guys are less prone to get undressed in front of other guys unless they're buddies and there's some trust built from years of friendship. I even suggested a day of relaxation in a Korean spa with an ex-roommate and a few friends in common (no shady intentions just genuine spa day) and they didn't like the idea just because of the nudity involved.
Maybe later you can visit Japan or Korea with your friends. I wasn't really comfortable with being naked with my friends before (and my friends probably felt the same). But there's one time we went to a Korean bathhouse together (without knowing that we had to be naked), and we were kind of "forced" to take off all of our clothes (because we were already there and that's the rule). It did feel a bit awkward at first, but then we just got used to that.
 
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Happened once with a coworker who I slept with once and another time with a coworker whom I saw his dick and balls by accident. The first one was awkward because, well sex can make things awkward.

The second one was a bit awkward because he didn't know I saw it... We were pretty close and we still talk every now and then. Sometimes when I see him, I think back about what his dick looks like lol