Does rough anal feel good for bottoms? Does it feel good for tops?

[ZacariahJB]

I am a virgin. I don't know what I prefer yet. And I'm scared of trying anything. I'm thinking of buying some dildos and stuff to try it first. But I really get aroused whenever I watch a rough anal. Like jackhammer stuff. I don't know how it feels so I'm asking you guys.

Also to bottoms, does it feel good being roughed up by a big guy (7 inches or so)?

 

[Thomas45_8]

I am a virgin. I don't know what I prefer yet. And I'm scared of trying anything. I'm thinking of buying some dildos and stuff to try it first. But I really get aroused whenever I watch a rough anal. Like jackhammer stuff. I don't know how it feels so I'm asking you guys.

Also to bottoms, does it feel good being roughed up by a big guy (7 inches or so)?

Hi ! Personally i'm a switch so i've tried both and they really feel good , like you said it's better if you start with dildos and then with the real thing

 

[HungBtmVegas]

Don't worry about rough sex until you've established that you enjoy being fucked at all.

 

[Brodie888]

What tends to happen is that you lose sensitivity as you are getting fucked.

So the key is to enjoy the slow smaller stuff at the front end and go big and hard at the back end.

If you go hard at the start it can be too painful. More experienced guys can go harder earlier which is useful if you are under time constraints but I wouldn't recommend that for you any time soon.

 

[Brodie888]

My partner is quite large and yes being pounded like a bitch is as close to heaven this horny gay man will ever reach

 

[JMichaelB]

Uh, speak for yourself please

 

[russianshemalelover]

I am a virgin. I don't know what I prefer yet. And I'm scared of trying anything. I'm thinking of buying some dildos and stuff to try it first. But I really get aroused whenever I watch a rough anal. Like jackhammer stuff. I don't know how it feels so I'm asking you guys.

Also to bottoms, does it feel good being roughed up by a big guy (7 inches or so)?

You are so heartwarming, honey! I feel really tender about you!

 

[ILoveGames48]

I agree with what said about get used to it easy and then work up to it.. to go hard n rough right away would be too painful at first .. I have been rough to few bottoms but only when they were ready for it..

 

[Topher the Gopher]

Don't think you have to be like anyone else. Everyone starts at the beginning, to one degree or another. If you want anal pleasure, start with small objects, very small objects. Your fingers, perhaps, or small dildos the size of fingers.

Use plenty of lube; there's no such thing as too much lube. Put a towel under yourself to catch any mess of lube and go at it. Tickle your anus with your finger, then go from there.

There's no reason to expect hard cock humping from the beginning.

 

[louparis10]

If you want to test anal pleasure, start penetration alone with small objects and lube : your fingers and small dildos.
As a 100% versatile guy, I can tell you there is pleasure on both practices : active and passive.
Depending how tight is your asshole, it will take time to be ready for a dick 7" and more. Length is not the first problem, girth is the most important. That's a question of practice to get your asshole used to penetration. Over time you will see that it opens more and more easily.

 

[Braunlow]

I think a lot of it is psychological, depending on where I am and whom I am with. As a total bottom, I have experienced many different types of tops and much of my pleasure is derived from the state of mind I have when getting fucked. If I am with someone with whom I have great feeling, I want a slow, romantic encounter, culminating in more physical engagement. However, sometimes I feel like a real slut with my hole just begging to be nailed. At those times, I give myself totally to the pleasure of the top, sometimes enjoying rough sex and verbal abuse, having my ass slapped while getting it and being told I am just a hole. But, that's only on occasion, when that's what I feel I want and need. At those times, it feels real good. But, at the times of true intimacy, a build up is intense and desirable for that time. But, yes, when rough sex is what I want, it feels very good.

 

[theplayerking]

A sensitive top will respond to his bottom’s direction. I always start out slow and increase speed if a bottom (verbally or physically) asks for it harder. It’s best to respond in the moment depending on how your body is feeling that day, how turned on you are, etc.

 

[ILoveGames48]

I don’t mind if the top gets faster harder rougher .. just as long as if and when I say slow down or take it easy he will .. but some tips just hold you down and basicly tell you shut up as they finish

 

[louparis10]

As a sensitive top with an average+ cock, I always start slowly and quickly increase the speed and depth penetration when I notice that the bottom has his asshole opening easily showing that he is well trained. If he is tight, not very trained or a beginner, I take the time to introduce and make him discover anal pleasure.

 

[louparis10]

Well trained bottoms often ask faster harder rougher fucking. They want to be fullfilled as long as possible.

 

[JMichaelB]

As a sensitive top with an average+ cock, I always start slowly and quickly increase the speed and depth penetration when I notice that the bottom has his asshole opening easily showing that he is well trained. If he is tight, not very trained or a beginner, I take the time to introduce and make him discover anal pleasure.

Bravo! We need more people like you running our democracies

 

[chrisrobin]

As a virgin, though perhaps you've lost it now, it depends on what your pain threshold is and if pain is the height of sexual fulfillment.
Tip, start with a smaller dildo and work up aggression with that, then increase the size of the dildo etc etc et, but dont think you can take a horse dick in a near virgin ass.

 

[cedarizzo]

I recommend enjoying your new bottoming status for a little bit. Explore with toys and tops. Find out what you like and what you don't like. Once you figure it out, you will know when you are ready for a rough fuck.

I had a friend that I used to suck all the time. He still is one of the absolute biggest cocks I have ever played with. One night, I was a bit drunk, and I am sure he was too. We met up at one of the local adult bookstores and he totally wrecked my hole, fucked my ass hard and rough. He was loudly fucking me, I know I was loud from the very rough fucking. The walls of the booth we were in were shaking. Everybody in the place knew what was going on. When it was over, I was wore out. My hole was very sore and would remain sore for a few days. There was some blood. But I had a smile on my face. It began my quest to be fucked by big items.

I continued to suck his dick for many years after that, but he never fucked me again. I have watched him fuck other guys, his big thing is to fuck guys who cannot take it, but he makes them take it. When I've watched him, I remember how I felt, but I also feel sorry for the guys. All he cares about is wrecking their holes and I know they always be looking for that next well hung top.

 

[Ajm16472]

As a virgin, though perhaps you've lost it now, it depends on what your pain threshold is and if pain is the height of sexual fulfillment.
Tip, start with a smaller dildo and work up aggression with that, then increase the size of the dildo etc etc et, but dont think you can take a horse dick in a near virgin ass.

@chrisrobin Will pain go away? Pain is not sexual fulfillment for me

 

[JMichaelB]

@chrisrobin Will pain go away? Pain is not sexual fulfillment for me

It all sounds like pointless work and training...like a useless sport they're thinking of including in the Olympics. Why put oneself through all this if you can get real pleasure/cum in a simpler way? Peer pressure?!? I thought that ended when we graduate from high school. I guess not