FTM being used/abused in porn?

[ILoveGames48]

I started dating this guy 3 years ago dec15th.. I proposed to marry him and he said yes ..

Well after we dated 6 months or so.. and we finally made it to beginning to do things sexual.. it started because he seemed shy or even scared so I told him I didn’t care if he had a small penis or whatever ..

It was then he told me he was trans .. ftm .. I was like .. ok .. and is this a bad thing for him.. and he has had bad experiences with other men where he was abused and basicly raped by one guy .. which totally upset me


Won’t go into details what occurred next as figure you all can pretty well know what occurred between me and him..


Main reason for this post is since I been with him I can’t stand to watch porn with ftm in them as it seems like the ftm is used and abused during the scenes .. sometimes the guy would be fucking him and the ftm person has this look on their face like stop but they don’t and they do t really look like enjoying it

Not all of them but some of them..


Is it just me thinking differently because I am in love with him or is it really the way I think about how they are used ?

 

[ManVag]

We all had something in the past we'd rather not happened

Why don't you think of it differently? You're in love and enjoy having sex with him

That's should erase (sort of) things in his past

 

[ILoveGames48]

It’s not his past mostly talking about.. for while I’d watch that kind of porn and it would turn me on how they’d be pounded hard and aggressively but now I see these porn and I feel like they are being exploited.. I know it seems weird I guess ..I just see it differently…

Yes I do him assertively and rough at times so that’s not the issue..

 

[accidenttourist]

Main reason for this post is since I been with him I can’t stand to watch porn with ftm in them as it seems like the ftm is used and abused during the scenes .. sometimes the guy would be fucking him and the ftm person has this look on their face like stop but they don’t and they do t really look like enjoying it

Porn is NEVER reality and ALWAYS fantasies... whether the performers look like they're having the sex of their lives or profoundly disgusted...

Sorry for breaking the truth. Several well-known performers have stated on record on autobiographies exactly that point - that you perform whatever the director wants you to. So, yes, all porn performers are USED but certainly not ABUSED. In most countries producers have heavy legal requirements to document that all performances are out of free will of the performers!