Gay Bathhouses

[losercock]

Ok. So I'm considering trying out a gay bathhouse but I want to hear from some people who have been to them first.

First off, how clean are these places, is there just cum and jizz everywhere lol, or does it actually feel like a real spa?

Also, do good looking people actually go to these places? Or is it all just old men with small dicks?

Are there crazy people? What happens if someone is creeping too hard? Do they kick them out?

Any other personal stories or experiences would be much appreciated.

 

[nashboy]

ive been when i was in LA had fun always younger nervous guys there...had a hot time when i went

 

[Hotlatbtm]

It depends on the bathhouse and the area its in. Some are 'really' good, others well you get the point. The ones here in LA that I've been to on the whole have been decent with few exceptions. NO they are not all bad and mostly clean. There are ALL types that go there and if someone is being TOO handsy with you just push them aside and simply say ' thanks but I'm with someone OR your not my type' . I've had fun with really HOT guys and some so so guys that 'grew on me' LOL pun intended.

 

[MuscledHorse]

It depends on the city and the bathhouse. Many are very clean places and some even give out free condoms. The better ones like Flex, SteamWorks, and Club [fill in the city] all have websites with details, pictures, and so forth. There is a good deal of info at bathhouseaddict.com and links to many of the baths, gay campgrounds and gay resorts websites.

As for the sex, it depends on the day of week and time of day. Plus if there are special events (more common at gay campgrounds and resorsts) that ensures an increase in attendance. Go at the right time and you will have more sex than you thought possible. Just be sure to play safe.

 

[Canamyk]

You will have to try them to find where your comfortable the most. You might ask a friend for good location. The rignt time? Usualy week-end evening, some place are better week days... It realy depend. The mens? I've seen some one for every body type. It's a good place to try new men type. But most of all: be safe. You will have a very best time if you get the place you fell comfortable in. And for those who can't take no, you keep saying no. If they touch you, simply take the hand gently and put it back on there body saying "thank's, but no thank's" That was enough to keep them away when it happen to me. Have fun!

 

[madmatter93]

bump

 

[AtomicMouse1950]

I've never been to one. I'm going to the Castro district the coming Summer to find out.

 

[Nbender]

I go to The Club St Louis and have been to a few others but the number 1 rule is be SAFE!!!! Most I've been in are clean and the men very in age. Have fun and be safe!!!

 

[blackbottom2]

Most that I've been to I've found frankly filthy and the only people who seem to have fun are the ones who revel in casual unprotected sex with multiple partners sometimes just lying there waiting for the next cock to penetrate them. Others like me on a constant merrygo round seeking a suitable partner And never actually finding the one

With the numbers of guys present some of whom will be on drugs and some who will have communicable diseases that are made worse with hiv or aids. Some will be in low depressed moods without any self respect let alone for others .. for example TB herpes gastro intestinal infections don't actually require close contact to be transmitted. Believe it or not some evil people actually enjoy the act of passing on those diseases going out of their way to deliberately infect. others will be negligent. There's no way staff can monitor that or keep the environment clean. You don't neccessarily have to engage in sex to come away carrying something nasty and in those places the chances are higher

Sorry not my kind of fun

 

[FuzzyKen]

Some of these places are outstanding and others are "flesh pits" and qualify as places where the shower and steam room floors and benches would test positive for various communicable diseases let alone the average patrons.

Just remember that many use these as places for anonymity. If they are in that mindset there may be a reason for them desiring this kind of contact.

The one thing to remember is that what you see may not at all be what you get in this environment. Conversely, what you get may not be what you see.

There are better ways to meet people, but, take a few visits to scope out a place before you have contact with anyone. Just be a people watcher and observe, be social, be kind, be attentive and look at it with harsh reality as your goal. If it passes the light of harsh reality, and a really tough reality check, you have some actual chance of finding a decent place.

 

[MisterSlave]

Like the thoughts expressed by others, it depends on the place. . and as always if someone you do not approve of comes on to you after you tell them no. . then No means No. . So. . just keep that in mind. . as for cleanliness and Spa. . well. . again, it depends on the place. Some bathhouses and sex clubs can be Seedy. . but, then again some people like that. . All I can say is. . you will know, when you experience it.

 

[Rugbypup]

Apparently there are three in my little city but the very idea of them creeps me out.

Generally, men can be quite unattractive, I was always terrified of some fat old git trying to touch me.

So, I never went and don't feel like I missed anything.

 

[travis7]

Steamworks clubs for men are for the most part clean. You get what you pay for. If its really cheap then your going to see a lot of the cheaper people and not as clean as one that would cost a bit more. I've had a lot of fun, and some times I would go just to relax. No sex but to just look and watch.

 

[robi06]

has anyone been to a bathhouse? I was thinking of checking out midtowne spa in milwaukee this Friday, always wanted to jerk off in a bath tub or a steam room. Can you do that or is it only in designated areas/rooms?

 

[dixie1006]

Bathhouses/spas are THE best place to have open sexual encounters (either alone or with others). Most in the US have people frequently having discreet playing (rubbing, caressing, etc.) in the more public places, but in the more secluded places (steam room, dry sauna, showers) things REALLY heat up with open masturbation and oral. But once you get into the darkened mazes, video rooms, and private cubicles it's no-holes barred with anything and everything going on! Saunas are great because you can be as involved as you like, or just play by yourself. And if you do choose to play, you have your choice of men to play with. I would definately check it out!

 

[robi06]

so it doesnt matter if you whip it out and start jerking off then? sweet. want to try it haha

 

[rcc8611]

Wonder if any in my area....sounds fun

 

[dixie1006]

Scope it out first before you just "whip it out". Wrap a towel around you and wander (cruise) the whole place to get a feel for it. But I think within 5 minutes you'll know what areas are safe to have some fun. Good luck!

 

[travis7]

My first one was in a major city.. A dentist chair was in the open area, and three of us stroked and came on one guys face.
Steam works in Chicago is good. A lot of fun.. Sauna, steam room, hot tub. Maze. Rooms with holes.. Sex all over the place some rooms had plexiglass so you could show off with out being disturbed.
And yes.. Fcking, stroking ,sucking any place you see fit.
You walk around with just a towel. Respect others .. Do not touch if some one is not into you..
Some places are better then others. Cheaper admission is not always better.. Hire price you get better quality of guys.. But not as many.. Also have to look for ( online ) first time discount.. Or out of town discount..
Condoms are free in most places..
Berkeley , San Diego , Phoenix , Chicago , los angeless have some good ones.

 

[MuscledHorse]

Bathhosues are swesome for hook-ups, multipartner pleasure and exhibition sex. I've lost count the number of times I've been fucked in a steam room or sauna while guys watched or waited a turn; ditto that for other open areas as well as the showers and the "rooms" (with the door open of course!) YOu will haev a blast!