First Time Experminemt

[LookingForSomethingMore]

Hello,

I am a straight guy who has been curious of how sexual intimacy would be with a man. Can anybody tell me how to approach finding someone who can introduce me? I find it most dificult to find someone who has the patience and understanding to experiment with and who would not be frustrated if it leads nowhere ...

 

[Matt_L]

Hello,

I am a straight guy who has been curious of how sexual intimacy would be with a man. Can anybody tell me how to approach finding someone who can introduce me? I find it most dificult to find someone who has the patience and understanding to experiment with and who would not be frustrated if it leads nowhere ...

Potentially you’ll find them on here, or on an app like Grindr or maybe Tindr. I mean as long as you are up front with them about what you are looking for and what you are expecting. I mean when I first started going with guys I found that the guys I met were really patient and understood my lack of experience. You may find some guys will be pushy but sadly that goes with they territory. Just be safe, don’t do anything you don’t want to and if you’re not comfortable leave, but I’m sure you don’t need me to tell you that

 

[Brodie888]

I think you first need to make gay friends. If they don't want to be your friend then they fail the test to be your play friend.

 

[LookingForSomethingMore]

Potentially you’ll find them on here, or on an app like Grindr or maybe Tindr. I mean as long as you are up front with them about what you are looking for and what you are expecting. I mean when I first started going with guys I found that the guys I met were really patient and understood my lack of experience. You may find some guys will be pushy but sadly that goes with they territory. Just be safe, don’t do anything you don’t want to and if you’re not comfortable leave, but I’m sure you don’t need me to tell you that

No, you don't , but it is good advice for anyone anyway ...

In the mean time I changed my mind about this, which has nothing to do with the subject as such, but with my personal situation.
I still think this is useful advice though ...