First time as daddy

[DaddyJerseyCity]

I'm about to enjoy my first experience with a (42 y/o) son I found on cl. I know, don't start on c/l.

We seem to really be in sync. And becoming a daddy almost seems natural to me. In fact, I'm loving it. It's focusing me. It's me after all these years?

Anyway, we meet Thursday. I have a number of "break the ice" yoga positions he can't wait to do. We will definitely come a lot.

Question: he wants anal so bad. And I will start preparing him. He seems a virgin. And I will inspect and probe. But, should I use a condom? Sounds like a dumb question, but if you don't have to, why not?

Your helpful advice is solicited. Thank you in advance.

 

[find83]

Well the decision is up to you but always be prepare to take the consequence. It also depends on how exclusive both of you have agreed to make your daddy/son relationship. Personally I would use condoms, not only to protect your son but also yourself. You can never be sure about his sexual history especially since you guys haven't met yet. Once that trust is built you guys can always take off the condoms after. Again this is just my opinion.

Make the decision that best suits you and your boy and have fun ;-)

 

[Mister2101]

Go with the condom....my opinion........be safe bro.....

 

[KennF]

Regardless of the roles being played, if you are going to enjoy anal sex, then you've got to deal with the reality.

He may or may not be a virgin.
He may or may not be monogamous.
He may or may not have been exposed to other STD's.

Even if he is non-infected today, you can't be sure that either one of you may or may not stray in the future.
You can only guarantee your choices.

You are playing Russian Roulette is you decide to go bareback this early in a relationship. And condom play can be exciting as well. Having him put it on you, rolling it down your shaft with his mouth (if he's got some talent), him lubing your cock up in preparation. All of that is lost if you opt out.

If you don't want to use condoms, then you should be on PrEP.

 

[erpap]

Wish I could find a hot hung dad

 

[deleted847535]

Wish I could find a hot hung dad

 

[erpap]

Mmmmmmmmm, I'd like to be your insatiable bottom!

 

[TK2129]

damn a jersey dad in the bergen/sussex county area. HOT

 

[DaddyJerseyCity]

That rare, huh?

 

[TK2129]

haha, well that you're on here too . Small world!

 

[RioDalston]

TBH I'd rather go raw but it's up to you

Imagine the difference between pumping your hot raw daddy-load directly in to his arse compared to it staying in the rubber.

 

[TK2129]

So what happened?

 

[DaddyJerseyCity]

So what happened?

He cancelled!