So I've met this guy who goes to my gym and for agesss ive fancied him cause hes hot but nothing ever happened and its because hes a sub and hes like well i want a dominant guy who can put me in my place so yk cause hes rly hot and i want a peice of that ass i go oh im a dom and now were meeting tomorrow and i dont really know what tf to do i've never been a dom he wants like me to be VERY dominant but i just need help
Dom tips
- Thread starter kip oli
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Haha well congrats for stepping to him and going for what you want. I know when most people hear “Dom” they assume it’s just about being bigger (body or dick) or controlling and being aggressive but there’s def a lot more to it. You are going to control the whole scene so think through all the details: what you want him to wear, what he’s going to be doing, does he have any kinks, etc. . I find being verbal goes a long way in getting a sub comfortable to slut out for you. If they don’t trust you to own the experience, it’s gonna be an awkward fuck. He wants to be there to be used for your pleasure. Show him and his holes they only matter in your presence. You could try a blindfold on him and feel him up in various ways telling him how he feels to you. Just remember, you’re his boss for the time you’re together. When he does good, reward him, when he doesn’t, there’s consequences. That could be spanking, dick slap across the face, an extra finger in his hole, squeezing his nuts, making him gag and yes these can be both. Think of it as you’re directing and you’re not going anywhere until you get the shot you want. Best of luck and show him he’s been sleeping on you 
Def sounds like you have a fun toy (him) to play with. As far as being verbal, I find it easy to describe what you are watching him do or want him to do like you’re the narrator. Asking questions is good too but I would keep most of the rhetorical so he doesn’t feel like he has to speak while you’re making him gag on your dick lol. Talk about his hungry hole, how wet his tongue feels on you, how he moans for you. But you could also be more “silent” and just move him around to get him to do what you want and see how much you get him talking. There’s so much play and fun to have when you’re in charge so just own the experience and you’ll be great.
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