gag reflex

[D_Bill_F_Wrights]

Hi guys

well, I want to be able to deepthroat a guy without gagging.
Any tips on how to lose the gag reflex?

Practising on something? Or just practising a lot?

 

[D_Sal_Manilla]

I asked the same question a few weeks back... everyone said to just practice.

 

[D_Bill_F_Wrights]

'kay, thx!

anyone wanna help me practising?

 

[mandoman]

Yes, I do, but I'm an ocean away.
I am no expert cock sucker, in fact, I haven't done it in decades. I have gotten some good advice, which I will pass on to you.
I had a horrible gag reflex. Could not even brush the back teeth without gagging.
You can practice on a banana. It doesn't mind. After a while, you can touch your tonsils, and go even further. Another tip is, if you start to gag, swallow. It relaxes the muscles. Then, you can go even deeper. Take your time. Learn to enjoy. Then, get a person to try it on.
Best of luck, guys, in making someone happy even happier.

 

[deleted804287]

Yes, I do, but I'm an ocean away.
I am no expert cock sucker, in fact, I haven't done it in decades. I have gotten some good advice, which I will pass on to you.
I had a horrible gag reflex. Could not even brush the back teeth without gagging.
You can practice on a banana. It doesn't mind. After a while, you can touch your tonsils, and go even further. Another tip is, if you start to gag, swallow. It relaxes the muscles. Then, you can go even deeper. Take your time. Learn to enjoy. Then, get a person to try it on.
Best of luck, guys, in making someone happy even happier.

Thanks for the tips

 

[sakino]

I've been told squeezing your left thumb helps reduce your gag reflex. I've tried it and it does help

 

[D_Bill_F_Wrights]

I've been told squeezing your left thumb helps reduce your gag reflex. I've tried it and it does help

whuut?
just squeezing it?

 

[D_22]

I recall reading that some people practice while brushing their teeth. When time to scrub their tongues, you put the brush back of your tongue and try to not gag. Over time, you start to get better at it, your throat getting used to all that.

 

[unzipped]

so yeah, "come on baby suck deeper..as I squeeze your thumb" hah I'll give it a try..

 

[mrsatisfier]

'kay, thx!

anyone wanna help me practising?

Buy a big cyberskin or ur3 dildo and practice as often as you like.

 

[dylz]

i have a feeling the "left thumb trick" only works because we expect it to help. you know, a psychological thing. i have a feeling the right thumb would work just as well

 

[crescendo69]

I squeeze my middle thumb..
Oh, that's my dick.

 

[B_Nicodemous]

Do not practice on a banana. It can break. The toothbrush suggestion...I remember petite, who used to post on here a lot, mentioned it. You slowly desensitize the area...I will try and hunt down the links. Dildos...won't break, but also do not compress like a cock. Get a few, in varying sizes, and slowly start to practice on them.

Remember to not to inhale while it is back there. At a certain point you won't be able to, and, for me at least, that will trigger a gag reflex. Try to stick out and flatten your tongue, as this will give more space at the entrance to your throat.

Work WITH any curve he has, so if he curves down, kneel in front. Curves up? 69 time. Left or right? Approach from appropriate side. Dual curve ( my bf has a left ward) adjust to see what is easiest. Ramrod straight? Try to straighten out your throat ( laying on your back, head off the edge, or on your stomach, head tilted up)

If you gag...back off, get things calmed down, there is a Tom other than deep throating. When your ready, ease back down. There is a curve to your throat, do you will come to a point where you will feel some resistance. Moving your head side to side while pushing down will help wiggle past this sticking point. You may feel a bit of a...not a pop, but king. More like it will stick then woos your past. Lol

Swallowing helps. Big tome. It feels different and is harder to do, in my opinion, when you have a cock down there. Oh and don't try to be all worried about swallowing your spit. To get a good saliva swallow, I find it impossible with a dick down my gullet. If some drools out while you are nose in pubes deep, or when you get the hang of it and there is serious face fucking action going on, well, that is not the time to worry about some drool! They are not worried about anything other than how good it feels! Lol

 

[D_22]

Yeah, pretty much from my experience, the more you try it, the easier it gets. I realized recently how much my throat just seems to open almost naturally, and you have to be relaxed.

 

[D_Bill_F_Wrights]

i have a feeling the "left thumb trick" only works because we expect it to help. you know, a psychological thing. i have a feeling the right thumb would work just as well

yeah, was kinda thinking the same thing

 

[D_Bill_F_Wrights]

Do not practice on a banana. It can break. The toothbrush suggestion...I remember petite, who used to post on here a lot, mentioned it. You slowly desensitize the area...I will try and hunt down the links. Dildos...won't break, but also do not compress like a cock. Get a few, in varying sizes, and slowly start to practice on them.

