Dominant in bed but submissive the rest of the time?

[ginabil]

Is anyone else like this?

The guy I’m seeing at the moment is usually the one to take the lead on dates etc, he’s usually the big spoon, and he’s just generally the one in control most of the time we spend together.

But in the bedroom it’s the opposite. I love to fuck him and he loves to service me.

I really like the dynamic and it really turns me on to see him being so submissive for me. I just think that kind of dynamic is not very common.

Anyone else like this?

 

[notthatguy]

I am like a teddy bear in most aspects of life but 100% dominant in bed.

 

[ginabil]

I am like a teddy bear in most aspects of life but 100% dominant in bed.

That’s so cool haha. Do your partners like that?

 

[notthatguy]

That’s so cool haha. Do your partners like that?

Judging by the amount of orgasms they have… definitely

 

[Derringer]

I have a rampant sph fetish ( small penis humiliation) and although alpha type outside the bedroom I totally get off on being dominated in the bedroom especially by decidedly more beta guys.
I absolutely love it when a woman is watching some better endowed guy fucking me. I have a bullish physique but very tiny penis. One of my most stimulating encounters was when a rather skinny, effite, well hung beta guy fucked me in front of two women.

 

[Sir_Kyle]

I'm hopelessly and compleatly addicted to big muscular subs. Generally assertive towards everyone and everything but me. Kinda similar dinamic, makes my heart race like crazy and I'm shaking uncontrollably from excitement. Had only one halfed assed relationship like that, and damn I'd love to find one again.

 

[deleted29181791]

I'm the opposite. Dom in everything else but sub in bed, always with men. With women, I can be a dom in bed if they want to but I much prefer to be sub. The problem is, in my experience, not many women are into sub guys.

 

[Rooker]

I’m super laidback and most people think I’m really kind and chill, but I’ve always been pretty dominant sexually.

My wife is a total type A alpha woman in society, but completely submissive in bed, and often in a “trad wife” kind of way as well.