Not saying it's true all around I'm just sharing my experience. It could be just the way I act though. I usually don't get along with gay or queer women in a romantic sense. A lot of times they try to make me remember my womanly roots or something lol. Sometimes very passive aggressive too like saying oh you could have been a very strong butch lesbian, like I gave up the gay fight or something. A lot of them can't understand I was never a woman and a lot of them are proud. There's nothing wrong with that at all it's awesome you're proud to be what you are, but you can't expect everyone to be like you. It's not realistic. I am very much an alpha male personality and very masculine. So some queer woman get a little offended at times with me. It's whatever though I don't really care, I'm not going to change.