Drugs

[HungThickProf]

I have been coming to this site on and off for the past 13 years. I have had the opportunity to speak with A LOT of people. You'd be amazed at some of the people I've gotten to know over the years or pornstars I've cammed with (met and fucked, strangely enough). There was a guy I would chat with and see on cam from time to time. I always idolized him in a sense. Today, while interacting with him, I saw that he's more round and not as defined and chiseled as he was once. And then it came to my attention that he's now abusing meth. Breaks my heart.

I don't judge him. I, too, have struggled with substance. My choices have forever changed me and tarnished relationships I once had. I did some dumb shit. At the same time, clawing from the bottom isn't always the worst thing; sometimes, it's the best thing for you. So, if you know someone who is struggling with substance abuse, please, reach out to them and acknowledge their pain and struggle. Life is hard and it can feel great not existing for a while, but they should be reminded of what they're leaving behind. I know this is a forum. There are people you've probably chatted with for years you'll never meet, but they're still people with lives, friends, and families. Speak up and hopefully, you'll save a life.

 

[bigguy7]

I have been coming to this site on and off for the past 13 years. I have had the opportunity to speak with A LOT of people. You'd be amazed at some of the people I've gotten to know over the years or pornstars I've cammed with (met and fucked, strangely enough). There was a guy I would chat with and see on cam from time to time. I always idolized him in a sense. Today, while interacting with him, I saw that he's more round and not as defined and chiseled as he was once. And then it came to my attention that he's now abusing meth. Breaks my heart.

I don't judge him. I, too, have struggled with substance. My choices have forever changed me and tarnished relationships I once had. I did some dumb shit. At the same time, clawing from the bottom isn't always the worst thing; sometimes, it's the best thing for you. So, if you know someone who is struggling with substance abuse, please, reach out to them and acknowledge their pain and struggle. Life is hard and it can feel great not existing for a while, but they should be reminded of what they're leaving behind. I know this is a forum. There are people you've probably chatted with for years you'll never meet, but they're still people with lives, friends, and families. Speak up and hopefully, you'll save a life.

Good on u mate

 

[51arledge]

Important thread here.
I'm in recovery myself. 35 years sober and clean. I used pretty much every drug except the ones typically injected. I've now got more years since sobriety than before sobriety.
I have helped many guys (and gals) navigate the stormy waters of coming to grips, and have lost more than a few back to drugs or drink. I steered many away from suicide, too.
The heartbreaker for me was a former employer who became a very close friend and then fell apart with crystal meth. He ended up broke, without friends, and killed himself. I will always miss him.

 

[Big_a_20]

It’s crazy how drugs are so prevalent in the gay community. The other day I happened to have my Grindr on in a gay part of the city and got 5 offers to party and play. One guy asked if I wanted to get high and get sucked off. I thought he meant weed ... dude wanted me to get high and meth and g and fuck him for a while. I’m no angel as I’ve done coke, weed, and ecstasy but it’s sad to see a large group of men that need to get twacked out of their mind just to enjoy sex because regular sex is not interesting.

 

[deleted848353]

I dont judge anyone I just dont feel comfortable around people who do use certain substances. I did meet someone from another site who while at mine asked if it was ok to use a certain substance that you snort I told him no and asked him to leave turned out he was drunk and done a few lines. I also have a family member who has used substances to the point he abused them and in doing so lost his legs thru it and he has been disowned by us thru his actions of being on them I applaud those of you who have overcome your battles with anything. I'm one of those who unfortunately abused drink when my father passed away but now I can have just one drink on special occasions

 

[HungThickProf]

Important thread here.
I'm in recovery myself. 35 years sober and clean. I used pretty much every drug except the ones typically injected. I've now got more years since sobriety than before sobriety.
I have helped many guys (and gals) navigate the stormy waters of coming to grips, and have lost more than a few back to drugs or drink. I steered many away from suicide, too.
The heartbreaker for me was a former employer who became a very close friend and then fell apart with crystal meth. He ended up broke, without friends, and killed himself. I will always miss him.

I am so happy for you and proud of you. Congratulations! I'm terribly sorry to hear about your friend.

 

[HungThickProf]

It’s crazy how drugs are so prevalent in the gay community. The other day I happened to have my Grindr on in a gay part of the city and got 5 offers to party and play. One guy asked if I wanted to get high and get sucked off. I thought he meant weed ... dude wanted me to get high and meth and g and fuck him for a while. I’m no angel as I’ve done coke, weed, and ecstasy but it’s sad to see a large group of men that need to get twacked out of their mind just to enjoy sex because regular sex is not interesting.

Dude, meth is seriously fucking up the gay community. Since I originally posted this thread, I have multiple people, young people, to die from either an overdose or complications due to crystal. It's so fucked up. It's just not worth it.

 

[DerrickRigg]

Worked as a stripper in women and gay clubs to help fund my bodybuilding growth. Yes, drug use is higher in gay clubs. I'd always get offered some but never interested due to my bbing goals. Saw a lot of bbers get into recreational drug use and they became hooked and lost their muscle size and good looks.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

I’m lucky that my only physical addiction is caffeine, and I stay in control of it.

im open here about my taste for psychedelics, but I’ve never partied with them..well, intentionally...don’t slip doses to people. If you do, you suck.
I get out in the ether one or twice a year these days. It’s for introspection, depression and migraine relief. Is it also good to be put if your worries? Away from ego? Yep

 

[WilliamG]

I’m lucky that my only physical addiction is caffeine, and I stay in control of it.

im open here about my taste for psychedelics, but I’ve never partied with them..well, intentionally...don’t slip doses to people. If you do, you suck.
I get out in the ether one or twice a year these days. It’s for introspection, depression and migraine relief. Is it also good to be put if your worries? Away from ego? Yep

For me it kind of "resets the internal clock". My choice is/was shrooms. Not been there for a couple years now. I suffered from generalized anxiety. But after a session at some quiet outdoor environment, I'd be feeling at peace internally. My circle of friends has changed so I'd be experiencing it alone these days. Been reading a lot about micro dosing. I think the future is there.