Fuck Buddies: A Discussion thread

[dfw051980]

Let's talk about the rules of having a fuck buddy; the Dos and Don'ts.

Is this the maximum number of times you should hit up your buddy for sex? Like is a few times a week too much or are we talking about only one time a week; max? Or should it be even more infrequent that that?
Do you have a set schedule like 7Pm every friday night? LOL

Is it understood that it's okay to have multiple fuck buddies? In case your main is not available?

What about Casual hanging out with your buddy? Do you chill watch tv together, maybe get drinks or a meal together or is that veering into a more "Friends with Benefits" type thing?

Does your fuck buddy stay the night or is it "in and out".

Lastly: Partners? If your buddy is involved with someone do you want to know about it? Is it an automatic know or do you not care?


These were just a few things I've been thinking about lately... ill add my personal answers after but everyone chime in with your own responses... and this is a discussion so i don't think there can be any wrong answers.

 

[dfw051980]

My personal thoughts on the questions i pondered...

I don't think there should be a set amount you are allowed to hit up your fuck buddy. of course, being respectful of someones time and also (I do realize there is some prep involved for bottoms so i do take that into consideration). But in my eyes if im horny and wanna cum, I should opt to cum with someone else first.LOL

I think having multiple fuckbuddy is fine and okay, but there are certain safety precautions i take (like preferring everyone is on Prep at least.

I feel like hanging out with your fuck buddy is fine but its kinda crossing a line into something more.

Id love a fuck buddy to spend the night cause i like fucking off and on throughout the night.

When it comes to partners, i don't want to know anything about them.

 

[HungBtmVegas]

Let's talk about the rules of having a fuck buddy; the Dos and Don'ts.

Is this the maximum number of times you should hit up your buddy for sex? Like is a few times a week too much or are we talking about only one time a week; max? Or should it be even more infrequent that that?
Do you have a set schedule like 7Pm every friday night? LOL

Is it understood that it's okay to have multiple fuck buddies? In case your main is not available?

What about Casual hanging out with your buddy? Do you chill watch tv together, maybe get drinks or a meal together or is that veering into a more "Friends with Benefits" type thing?

Does your fuck buddy stay the night or is it "in and out".

Lastly: Partners? If your buddy is involved with someone do you want to know about it? Is it an automatic know or do you not care?


These were just a few things I've been thinking about lately... ill add my personal answers after but everyone chime in with your own responses... and this is a discussion so i don't think there can be any wrong answers.

(Going off of my normal preferences with FBs, not necessarily what's happening with my current ones)

If we're fuck buddies, I'm at least sucking their cock 4 or 5 times a week and maybe having sex once or twice a week, maybe less frequently than that. The more often I suck, the less often we tend to have sex. Scheduling usually isn't set in stone; it's more like "come over after work" or "wayd? I'm horny".

I usually have 3 or 4 fuck buddies at a time and usually they don't know each other, but they're aware that unless they become my monogamous boyfriend, I'm as much of a hoe as when they met me.

I think the difference between FWBs and FBs is the non-sexual hanging out aspect. I don't "hangout" with any of my FBs unless it's the get food or go to a bar before or after we hook up.

I have some FBs who let me spend the night if it's late by the time I get there, but I usually prefer to go home if I'm sober enough to drive.

I don't care about any of my FBs love lives.