Ever Tried Straight Sex?

[London74]

As a gay man I’ve never been with a woman, and am not attracted to women, but I have 1% straight on my profile as I have a desire to try straight sex purely to experience it.

Any other gay guys wanted to do that, or have done it? Finding a guy for casual sex is pretty easy - wouldn’t have a clue how to go about finding a woman to give me the experience!

 

[StuJr]

I tried it a few times in high school, and realized it wasn’t for me at all. I got in, pumped a few times, but couldn’t complete. Oh well. It wasn’t meant to be. I do find some porn with women arousing, though. Especially when they are getting eaten out. Something hot about watching their lips and clitoris being manipulated and tongued and I’ve even masturbated to it.

 

[GayBritBloke]

It really isn't something I'd want to do. I just don't find women attractive sexually. I watch straight porn sometimes as I find they often use more "ordinary" looking guys who turn me on, but I'm looking at the guys. Women's bodies and genitalia don't repel me, they just don't do anything at all for me.

When I look at a naked woman I don't feel anything - not repulsion or distate, just... nothing.

I think I'm 100% gay which probably isn't all that common. I've never even kissed a woman and I have no desire to.

I say not all that common as I know a lot of gay men and I'd say at least half have tried straight sex at least once. I just don't feel the need to try it.

Never say never I guess but I'm in my 40s now and I still feel like this just as I did in my teens.

 

[cumalloverme]

I guess Tinder would be one way? Just be completely honest on your profile.

I am in a similar position to @GayBritBloke, I have never even kissed a woman, even as a teenager. I guess that I am just 100% gay. I am afraid that I find women's genitalia really unattractive.

I have never had or I don't think ever will have a desire to have sex with a woman.

 

[headbang8]

For all intents and purposes, I’m gay. But I tried to be straight in my youth, and even had girlfriends, one long-term.

Straight sex? Nothing to complain about. When you’re young and horny, you can get it up no matter what. And many of the women with whom I shared bodies were great people, whom I valued.

To me, women are nice. But men are compelling. I like women, but desire men. It’s like night and day.

 

[London74]

Totally understand what you guys are saying. I’ve never kissed a woman either. Always known I’m gay from the start. Not attracted to women, and don’t find their genitalia attractive either.

Yet, for some reason I want to know how it feels to slide inside.

 

[cedarizzo]

I guess I put myself in the 99% gay / 1% straight category. I've always been curious about sex with a woman, but never went through with it. I've had girlfriends in high school and college, but never had sex with a woman back then. I did make out with those girlfiends, but it never did anything for me. I just did it to keep them happy. The few times they were wanting more, I would break up with them. When I had sex with guys, it was always so great and I knew that is what I wanted. I like watching straight porn, but the woman isn't what I concentrate on. Like Stujr, I do find a guy eating a woman out kinda erotic. I love watching the guys fucking a woman. I CANNOT STAND watching a woman suck a dick.

About 10 years ago, I had the opportunity to go next to a straight couple at the adult bookstore. I stuck my dick through the glory hole and she was sucking it and then she would jack it off for a few seconds before she would start sucking again. This went on for about 10 minutes when I pulled back a little, I wanted to watch her suck it. Surprise, surprise, it was him sucking it. This turned me quite a bit. I pushed my dick back in all the way and shot my load down his throat.

Since then I have been with 5 different m/f couples. The first 3 were through a glory hole at the adult bookstores. And all of them were both her and him playing with my dick. The 4th couple was in an adult bookstore in a private booth. They both sucked my dick, I sucked his dick but one thing I always wanted to try was going down on a woman. So I got up the nerve while I was sucking him off and I went to turn my head towards her, she backed up and said she doesn't like that. The last time started off in the theater at the adult bookstore. She was really attractive and he was very hot! We (her, him and I) went to a private booth to finish. I fucked her while he watched. I am not much of a top to begin with, but her pussy didn't do much for me. I was hard the entire time because I was concentrating on watching him jacking off as he stood there. I never did get off, but she got off twice and they both said they needed some alone time. So I zipped up and left the booth.

 

[Brodie888]

It's like being asked to fuck a sheep. Ok sure, there are some crazy people out there who might like sheep fucking but for most normal people it's just disgusting and not worth satisfying the curiosity.

 

[51arledge]

I'm 68 and knew when I was in high school that I only wanted sex with guys.
In my 20's there were 2 different women who tried to seduce me but I put on the brakes as soon as it began to get sexual.

The image of women's genitalia or even boobs does nothing for me; in fact, a real turn-off. I have always had many wonderful female friends, and have kissed many of them; BUT my dick and my lips aren't getting anywhere close to their organs or boobs!

 

[Cum_is_Great]

I have my % as 90 gay 10 straight but that might be a little generous on the straight side. When I was very young, I had a crush on a neighbor girl but i was too young to think about sex, didn't even know what it was probably. I have never had the impulse or urge to have sex with a woman. If she offered a blow job, I'd probably try it if I were horny and comfortable with her. Women do not repulse me, just never get anything out of seeing a naked woman. Boobs are nice but not like I really want to go out to see them.

