Edging someone

[Damon01]

A buddy told me his fantasy is to be edged and hinted maybe it’s something I’d be up to doing.
He’s sexy, has a big cock, and permission from his partner to do this. I want to give him this experience.

I know my way around a cock but I’m looking for any advice or tips to make this great for him. For example, how long should we plan? Should I tell him not to cum for a few days? Should he sit back and keep his hands behind him? Mildly Restrained? I’m assuming I bring him close to cumming several times and then back off. Would you suggest having some porn playing?

One big challenge for me will be to resist sucking it.

Anyone have any experiences edging someone? I’d appreciate any advice.

 

[chrisrobin]

My buddy likes to be edged for an hour or two, sometimes longer. He just has to leave it to me to have fun bringing him to the edge and then back, he enjoys me fucking him with a dildo because he knows I'll cum off hands free "doing" him

 

[dana2]

how long should we plan?

As long as you need.

Should I tell him not to cum for a few days?

No. Doing this will make edging more difficult because if he hasn't cum for a few days it will be harder for him to keep from cumming when you edge him

Should he sit back and keep his hands behind him? Mildly Restrained?

No need unless he is into S&M

Would you suggest having some porn playing?

No

One big challenge for me will be to resist sucking it.

You can suck him and edge him the same time.

The most important thing is to have him communicate to you when he is close to the point of no return and when you should stop. Then allow it to rest and continue until he lets you know to stop again and just keep repeating that cycle of brining him close to the point of no return followed by a short rest. When I am being edged I sometimes have mini-orgasms. my cock will have quick spurt but not fully cum. I usually incorporate some amount of edging every time I have sex.

 

[vincegre]

No. Doing this will make edging more difficult because if he hasn't cum for a few days it will be harder for him to keep from cumming when you edge him

Completely wrong it'll juste make the edging more intense ! The edger is in full control of the cumming !

 

[dana2]

Completely wrong it'll juste make the edging more intense ! The edger is in full control of the cumming !

It's a knife that cuts both ways- edging may be more intense but it will be harder to navigate the edge and keep from cumming

 

[Damon01]

I appreciate the advice guys!

I’m even more excited that sucking may be on the table!

 

[vincegre]

edging may be more intense but it will be harder to navigate the edge and keep from cumming

Sorry but long practice of edging guys tells me you are wrong. It'll just make the guy edged even more crazy due to the crazy horniness For control of cum if you are careful at behaviour of guy edged and how his cock reacts it's quite easy !

 

[playklax01]

I agree with most of the advice.

- 2 hours minimum.
- Restraints can be fun if he consents. I've done it and it adds so much more to the experience. 4 point tie down. It's not even S&M, it's just a little fun. But have a safe word just in case. Blindfold is kinky too.
- Depending if he's a fast cummer, having him abstain for a couple days may be too much. If he typically takes a while to finish, it could help.
- If sucking is on the table, go for it. Tease him switching back and forth, mouth and hand. Drives me crazy lol.

Don't be afraid to communicate all this with him. You want him to have the ultimate pleasure, and he wants it too. Communication is key! Find out if anything is off limits or discouraged. Find out his favorite erogenous zones. This will be as fun for you as it is for him. Having being both the edge-or and edge-ee, I can vouch for that.

If you have one of those hitachi wands, those are great to have while edging someone. It's such a sensual feeling, and if you don't tell him can be surprisingly unexpected and arousing. Caution if you use it too long, can make his cock numb. Happens to me all the time. He'll still finish but will take longer.

If he's new to this (or you are too), keep a careful watch on his body. Notice little things like his balls pulling up some, his cock getting a bit harder, his breathing changing, struggling more (if tied up). He could be getting close and not telling you cause he's ready to cum (because he wants to cum!). Denial has a lot to do with edging. And if he's like 99% of guys, he'll love it! If you sense a potential that he's getting close, stop and do something new and slower. Almost like taking a break. Like just 1 finger slowly going back and forth along the length of his cock. Gently tickle his taint and slowly play with his balls, or tongue bath them. Then after he's cooled down enough, ramp it back up again until it's time to bring it back in again.

You'll eventually reach the point where no matter what you do, he's ready to cum now. Be ready and make the biggest production you can out of it, focus everything on making him cum now. He'll love it, and will be back for more!

 

[Damon01]

I agree with most of the advice.

- 2 hours minimum.
- Restraints can be fun if he consents. I've done it and it adds so much more to the experience. 4 point tie down. It's not even S&M, it's just a little fun. But have a safe word just in case. Blindfold is kinky too.
- Depending if he's a fast cummer, having him abstain for a couple days may be too much. If he typically takes a while to finish, it could help.
- If sucking is on the table, go for it. Tease him switching back and forth, mouth and hand. Drives me crazy lol.

Don't be afraid to communicate all this with him. You want him to have the ultimate pleasure, and he wants it too. Communication is key! Find out if anything is off limits or discouraged. Find out his favorite erogenous zones. This will be as fun for you as it is for him. Having being both the edge-or and edge-ee, I can vouch for that.

If you have one of those hitachi wands, those are great to have while edging someone. It's such a sensual feeling, and if you don't tell him can be surprisingly unexpected and arousing. Caution if you use it too long, can make his cock numb. Happens to me all the time. He'll still finish but will take longer.

If he's new to this (or you are too), keep a careful watch on his body. Notice little things like his balls pulling up some, his cock getting a bit harder, his breathing changing, struggling more (if tied up). He could be getting close and not telling you cause he's ready to cum (because he wants to cum!). Denial has a lot to do with edging. And if he's like 99% of guys, he'll love it! If you sense a potential that he's getting close, stop and do something new and slower. Almost like taking a break. Like just 1 finger slowly going back and forth along the length of his cock. Gently tickle his taint and slowly play with his balls, or tongue bath them. Then after he's cooled down enough, ramp it back up again until it's time to bring it back in again.

You'll eventually reach the point where no matter what you do, he's ready to cum now. Be ready and make the biggest production you can out of it, focus everything on making him cum now. He'll love it, and will be back for more!

wow, great info, thank you!

 

[playklax01]

wow, great info, thank you!

You're welcome! As you can see, I'm way into edging and getting edged lol.

 

[Damon01]

You're welcome! As you can see, I'm way into edging and getting edged lol.

I see that! I hope this happens for me. I’ll be channeling you

 

[playklax01]

I see that! I hope this happens for me. I’ll be channeling you

Fingers crossed for you! If this happens, you need to report back how it went!!