Gay And Disabled

[gaywheelchair]

Hey guys.

I’m new on here. I’m 28, gay, and in a wheelchair.

Obviously things don’t work perfectly “down there”. This makes it hard to make friends and have a relationship.

Any advise. Any good dating apps or websites for the disabled?

 

[uncutnhard]

Hello and welcum. Just wanted to say to hang in there and I'm sure someone understanding and great will come along.

 

[onenuttertoo]

onenuttertoo on slype if you wan to chat

 

[Scarletbegonia]

How does it affect making friends? I’ve known plenty of folks with disabilities, mobility to sight, and friends were never their problem.

 

[gaywheelchair]

How does it affect making friends? I’ve known plenty of folks with disabilities, mobility to sight, and friends were never their problem.

Sorry. I went back and reread my post. I guess I didn’t make that very clear. Lol.

I meant making friends with regards to “sexual” relationships, whether that’s having short-term fun or something more long term.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

As someone with, shall we say, some concerning issues, even invisible disabilities can impact a sexual relationship.
My general sense is EO please looking for a one night/one weekend/one off will be more concerned with the superficial. Because that is as long as they are going to be around.

so, play to your strengths, and play a longer game.
All that blather to lead to.... heard of doublelist? It’s the CL successor.

 

[gaywheelchair]

As someone with, shall we say, some concerning issues, even invisible disabilities can impact a sexual relationship.
My general sense is EO please looking for a one night/one weekend/one off will be more concerned with the superficial. Because that is as long as they are going to be around.

so, play to your strengths, and play a longer game.
All that blather to lead to.... heard of doublelist? It’s the CL successor.

thanks!!

I hadn’t heard of that site. Will check it out.

 

[baowel]

I dont why but imagine "invisible disabilities" as like a wheelchair that you cant see or an invisible seeing eye dog....which sounds awesome, ngl

 

[Scarletbegonia]

I dont why but imagine "invisible disabilities" as like a wheelchair that you cant see or an invisible seeing eye dog....which sounds awesome, ngl

Think seizures, deafness, many of the chronic fatigue syndromes, etc etc. Not saying what mine is.
Nothing so cool as Wonder Woman’s Wheelchair.

 

[Justahardync]

Hello can never have enough friends

 

[theplayerking]

I met my husband on Tinder. I recommend it highly.

 

[Zeehr0]

Hey guys.

I’m new on here. I’m 28, gay, and in a wheelchair.

Obviously things don’t work perfectly “down there”. This makes it hard to make friends and have a relationship.

Any advise. Any good dating apps or websites for the disabled?

Hey - gay wheelchair user here too. No great advice for apps - but feel free to PM