I appreciate it if the guy is attractive. Why watch a hot woman with an ugly, out of shape guy?? Makes no sense.
I never "live" through the man doing the women in porn. I say "man I wish I could do that chick" but I watch it as like its art; its like watching sports for me. I appreciate the skill, the methods, the techniques, the prowess, the physical bodily abilities of the two people fucking each other on screen. They are "putting on a good show" and since copulation is attractive to me, I want the actors to be attractive too. If she has a beautiful pussy, I want the guy to have a beautiful cock. If she's in good shape, he needs to be in good shape too. Unless he's a fun actor in the scene and they are both having a good time, if she's really into it, and he is too. If the guy is super fit and a dead fuck it sucks. Same with the woman, if she's hot and a dead fuck, what's the use.
It's like watching a basketball game where both teams suck at basketball. They are getting paid, they are out of shape, they aren't good playing against each other. Not enjoyable. Porn is like that to me. If they aren't good together, you can tell, and I turn it off. They need to be good playing with each other in the scene.
POV scenes don't do it for me. I want to see the guy too. I want to see how they are both into it, doing each other, the passion between them (even if coerced for the camera, don't leave him out). Some POV is cool every now and then, but once I get about 2 minutes of a detached cock and whole female body, I'm done.