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This probably sounds like a stupid question... But for those of you who have regular suck buddies, how did you find them?

I love pussy, but when your not getting it - it sucks!. It would be fantastic to connect with someone locally in a similar situation and get our nut off together. But how do you find that person... It's not exactly a question you can bring up in conversation without getting decked.

Any advice is appreciated.
 

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Tried the Craigslist thing... most responses I got were from crazy people. The one 'sane' response I did get started off pretty well.

We jacked and then he ask me to suck him. I did. As soon as he nutted he went nuts and said he felt uncomfortable and asked me to leave. My guess is that he was either afraid to return the favor or the fact that I just made him nut (in a little over a minute) threw his sexuality into a tailspin.

Kinda looking to avoid THAT mistake again.
 

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My first SB relationship started out with him as an escort that I rented. After a few encounters, we developed a friendship as we had a lot in common, i.e. biking, music, lifting, etc. Probably a month or two later, he made it clear that he wanted to shift from a commercial transaction to a SB one. We saw each other for over a year until I moved due to a career change. The second SB started out as a massage arrangement that took a similar path. All this happened several years ago and I haven't been so fortunate since. Good luck in your quest.
 

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We jacked and then he ask me to suck him. I did. As soon as he nutted he went nuts and said he felt uncomfortable and asked me to leave. My guess is that he was either afraid to return the favor or the fact that I just made him nut (in a little over a minute) threw his sexuality into a tailspin.

Are you specifically looking for a bi buddy? Bi guys come in all sorts of flavors and varying degrees of sexual self confidence. If you want to avoid that drama, I'd go with a guy. Many would be happy to suck your dick whenever you want.
 

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I found mine through Manhunt.net

Mind you, this was my first experience with a guy and I chatted with him for about a year, when he said "we've been chatting for awhile and I think it's time we actually do something".

So, we arrange a Friday night to meet up. He drove me back to his place, where I remained fully dressed. He started rubbing my semi and soon after I was naked with him sucking me off like a champ.

I also felt like if I got off first, that I would chicken out on helping him get off.

So, I made sure that he nutted first. I then unleashed straight into his mouth and was shocked, when he swallowed it all.

That was about a year ago.

We still meet up and to help the pressure.
 

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This is an interesting topic to me. To any of the bi-guys with suckbuddies... do you guys wrap it up or trust the other dudes? It's been a while since I ventured out, but it seems like saftey is of the highest priority. Also, any bi-guys try to enlist a str8 suck buddy?
 

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I had one but he was a very closed friend of mine and there was not any problem. If you do not have one u muist look through the net of even here but u have to test him as much as you can if u want him for a regular! I think it is very difficult to find a str one as most of them want to put their dick in a hole no matter whose this is!
 

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This probably sounds like a stupid question... But for those of you who have regular suck buddies, how did you find them?

I love pussy, but when your not getting it - it sucks!. It would be fantastic to connect with someone locally in a similar situation and get our nut off together. But how do you find that person... It's not exactly a question you can bring up in conversation without getting decked.

Any advice is appreciated.

It sounds like you're looking for a friend first then trying to find out if he's dtf. I would suggest going the other way. Find someone that likes dick, then see if you can be friends too. But be upfront about what you want and are looking for.

I've always had trouble with finding fuck buddies at Bars/clubs and stuff like that. Unless I'm just looking for a one night stand. My current fuck buddy is my ex-gf's ex-bf (she had a type). He's bi but more straight that I am, which makes it easy. I know he's not looking for more from me. We bonded over how fucking crazy she was. but i don't know if that helps.

Also, by 'suck buddy' do you mean fuck buddy too? or are you looking specifically for someone to just suck off or suck you off? I havent had a strictly 'suck buddy', since HS but i don't think i can talk about that on here.
 

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I've been having luck with manhunt. Do have a regular married guy, but he cannot come around often enough. Once a month or so, although this summer should be a lot more often since he is a teacher and has the summer off while his wife works.

