Does Anyone Know If Prostate Massages Really Work For Reducing The Size Of The Prostate. Bph

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Recently having a BPH issue and someone told me that Prostate massages help reduce the size of the Prostate and helps with BPH. My wife refused so I will have to do it myself, any suggestions if it will help or work. Never have experienced it so don't know if i am doing it correctly. and how long do I need to do it and how long will it take. MY doctor wants to give me meds, which I refused and now wants to do surgery.I refused that too.
 
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I wouldn't quite know, since I'm only 31 and in fairly good health, though regular use does help keep things from being inflamed in general. There's plenty of buttplugs out there that should be able to help, plus it'll be helpful for the sex life regardless.
 

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What do but plugs do? Do you keep them in during the day as you work etc. or are they strictly for massaging the prostate?

hmn... so a butt plug is exactly what it sounds like, a plug like sex toy that you inset into yourself, and generally shouldn't be worn for any longer than 3 hours at a time (though overnight is an option for some). based on how you can tighten and loosen your anal sphincter, this also means you could easily be poking into your prostate at your leisure with one in. doing so would massage it, and in a case like yours, help to reduce it's general size over time. always use lube, and of course, over time you may want to use a larger plug. non-porus ones (metal, ceramic, glass) are great for longer term ownership, and use. they also need much less lube , water based or otherwise, and won't retain any smells either after you've washed them off with soap and water.

some use them as a "trainer" for their asshole to be able to handle anal intercourse easier, especially for what's supposed to be the average penis (1.5 in diameter) though the actual handle and connecting point are not that wide. I'm really partial to some of the ones I've picked up that are metal, mostly the Njoy ones from Pinkcherry.ca though I live in canada in the first place. starting small is a good idea, especially for those who identify as being straight

(though I really wanna point out, all men have butts, all men have prostates, it's not an exclusively homosexual thing to want pleasure, it's only homosexual if that pleasure is being provided by another male that you want to be pleasuring and pleasured by)

the one below is the medium njoy plug for refrence, and said website. I use the large one, and ones that are even bigger.

Pure Plug Medium
 

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Thanks for the help, I agree that all men have prostates and what ever your preference is you should be able to enjoy it. I have never desired a male fucking me, but I just heard massaging the prostate will help shrink it. Not sure about having an orgasm doing it, but I am game if my wife will do it to me. I have watched a few male porns and they look like they either are in pain or really enjoying it. Think I will just try it by my self and see if it can help my BPH. Appreciate all your advice. Good luck to you and thanks again.
 
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Thanks for the help, I agree that all men have prostates and what ever your preference is you should be able to enjoy it. I have never desired a male fucking me, but I just heard massaging the prostate will help shrink it. Not sure about having an orgasm doing it, but I am game if my wife will do it to me. I have watched a few male porns and they look like they either are in pain or really enjoying it. Think I will just try it by my self and see if it can help my BPH. Appreciate all your advice. Good luck to you and thanks again.

Just curious - how does your doctor suggest that you treat your BPH? And, what do you think he would have to say about this particular treatment methodology?
 
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Just curious - how does your doctor suggest that you treat your BPH? And, what do you think he would have to say about this particular treatment methodology?
First he wanted me to take medications like Finasteride and Dutasteride . It gave me some ED problems and retrograde ejaculations which I hated, so I stopped those and it took awhile to get my mojo back. ( I got really depressed because of the affects and lack of desire for awhile.) He said I have a tremendously large prostate. He then said he could try a procedure called Resum where they take an instrument down your penis and at the contraction in the urethra a pin stick out into the prostate and the release steam and kill the prostate cells. The most painful procedure I have ever had!!!! No anesthesia, in his office. Well it worked for over 2 years had no problem with BPH. Then it started giving me some problems on and off again. This time my regular doctor RX Cialis 5 mg daily and that was getting me through ok. Now I am taking Cialis 5 mg two times a day and I am borderline good and bad times. He now wants me to do major surgery and reduce my prostate, but he said it will cause retrograde ejaculation probably and could cause other problems. Just don't want to go with that because of the possible outcomes. Sex is just not as good to me when you don't ejaculate? I probably could get use to it but why would I. So I have been reading other ways to combat the BPH and occasional ED. I have had Gainswave and 3 P shots all have been great. for giving me super erections and long lasting love making. It also added to my girth and length (7.5X7) My wife is enjoying my new look, but she refuses to do the prostate massage, she feels that is gay. I have tried to explain why, but she has made her mind up. I also don't get to have sodomy with her for the same reason. I was hoping prostate messages could help . I have been doing it a little and have not had any pleasure doing it but I will do anything to prevent surgery and the post surgical complications. If you have any other suggestion please let me know. A butt plug was suggested, just don't know if that will work wearing it daily or even helping the prostate? What would he think about doing this. I really don't give a fuck if it will help!!!!!!!!! Thanks
 

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Recently having a BPH issue and someone told me that Prostate massages help reduce the size of the Prostate and helps with BPH. My wife refused so I will have to do it myself, any suggestions if it will help or work. Never have experienced it so don't know if i am doing it correctly. and how long do I need to do it and how long will it take. MY doctor wants to give me meds, which I refused and now wants to do surgery.I refused that too.


