Feet: Do You Notice Your Partner's Feet While Hooking Up?

[rampez]

Quick Backstory: I suffer from eczema so my hands & feet naturally tend to be on the dryer side even when I use moisturizer and petrolatum based products. I do my own pedicures since I don't want to add foot fungus to the problem either.

No matter how much I care for feet, they are never baby-soft. I still get a few calluses on my heels & balls of the feet. This makes me feel self-conscious about my feet to the point that I don't ever take my socks off when I have hookups.

My Question to you is, do you notice your partner's feet while hooking up? How much importance do you place on your partner's foot hygiene/appearance?

 

[winesthel945]

Personally, like every other part of the body, a certain amount of hygiene is absolutely required. Unless you are into some aspect that is "unhygienic" (such as natural body odor, scat, stinky feet, etc.) anyone who can't manage to maintain basic standards of being reasonably maintained is a deal-breaker for me. That includes both hands and feet. Personally I'm very turned off when I see a hot guy who has dirty fingernails or long, scraggly toenails. (Same for porn stars with dirty soles of their feet -- walking around a porn set is filthy but putting their legs up in the air with feet that look like they just walked the length of San Fernando Valley in bare feet is disgusting, to me anyway.)

I have known people with skin conditions like eczema and they do their best, and that's appreciated. A little advance warning is also appreciated -- one guy warned me that he has a dry skin problem on his feet and was going to keep his socks on to the extent possible. That was nice of him to say and it turned out to be not a big issue. At some point I grabbed his feet while fucking him and I could feel that inside his socks his feet were dry and a bit scaly. At that point it was not a surprise and didn't affect the scene -- but if it hadn't been mentioned before, it might have seemed odd or a little jarring. So maybe consider communicating that briefly in advance. You don't have to roll it out like you're announcing you have cancer -- just a quick mention and move on to other sexier topics.

 

[brandon38]

I like nice feet myself it turned on for me .

 

[deleted1074483]

can't say i do when hooking up no and i'm not into feet anyway, but if a guy had a particular issue or if they were full of fungus I'd def want to know up front cos it would be more than a shock to see that!!