Still looking for a single guy like me who does not have to invent excuses to visit with me. Manhunt seems to be mostly horny married guys. Or gays who want nothing to do with a Bi guy.
 

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Back in my day it was relatively easy to find a suck buddy. Mine happened on accident. I made a bet for a blow job, the guy lost the bet, and while I was in the boys bathroom he came in and asked me what I was doing, I replied beating off. He told me he was there to give me the blowjob I won in our bet. We went into the stall and he sucked my cock until it was sore! Then he stands up, and his cock was sticking above his waistband of his belt. He begged me to help him out. The alarm rang for the last bus, and I left. I got off the bus and was walking through the woods by my family farm, and he was leaning up against a tree with the biggest hammer I have ever seen. He again begged me. I had no idea what I was doing, and my jaws were sore for days, but I got him off, and trashed some clothes when he nutted all over my everything. There was no diseases back then either. You are right to have anyone tested you want to be with in that way. I to am looking for someone to BJ with in south georgia. I have one straight bible thumping guy I worked with. He went on a road trip with me, and when we got to our destination I showered, and came out with no towel on, and he was watching a DP porn. Said he had never seen anything like that before. I put my cockring on, and watched the porn in full view of him with my hard cock. He was under the covers, and when I turned to sit on my bed I noticed he was watching me and not the movie. He got into the shower, and we went out that night. He got stupid drunk, and fell in love with every girl that looked his way. I do not drink at bars one too many stupid last call one night stands. On our way back to the hotel he told me he had put a bottle of Jack Daniels in the freezer before we left. I grabbed the bottle of JD, opened our patio door, and headed out to the jacuzzi. Cracked the bottle, and drunk fuck came to the JI. He had an 8' area to sit but he chose to sit right next to me. I pulled from the bottle, and turned to put the bottle outside the jacuzzi. My hard cock hit his left arm, and he didn't say a thing, or move at all. He said I had a nice hammer. We went into our room. I went into the shower to rinse off, came out naked again. This time he was watching a 2m1f video, and was on top of the covers. I grabbed my coconut oil and lubed up, and handed him the bottle, and he did the same. I am glad he got out of his shell, and at least exposed himself to me. He had a nice cut cock. I told him to pull on his balls to increase the load. When he came he passed out. I finshed shortly after. the next morning we ate breakfast on the beach, and the food/view was most awesome. I asked him if he had any regrets about last night, and that I didn't want to pressure him into anything against his beleifs. I told him what happens in that room stays in that room. I knew he was uneasy about talking about what happened. That night we stayed in the room, ordered pizza, and I went into the shower again, and when I came out naked this time he had straight gay porn on, was jacking off like a wildman. I sat next to him, and lubed up again. The butterflies were in my stomach, and I was glad he could trust me enough to get into something he was unfamiliar with. He now sucks my cock all the time. He and I both travel a lot in our jobs, and call eachother for evening of cum.
 

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yup it is sure a LOT more difficult than i ever thought it wud be to find a good suck buddy.....I can find plenty that are over a thousand miles away lol.... cl is a waste of time locally, same few ooold dudes on there postng 5 times a day usually
 

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dammmm I have been looking for a long time but all I get is guys living far
i used to have a reg married bud I sucked him once a week for about 4 years then they moved to a different part of the state which was too far
 

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I have a suck buddy, problem is I do not get to see him very often. He is a school teacher though, and has the summer off while his wife works. And he wants to cum feed me several times a week during the summer. Not only that, but this guy has this incredible talent of being able to cum multiple times in a very short period of time. Last time he was here, it took about 15 minutes for the first load. Ten minutes later he drops a bigger load. Ten minutes later he drops an amazing load. And he's my age, 51. Wish I could do that.

Then has to go home before his wife gets there.

Got a younger (46) single guy coming around tomorrow, who is looking for a regular suck buddy. Since he is single, I'd say things are looking up.