buddy43610: never, never never be embarrassed :-[ by any exam your doctor suggests. he has done it many times and like most things that are done repetitively, it is no big deal after a while. i've had many done and it is over with very quickly. there has never been any pain for me, only slight discomfort, :-/ but no big deal. he even cleans the lube off with one wipe. i have mine checked every january around my birthday at my annual physical. i also suggest an annual physical for all men 18 and over. do not be intimidated by your doctor ???, if you are, change doctors. i have been fortunate enough to have had the same doctor from the time i was 14 until he retired a couple of years ago when i was 45. i really like my new doctor too and will stay with him. sorry to ramble, but do get an annual prostate exam at your annual physical! buddy