As for genitalia, I honestly never really liked seeing female genitals. Only a slight repulse but not like gross but more like "Eh, that's not for me." But then I saw a very hairy muscular(Major turnons for me) trans man playing with his pussy and thought it was hot! I imagined fucking him in his pussy and it felt "fine" imagining it! Even imagined going down on him too. That opened my eyes a bit to understanding straight men who like tans women who still have their penis. I didnt think they were *not* straight, but wondered how they could be ok with it. Its more about the whole package, genitals be damned sometimes haha

 

[Tbprivate]

I hadn’t been with females since I was young, however a bisexual guy I’d played with invited me to watch him have sex with his girlfriend and he told me that she was excited about me being there too.
I planned to enjoy the show and to jerk to the action; things progressed and she sucked me while he fucked her.
They persuaded me to fuck her while he fucked me, as a total bottom I found this very strange but was turned on by this experience.
I have to say that the pussy felt very loose and didn’t do anything for me. I’ll stick with guys, her boobs and genitalia we’re appealing to me

 

[London74]

I hadn’t been with females since I was young, however a bisexual guy I’d played with invited me to watch him have sex with his girlfriend and he told me that she was excited about me being there too.
I planned to enjoy the show and to jerk to the action; things progressed and she sucked me while he fucked her.
They persuaded me to fuck her while he fucked me, as a total bottom I found this very strange but was turned on by this experience.
I have to say that the pussy felt very loose and didn’t do anything for me. I’ll stick with guys, her boobs and genitalia we’re appealing to me

Thanks for responding mate, appreciate hearing your experience

 

[hot-rod]

I tried it a few times in high school, and realized it wasn’t for me at all. I got in, pumped a few times, but couldn’t complete. Oh well. It wasn’t meant to be. I do find some porn with women arousing, though. Especially when they are getting eaten out. Something hot about watching their lips and clitoris being manipulated and tongued and I’ve even masturbated to it.

LMAO......You are like me....we are 'straight'....we prefer men only!

 

[deleted1074483]

being a teen 40 years ago in small town devon in the UK I didn't even know what the word 'gay' or 'homosexual' was - just nothing that was particularly 'known' about then. so I did what everyone else did, got a girlfriend, yup had consensual sex with a couple - it was ok but something was missing. Went to Uni in London at 21 and omg discovered he vital missing ingredient - man sex. Not looked back since.

I don't find women's bodies gross or unattractive, just no real sexual attraction or desire for them, and have more female friends than male friends nowadays.

so yup, been there, done that, not going back.

 

[London74]

being a teen 40 years ago in small town devon in the UK I didn't even know what the word 'gay' or 'homosexual' was - just nothing that was particularly 'known' about then. so I did what everyone else did, got a girlfriend, yup had consensual sex with a couple - it was ok but something was missing. Went to Uni in London at 21 and omg discovered he vital missing ingredient - man sex. Not looked back since.

I don't find women's bodies gross or unattractive, just no real sexual attraction or desire for them, and have more female friends than male friends nowadays.

so yup, been there, done that, not going back.

Physically, how do the two compare? What keeps nagging at my mind is wanting to experience the feeling of sliding into a woman.

 

[Rsechs]

Ah, so you’re “hetero-curious”?

The short answer is that the sensations are very different. A vagina narrows as it deepens, a rectum does not. (Use your imagination ...). There are sex toys that simulate both, so you may want to take a test drive first.

If you just want to know what it feels like to fuck a woman, any competent sex worker can give you a complete tour (albeit at a price). If you want to know what it’s like to have sex with a woman (even as an FWB), you need to develop a genuine relationship. At that point, the categories of gay and straight begin to break down and the size, shape and configuration of your partner’s genitals don’t matter nearly as much.

 

[Chuckers]

Nope and I have no desire. If I watch straight porn, it's for the guys in them!

 

[852838]

When I was younger I would see women who were attractive yet I didn't feel attracted to them. I could acknowledge they were pretty and a few caught my eye but only for a moment or two. I had only kissed 3 or 4 women before I lost my virginity at 24. I watched some straight porn before that over the years and focused mainly on the guy. It's' obvious now yet I didn't get until later why I didn't have an interest in seeing two women together lol.

The woman I lost my virginity to was a nice person who I had some attraction to yet it was more emotional than physical. I didn't have problems getting in bed with her yet it just felt unsatisfying. After my first time with a guy I definitely felt the fireworks that had been missing. After that experience I thought I must be Bi since I had slept with a woman before. My therapist and I worked through some things and yeah, I'm gay.

Most gay guys I've asked (not many but some) or dated have slept with women before, usually when they were younger before coming out.

 

[BrazGuy]

Yes, I’ve been with two girls before I had sex with my first man. The girls were great but I wasn’t fully satisfied after sex.

I was 18yo when I had gay sex. However, every time I need to watch porn to masturbate, it has to be straight porn. Go figure it!