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Fast And Furious Or Slow And Sensual?

Discussion in 'Ask a Woman' started by A_dub, Dec 4, 2020.

  1. A_dub

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    When it comes to the actual act, how do you like it?

    Combination of both? If so, do you prefer a gradual transition or abrupt change of pace?

    Does it depend on mood?
     
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    Why does it matter what we would prefer wouldn't it matter what your gf prefers
     
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    That really depends on a whole load of different things hunni, mood, situation, who I'm having sex with etc etc X
     
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    Physical size disparity, both genital and skeletal
    How much time do we have
    How long has it been
    What’s his mood
    What, exactly, are we doing (sex is more than PIV)
    What’s working in that moment

    there’s more, but I’m uncaffeinated
     
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    Follow the mood/moment. Adjust accordingly.

    If she is about to cum don't stop what you are doing. Unless she tells you otherwise*.

    Do not ask. She'll let you know, physically or verbally.
     
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    Everything pretty much better be sensual.
     
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    This!
     
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    What do you mean by "when it comes to the actual act"

    Do you mean penetration or do you mean the entirety of a sexual session?

    Look, I'm the first to say that a great lover understands the need for foreplay when necessary, which for me would be or would have been pretty much all the time. Build up and anticipation is key for me. None of this hard and fast crap unless I got to that point, but to be truthful the phrase "hard and fast" makes me think of jackhammering which is patently unsexy in my book and dare I say in a lot of other people's books.

    As always, listening to your partner and picking up on cues is key. And talking to your partner about it. When did it become so unpopular just to freaking ask what they like?
     
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    *I am still deeply wounded that this film was not a live action movie focusing on a master criminal and his tiger partner*
     
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    Everyone is different.
    Many women like lots of foreplay.. personally I find long, drawn-out foreplay sessions frustrating and even a little annoying :(
    Learn to read your partner's cues or just ask. There's nothing wrong with simply asking your partner what they like ;)
     
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