Do You Share Your Sexual Fantasies With Your Partner?

Do You Share Your Sexual Fantasies With Your Partner?

  • Absolutely and I always Share mine with my Partner.

    Votes: 64 45.7%
  • Ideally but I fear Losing my Partner

    Votes: 25 17.9%
  • Hell No! I can't Share What I fantasise about with my partner.

    Votes: 37 26.4%
  • No Answer Right Now

    Votes: 14 10.0%

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luke9988

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Most of my fantasies are very detailed and complex, down to the surroundings and how long it took me to remove his clothing step by step. So when I share them it's like telling an erotic story and it tends to get my partner very aroused as well as give him ideas for the future. Sometimes I share that I fantasize about X but I would never want to do it in real life. A few darker things I don't share. It depends on the relationship, and it's important to know what your and your partner's boundaries are before sharing.
What are four darker fantasies. I bet mine are the same or worse
 

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Relatively new relationship. Have shared some things but not everything. One of the things is quite major though when she became aware that I have a small penis I confessed that I have a SPH (small penis humiliation) fetish and subsequently revealed a few fantasies as well as some actual SPH related experiences.
 
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I share everything with my fantasy partner......job done..!!
 
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Not really. I really want my wife to regularly milk my prostate - glove-up, lube-up, and insert a finger while she is sucking the daylights out of me. I'd also like to try pegging but I doubt she even knows what that is.

Outside of those, I'd really like to fuck her ass - only happened once in 43 years of marriage.
 

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Not really. I really want my wife to regularly milk my prostate - glove-up, lube-up, and insert a finger while she is sucking the daylights out of me. I'd also like to try pegging but I doubt she even knows what that is.
Outside of those, I'd really like to fuck her ass - only happened once in 43 years of marriage.
If you can... Sit down with her as you discuss your "kinks" and go online. My wife and I would talk about oral sex. I joked with her about maybe gay men are best at sucking. Game on! As we got into pegging, I showed her gay men fucking other men. She picked up on their "moves". Just a thought...
 

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No answer right now because I have no partner.

Whenever I would share a fantasy with my late wife, it was usually clear she didn't find the ideas appealing, and a few were on her squick list. So I learned to be happy with what I had.
 

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I have a tiny dick and love small penis humiliation. When I told my wife she thought it was weird at first, but now she likes it and makes fun of my little dick all the time. She even tells her friends about it and shows them pictures. She has recently brought up cuckolding me, she says she wants to get fucked by a guy with a big dick while I watch. I told her that we definitely need to make that happen.
 

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I have a tiny dick and love small penis humiliation. When I told my wife she thought it was weird at first, but now she likes it and makes fun of my little dick all the time. She even tells her friends about it and shows them pictures. She has recently brought up cuckolding me, she says she wants to get fucked by a guy with a big dick while I watch. I told her that we definitely need to make that happen.
Lol. I’ve noticed all women turn into big cock sluts if you give them a little push in that direction.
 

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I really wish I could. I think it would scare her and possibly have negative impact on our sex life. She is very vanilla and has a Cinderella attitude towards relationships. Her views and actions don't have any basis in reality. I have tried to break the ice several times with relatively innocent discussions I.e. oral, anal, pegging ,.porn and have been met with distain,horror and refusal to continue to talk. I would really like to be able to talk to her openly. The lack of sharing has really left a void in our relationship. She is perfectly happy and satisfied sexually as a wife and has no interest or desire to change.