Hey guys - as a gay dude with a 5" dick I can tell you that 99.9% of guys I've ever been with have been bigger than me. Admittedly I mostly hook up with white dudes, but everyone has been at least an inch bigger than me and most a couple inches. I can't possibly believe 7" is the top 1% of dick size. I've measured a lot of these guys at 7.5 and 8 myself and yes, I know how to measure. I've had multiple men tell me I'm the smallest they've ever been with. I honestly just cannot believe 5.3" is "average" - at least not for white guys. Am I alone here? I'm not trying to diss small dicks, I'm just saying from hundreds of guys worth of experience I absolutely cannot believe this is true at least for healthy adult white men.
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Another post on size! Obsess much? I care only about the cock that's right in front of me right now. All the rest are phantom. (Just for your obsession, I've been with a lot more 5-6" guys that 7-10", including White, Black, Asian, every race, and ancestors from every continent.
OP you are also getting with men that want to have sex, and you do too. Imagine how many thousands upon thousands of men out there have never attempted to have sex because they don't have the drive to do it, or are average or smaller, and just don't fuck. I'm quite bold with my cock, at 7.5" bone pressed or a little more depending on how hard it is, but are guys that are 5" as bold? 6" even? That's what I think about when I hear posts like yours: experience matters but experienceD people are not in the majority.
I mean I’m only 5” and I’m quite motivated to have sex. I can’t imagine size affects the want of a guy to have sex. I think the honest truth is guys with “average” 6.5-7 inch cocks want to maintain an illusion they’re huge. It’s just not reality. The reality is that 6.5-7 IS the average
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do you meet men mostly off of apps or just random people in the street? I think the people on apps will gravitate towards larger
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Imagine how many millions of mens self esteem would be boosted by some random study out there saying the average is like .5" below the real average 
Also I bet a lot of it comes down to how the measurements are done in the study. And the whole white guy thing you mentioned lol
Also I bet a lot of it comes down to how the measurements are done in the study. And the whole white guy thing you mentioned lol
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Are you a bottom? Do you look for larger guys? If yes, don't be surprised when you get what you want. Don't be surprised that if you're a "Twink" and thin and attract much larger guys
I am a bi guy with a thin 5 inch hardon. I have seen many guys hard and they are a variety of all sizes with many my size or smaller.
Well technically you should say where you got your numbers. It's not enough to say it is your belief.
I agree, as a guy with a 4" dick, I find everyone is soooo much larger. I know I am below average, but I really do find that every other gay guy I've met is not average, but well above average.
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That is very true the average is about 5.3-5.5 GLOBALLY.
. Now if you going by demographics based on race then it varies. Trust Me.
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yeah 5.3 really does seem low to me, i don't seek out size, but i would say the overwhelming majority of guys ive been with are above 5.3, and only a couple below it, and a couple right around there. not saying theyre all huge, but mostly closer to a full 6.
I think the stats are accurate, if you include all men. When you start breaking it down by ethnicity, yeah, there are some differences. My (white) dick is 6.5” long and 5.5” thick. I’ve been thicker than about 75% of the guys I’ve been with and longer than about 60%. I’ve slept around a lot. I’ve never seen a truly small black dick. But most that I’ve encountered were smaller than mine. White guys seem to be slightly smaller than black, but not a significant difference. Central American Latinos slightly smaller still (although, again, barely). And then Asian men have trended the smallest. That’s why, given the choice between equally handsome men, I will always pick the Asian guy. I’m hoping he has a dick that I can blow all day without gagging or getting a sore jaw. It’s a bonus, not a drawback.
Yep I agree it’s not about the biggest dick, I enjoy smaller cocks just as much sucking and fucking is much easier
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Based on my own experience with mostly other white guys but also with some Latinos, black and asian guys thrown in, this is my experience too. My sample size is probably right around 300 or so dicks from most major urban areas in the western USA over the last 20 years and I am using the length of my own dick to do the estimating. The great majority have been in the 6.5 to 7 inch range which is right where mine is. I do seem to be seeing more long dicks among younger guys recently and of course it is well known that younger males are growing somewhat taller than previous generations as well.
However i would say I have seen more dicks that fall below this range than above it and maybe this is what is pulling the average down. 7.5 inch dicks may very well be more rare than 6 inch ones. Still I too find it really hard to believe the average erect dick length in the USA could be as short as 5.3 inches. I dont think I have ever encountered one this short among white or black men and only a few among guys of east asian or native american background.
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Further to the above I wanted to add that I doubt that among gay men at least there are very many guys who avoid sex because they have a short dick. Shorter dicked guys do seem to be more likely to bottom but we all know there is an abundant supply of enthusiastic bottoms hooking up out there.
I cannot rule out the possibility that straight guys might be on average an inch or more shorter than gay guys but I kind of doubt it. My sample size of straight dicks is a lot smaller but its not zero and i have not detected any noteworthy size distribution difference.
Finally I should say that dick size is not a particular concern of mine in a sexual partner although I do find it quite interesting in an academic sort of way. I am very dick positive for most any size dick I have encountered as long as they get nice and hard and ejaculate a copious amount of semen! If they stop squirting and getting hard though its time to call it a day.
I cannot rule out the possibility that straight guys might be on average an inch or more shorter than gay guys but I kind of doubt it. My sample size of straight dicks is a lot smaller but its not zero and i have not detected any noteworthy size distribution difference.
Finally I should say that dick size is not a particular concern of mine in a sexual partner although I do find it quite interesting in an academic sort of way. I am very dick positive for most any size dick I have encountered as long as they get nice and hard and ejaculate a copious amount of semen! If they stop squirting and getting hard though its time to call it a day.
The 5.3" average seems exactly right to me. I'm 7.25" to 7.5" myself and I have an embarrassingly high "body count," somewhere in the 200-300 range. Out of all of those, maybe a dozen have been bigger than me. I grew up thinking that 6" was average and once I became sexually active, I thought that that seemed pretty generous, given the guys I had been with.
I wonder if people who think that 5.3" seems low have been specifically seeking out larger guys. That was not the case for me.
I wonder if people who think that 5.3" seems low have been specifically seeking out larger guys. That was not the case for me.
I know some bigger guys than me I’m 6.5, but have seen alot smaller than me especially girth wise, I’m quite thick at 5.5 inches.
Couple of mates have at least 7.5 - 9 inches but they’re the minority. My wife has been with at least 15 guys on 2 have been bigger but like huge both over 8.5 the rest have been smaller than me and I wouldn’t call my dick massive.
I’ve probably sucked between 50-100 guys and would say 5.5 was average, however I think dick sizes are getting bigger in my opinion.
I used to work in an environment where I seen a lot of guys soft cocks and most where about 4 inches max soft, only a handful of real big floppy cocks like 7 inch slap, all different ethnicity’s from white to Muslim, Black to Asian
Couple of mates have at least 7.5 - 9 inches but they’re the minority. My wife has been with at least 15 guys on 2 have been bigger but like huge both over 8.5 the rest have been smaller than me and I wouldn’t call my dick massive.
I’ve probably sucked between 50-100 guys and would say 5.5 was average, however I think dick sizes are getting bigger in my opinion.
I used to work in an environment where I seen a lot of guys soft cocks and most where about 4 inches max soft, only a handful of real big floppy cocks like 7 inch slap, all different ethnicity’s from white to Muslim, Black to Asian
