Fantasy, Partner, Someone Else...

[erpap]

Do you fantasize about someone else while having sex with your partner and why?
Honestly I think I have done it less than a handful of times. I don’t find it satisfying. I don’t see the point. I need to be in the moment and if I need to fantasize about someone else I might as well be with someone else.

 

[neutrno]

I have. Recently. Sometimes I'm bored and I try different things to help me get in the mood for sex, or during sex, to be more excited.

I can't say it made much of a difference, though.

 

[cedarizzo]

I've fantasized a few times about other guys. Usually it is when I am masturbating. But I've done it a few times with my partner. My partner is very much routine, same sex, same location, nothing changes. I enjoy having sex with him, but he gets off so easily and it usually takes me some time to get off. If he gets off first (which usually happens), he is done. I am lucky if I can get him to pinch my nipples a little bit while I jack off. So I will do my best to try and get off at the same time as him. I will usually think back to a memorable sexual experience. But there is also one guy I will fantasize about at times.

 

[palakaorion]

I would fantasize about fucking my wife in a different setting while fucking. I would fantasize about some really fucked up stuff with my wife during me time. I did not fantasize about fucking other people.

 

[MilfBanger78]

Many times. Sometimes would fantasize about a guy joining us. With one ex of mine I'd occasionally fantasize about her sister or daughter.

Then of course many times with several ex's I'd fantasize about her friends or coworkers that i knew. Sometimes I'll fantasize about cashiers that I see on a reg basis lol. Dont get me wrong I dont do this stuff all the time, its the exception not the rule, I prefer to be present in the moment and focus on her. But it takes me a long time to cum, and Im a freak that loves group sex to begin with, so I can call upon those taboo fantasies to push me over the edge and finally shoot my load.

 

[SamMann75]

When I'm with my wife, I don't need anything but to look at her incredible body to keep raging hard and turned on. Gawd damn I'm throbbing now just thinking of her body.

 

[Brodie888]

When I masturbate, I fantasize about sex with my partner. I will often have sex dreams about him too. If I watch porn, imagining myself and my partner in the scene is usually what pushes me over the edge.

I enjoy blowjobs to a degree but I can take a long time to cum unless I fantasize about my partner fucking me instead.

 

[Mittimer]

Sure, there's times where my mind is on someone else I'm craving. If I speak my mind it placates the cucky desires my husband has, so it's all fun and games for my desires to be on another cock when he's inside of me lol