Do you guys let your wives eat your ass?

[Urien]

I'm always curious if Straight men indulge this side of them with their wives, or is strictly for the mistress or secret gay twink on the side.

I've heard from some straight men that they don't do butt stuff with the wife to maintain their "masculinity" in her eyes/his position in the household. Which is mostly psychological but I get it. It's like women telling men it's okay to cry but once they do they are turned off by them.

To those that indulged this, has it negatively or positively affected your marital relationship? Would you advise other straight men to do this? Or keep it for outside the marriage?

Lastly, to those who enjoy relations with both men and women, who eats your ass better? Eating ass is like a full course meal to some of us, not just foreplay. So I always wondered if women had the same undying and ravenous hunger to devour butts and assholes.

Thank you for your honesty in advance my fellow breeders <3

 

[Rooker]

Fuck no.

No interest at all.

Broke up with exes that offered.

Fuck that.

 

[ronin001]

 

[Sagittarius84]

Never thought of indulging until my wife asked to do so. I was reluctant at first for all the aforementioned reasons, but I think there were other factors at play, that overrode any perception of my masculinity being mitigated, in lieu of her fulfilling a fantasy of sorts. I treat it like fellatio, I never ask for it, I simply allow her to do it if she's feeling it.
As far as advising other straight men, as a general rule, I think it's best to allow her to suggest it, because the perception of homoerotic implications may come in instead....
Specifically, because some of cultural and historical sexual taboos that surround interracial mating and dating, I'd postulate that straight black men have a higher propensity of this being offered from non black women(especially white)and not being seen as a sleight to their masculinity.

 

[lapdog2001]

I'm always curious if Straight men indulge this side of them with their wives, or is strictly for the mistress or secret gay twink on the side.

As a Straight man (heterosexual) I would never, ever have a man on the side, ever, for any reason whatsoever. I would also never cheat in a monogamous relationship.

As to your question, I've never been with a woman who wanted to rim me and none of the women I've been with asked me to rim them either. I wouldn't do it if asked. One woman would like the perineum when she went down on me, and she loved to lick my balls as well. I always made sure I was freshly showered so I was a clean as possible. Did I like it when she licked my perineum? Sure, a little bit, but it was her taking about 5 inches of my cock down her throat that really did it for me!

I've heard from some straight men that they don't do butt stuff with the wife to maintain their "masculinity" in her eyes/his position in the household. Which is mostly psychological but I get it. It's like women telling men it's okay to cry but once they do they are turned off by them.

For me, oral sex with the anus (given or received) is just a turn-off because of its biological function as the poophole! It has absolutely nothing to do with masculinity in any way. To me, it's just yucky.

I was willing to try anal sex (my penis in the woman's anus) if a woman wanted it, but most of the women I've been with wanted no part of any kind of anal sex.

 

[Urien]

As a Straight man (heterosexual) I would never, ever have a man on the side, ever, for any reason whatsoever.

It was a joke.

 

[cofrader]

who enjoy relations with both men and women

Wrong forum buddy.

 

[sfarugby]

As a straight man, one of the best things I did was get over my insecurity of others questioning me & allowing a GF to finger and rub my prostate to end a blowjob. The orgasm was incredible and opened a new lane. Licking? I had a gal into it. Just planned ahead- shower, & whatever yall like.
Felt great & returned the favor

 

[sfarugby]

As a straight man, one of the best things I did was get over my insecurity of others questioning me & allowing a GF to finger and rub my prostate to end a blowjob. The orgasm was incredible and opened a new lane. Licking? I had a gal into it. Just planned ahead- shower, & whatever yall like.
Felt great & returned the favor

Anal was probably the best experiment I ever went through with!

 

[rbi99]

As a straight couple, neither of us are into anal at all. Doesn't make us right or wrong, normal or weird. I don't like onions or cucumbers, my wife loves them. It's whatever you like that counts, as long as you aren't hurting anyone.