Do you want to be a grower or a shower?

[David Lucaya]

So I was just having a conversation with my friends (both male and female) if it is preferable to have a grower or a shower and I thought it'd be an interesting discussion to have on here.

During the conversation it became clear to me that majority of the guys wanted to be showers because they felt that its easier to be more confident whipping out a dick that's already large. However females were split or even said both are enjoyable - showers are more impressive to look at and fun to play with even when soft they said, but it's a great surprise and fun to watch a grower. We didn't really discuss size but they all aluded to it being a big dick pretty much.

I myself am a grower. Soft I'm about 3.5 inches and grow to about 7.5 inches hard and I'm pretty content with that and didn't really give it much thought until joining this site honestly lol. I like being a grower though, always found it to be fascinating

So would you switch and if so why?
Or are you content with what you have? Why?

 

[LongDong28_]

I’m very much a grower and I’d rather my soft size be more representative.

 

[benson19]

Id choose to be shower always if i could have picked between the two to be honest.
Not sure why but ive always been very self conscious about my soft size and what i believe is it being way to small for my liking.
I cant remember the last time i ever thought about my hard size and cared about its size.

I feel that if my soft was much more hung...as crazy as it might sound to some but i just feel i could have lived a slightly more confident & happy life perhaps....

 

[David Lucaya]

I’m very much a grower and I’d rather my soft size be more representative.

Ok maybe if I were as huge as you I'd want to be a shower as well. But I also think it probably is fun for your sexual partners to see you grow haha.

 

[David Lucaya]

Id choose to be shower always if i could have picked between the two to be honest.
Not sure why but ive always been very self conscious about my soft size and what i believe is it being way to small for my liking.
I cant remember the last time i ever thought about my hard size and cared about its size.

I feel that if my soft was much more hung...as crazy as it might sound to some but i just feel i could have lived a slightly more confident & happy life perhaps....

This is actually the reason I wanted to have this conversation on here because this is what I thought actually. You spend more time flaccid than erect so I really suspect most men are self concious about flaccid penis size. But do you really think this affected your overall confidence? Even beyond the scope of sexual?

 

[SuperGrower]

I would like to be BOTH.

 

[benson19]

But do you really think this affected your overall confidence? Even beyond the scope of sexual?

I think so it has.
Perhaps the problem originated from most assuming i would be hung or was hung....I was physically bigger looking in every other way compared to the rest of my class mates in late high school.
Biggest feet too at size 16/17 US for runners...that alone led most to assume surely id be hung.

The thing is i know personally that im small and the fact that most think im hung makes me feel even worse. I just feel so awkward about it that since i was 16 years and onwards i have never gone naked at all in public change/lockers rooms and honestly i dont even think anyone in real life has ever seen me naked beyond that point. I always go out of my way as well to make sure im never seen 'by accident' or whatever.

I do think its part of the problem as well why i never really did anything (sexual wise) with anyone else as i always felt that i would be a let down of some sort....

 

[lowhangers]

I Am a shower. Balls as eggs and soft about 5. I dislike that in all clothes THE package is visable. Nice when erected big but i wish an average one.

 

[JohnGw]

I chose to remain in spite of the inconveniences involved i being a shower because I have no wish to be any different from what I am. The only concessions I make are the barber's shop and my beard trimmer.

 

[David Lucaya]

The thing is i know personally that im small and the fact that most think im hung makes me feel even worse.

Ok I can understamd how that came to affect you in your developmental years, but for what it's worth... I think you have nothing to be worried about

 

[David Lucaya]

I chose to remain in spite of the inconveniences involved i being a shower because I have no wish to be any different from what I am. The only concessions I make are the barber's shop and my beard trimmer.

i think thats my thinking as well. plus both have their own pros and cons.
Im interested in hearing some of the inconvenieces involved with being a shower

 

[uncut7in]

I love it when guys see my small limp cock, then are impressed when it swells to a big throbbing erection.

 

[CUBE]

My buddy in college was a shower even though I had the bigger dick. He always packed a huge bulge and was the talk of many. He lived the life of a well hung man. It was stunning to see him nude.

 

[auncut10in]

I can't imagine how different my life would have been if I did not show a big soft dick. It has influenced my life since I was a kid. If you have read some of my adventures, then I. doubt most all of them would not have happened since it almost always started either by someone seeing me naked or someone seeing my soft dick bulging in my pants.

Would I trade it for a small dick that was a big grower? Not a chance. I have way too much fun.

Here is the link if you want to read what I am talking about.

 

[David Lucaya]

I can't imagine how different my life would have been if I did not show a big soft dick. It has influenced my life since I was a kid. If you have read some of my adventures, then I. doubt most all of them would not have happened since it almost always started either by someone seeing me naked or someone seeing my soft dick bulging in my pants.

Would I trade it for a small dick that was a big grower? Not a chance. I have way too much fun.

Here is the link if you want to read what I am talking about.

oh ive been a big fan of your adventures haha... good point I guess it would make for a good first impression and invite much intrigue.

 

[David Lucaya]

My buddy in college was a shower even though I had the bigger dick. He always packed a huge bulge and was the talk of many. He lived the life of a well hung man. It was stunning to see him nude.

I definitely imagine that to be true because we eat with our eyes for lack of better words.

 

[David Lucaya]

I feel the same way

I love it when guys see my small limp cock, then are impressed when it swells to a big throbbing erection.

 

[David Lucaya]

After reading through these response i'm wondering do you think being a grower vs. shower influences our personalities?

Im a grower as Ive said and Im definitely not a show off, more of an introvert and pretty much boring honestly lol... adventure makes me uncomfortable usually. Do you think it really does influence us or am I grasping for straws here?

 

[deano-uk]

I am a grower, of moderate proportions would prefer to be a shower

 

[auncut10in]

After reading through these response i'm wondering do you think being a grower vs. shower influences our personalities?

Im a grower as Ive said and Im definitely not a show off, more of an introvert and pretty much boring honestly lol... adventure makes me uncomfortable usually. Do you think it really does influence us or am I grasping for straws here?

Can't speak for everyone, but as you know, it certainly does for me.