Remember to not to inhale while it is back there. At a certain point you won't be able to, and, for me at least, that will trigger a gag reflex. Try to stick out and flatten your tongue, as this will give more space at the entrance to your throat.

Work WITH any curve he has, so if he curves down, kneel in front. Curves up? 69 time. Left or right? Approach from appropriate side. Dual curve ( my bf has a left ward) adjust to see what is easiest. Ramrod straight? Try to straighten out your throat ( laying on your back, head off the edge, or on your stomach, head tilted up)

If you gag...back off, get things calmed down, there is a Tom other than deep throating. When your ready, ease back down. There is a curve to your throat, do you will come to a point where you will feel some resistance. Moving your head side to side while pushing down will help wiggle past this sticking point. You may feel a bit of a...not a pop, but king. More like it will stick then woos your past. Lol

Swallowing helps. Big tome. It feels different and is harder to do, in my opinion, when you have a cock down there. Oh and don't try to be all worried about swallowing your spit. To get a good saliva swallow, I find it impossible with a dick down my gullet. If some drools out while you are nose in pubes deep, or when you get the hang of it and there is serious face fucking action going on, well, that is not the time to worry about some drool! They are not worried about anything other than how good it feels! Lol

thanks! I hope your info helps

 

[Redwyvre]

I'd say first try laying on your back and hang your head over the edge of the bed. Open your mouth really wide. Have your guy stand next to the bed and slowly (at first) feed you his hard dick pushing it further and further down your throat. He's basically doing all the work. Once your throat is used to it you can switch things up and start bobbing without any gag reflex. Keep us posted on your progress.

 

[B_Nicodemous]

I'd say first try laying on your back and hang your head over the edge of the bed. Open your mouth really wide. Have your guy stand next to the bed and slowly (at first) feed you his hard dick pushing it further and further down your throat. He's basically doing all the work. Once your throat is used to it you can switch things up and start bobbing without any gag reflex. Keep us posted on your progress.

I'd be inclined to say that this position works best with up curved and straight cocks, a down curve would be hitting upward into your soft palate, and have to make more of a turn if it is long enough to be throated. An upward ("U"curve) cock would side along the tongue and into to throat with minimal excess bending. Same with a ramrod straight dick.

Also, and this is for me, it takes a lot of trust that you partner will have enough awareness of your body signals and self control, to not gag or hurt you, or go to fast to where you can't catch an adequate breath. Try placing one hand at the base, to have more contact and be able to push back if needed.

In any position, I find that there comes a point about 70% og the time, where tp really get him all, I need a bit of help. My body refuses to relax to get him down. I place his hands on my head, and nod, and he knows to gently, but firmly, ease it down my throat. He helps me over that sticking point I described earlier. I especially need this assistance if I am approaching it from a more challenging angle. As I said, he has a left curve U bend. So approaching it from the right ( ok i am giving him a bj, him laying on his back, me on his right side, head angled downand left) means it wants to go in a way opposite my natural curve. His dick is aimed at my sinuses, not throat, lol

Well on the one curve. The up curve works to well, so I can get more of his cock in as I maneuver mr head and jaws to engulf more os him. He'll this is a challenge is we are 69ing it, as then his cock is pushing obscenely on the left side of my throat with the glans, and the right side with he right center portion of his shaft.

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What was I talking about?

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Oh! Yeah my point is that, while all of these positions are good, YOU will have to figure put what makes sense for YOU.

A word on the head dangling of bed side...if he has low hangers, they can block your nostrils and make breathing...problematic, lmao!

 

[B_Nicodemous]

Oh, regarding the toothbrush desensitization? I remembered two nights ago what Petite said. She said to make it work, it must be done every ten to 15 times a day.

 

[coffeemate]

Get yourself a dildo, condoms, jelly lube and the rest is a matter of dedication,
and want (on your part) to please!

I get ready for an evening using two dildos, one for depth, and the other
for girth. There are some flavored lubes, and I start with a good amount
using the condom covered 18" dildo, when I can get it half way down, I
switch to the also condomed thick dildo. I drive through gays area holding
the thick dildo in my mouth as I cruise. I can only hold my breath for so long
though since it does cut your breathing off.

I've had hung guys walked away from my blowing them, apparently, because
I'm not gagging. Other just use my mouth as a cunt and get their nut. A few
have stopped and ripped off their condoms and cum all over my lips, smearing
and thumping their flesh clubs on my lips.

We are a strange bunch, we who please other men! One guy asked if I could show
his friend 'the technique' as he called it.

Practice with desire!! Enjoy!!