Prostate health is very important and should be to every man. It is definitely supposed to help in reducing the size of an enlarged prostate.

The idea behind prostate massage is to get the fluids in the prostate out. I was just at my urologists a couple of weeks ago. He agrees that a healthy prostate is important.

I recently purchased a lelo loki prostate massager. It is definitely worth the money I paid for it. It feels amazing on my prostate. They are having a sale now.
The thing to remember is that not all prostate massagers are created equally. I have one that I purchased several years ago that one almost needs to be a contortionist to use.

It's your health man, you take care of your prostate whether the wife wants to help or not.
Talk to your urologists about using a prostate massager for your BPH.

Benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH).
Prostate massage is thought by some to help BPH by promoting drainage from the prostate ducts, minimizing swelling and improving urine flow. In a 2009 study of prostate massage performed using an at-home device inserted into the rectum, 46.7% of BPH patients found relief.Jul 16, 2020
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Good luck and talk tp your urologists about this.
 

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computer activate the EHM
please state the nature of your medical emergency
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That “someone” happens to have an MD?
 
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I guess I'd have the same (or similar) question as the OP. So prostate massage, and/or "milking" your prostate is supposed to be good for you, that is pretty much a given. Where do the battery prostate vibrators fall in that? Good or is the vibration too much?
And then the next level I guess would be those electro shocker ones (e-stim I think they're called) that like 90% of the cam models on Chaturbate have up their ass and when you drop them a token it zaps their ass/prostate. It looks like they absolutely love it, but is it good or bad for your prostate?
 

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Only thing I can say is that my new prostate massager has different vibrating settings. So far I've not found one that I don't like.. I'm not moving my prostate massager in and out, rather side to side touch my prostate all over. I've had some serious prostate orgasms with my loki.
 

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I don't know if it is the reason for having a small, healthy prostate, but I regularly work my prostate over with dildos. I am turning 60 this year and my doctor has commented on how small it is during my annual difital examination.

I get my prostate to ooze from my anal stimulation, working out all sorts of fluid, that I happily devour and savor! Feels so good!

I hope it's keeping my prostate healthy! My dad had developed cancer and had his removed at 63... I'm approaching that same age and don't want to have that happen to me!
 

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thanks for the like. Any suggestions on how to reduce your prostate besides surgery.
Sorry if it might sound " cheap" ...but regular orgasms could be helpful aswell, as i have heard several times , yet .
At least it should help to prevent prostate cancer.
Shurely not THAT Golden Bridge , but something that could help a little .
 
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thanks, my wife is helping me with that. she always enjoys making love two or three times a week, but only BJ or vaginal and nothing anal for either one of us. No massaging has to be solo. I have been doing it lately in the shower to see if it will help. I never get any pleasurable orgasm like other people say how much pleasure it is. of course its just my finger. I will keep trying to see if I get any shrinkage.or relief from BPH. Thanks again
 
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Good luck I had some serious problems three months ago. It was embarrassing. I had to do self catheterization for about 30 days. Do not take Flomax that is a horrible drug. It also affects as you know retrograde ejaculation. I am now on a drug called Uroxatral it works great. But you want to get the generic version is the name brand version is very expensive. It began working within three weeks and I have not had any problems ever since. He also put me on finasteride.


First he wanted me to take medications like Finasteride and Dutasteride . It gave me some ED problems and retrograde ejaculations which I hated, so I stopped those and it took awhile to get my mojo back. ( I got really depressed because of the affects and lack of desire for awhile.) He said I have a tremendously large prostate. He then said he could try a procedure called Resum where they take an instrument down your penis and at the contraction in the urethra a pin stick out into the prostate and the release steam and kill the prostate cells. The most painful procedure I have ever had!!!! No anesthesia, in his office. Well it worked for over 2 years had no problem with BPH. Then it started giving me some problems on and off again. This time my regular doctor RX Cialis 5 mg daily and that was getting me through ok. Now I am taking Cialis 5 mg two times a day and I am borderline good and bad times. He now wants me to do major surgery and reduce my prostate, but he said it will cause retrograde ejaculation probably and could cause other problems. Just don't want to go with that because of the possible outcomes. Sex is just not as good to me when you don't ejaculate? I probably could get use to it but why would I. So I have been reading other ways to combat the BPH and occasional ED. I have had Gainswave and 3 P shots all have been great. for giving me super erections and long lasting love making. It also added to my girth and length (7.5X7) My wife is enjoying my new look, but she refuses to do the prostate massage, she feels that is gay. I have tried to explain why, but she has made her mind up. I also don't get to have sodomy with her for the same reason. I was hoping prostate messages could help . I have been doing it a little and have not had any pleasure doing it but I will do anything to prevent surgery and the post surgical complications. If you have any other suggestion please let me know. A butt plug was suggested, just don't know if that will work wearing it daily or even helping the prostate? What would he think about doing this. I really don't give a fuck if it will help!!!!!!!!! Thanks