Gay guys having straight sex

There is probably no general answer, only individual ones.
But part of the answer is that the male body can be quite functional in some aspects, and as long as they reach their climax, both partners experience physical satisfaction. The inner emotional conflict, on the other hand, is not so easy to resolve; it will probably remain latent and then require the persistent will to ignore it.
 
It's known that gay men have married and have sex with women to conceal their sexuality. Because I imagine that they fear the consequences of coming out. My partner and I are both closeted bisexual. We would never come out. It would boggle the brains of the people around us...
 
The most obvious answer is they just think of something else (presumably of a guy)

Closeted married guys have been doing it forever

Plus, viagra exists.

As a gay man who has occasionally had sex with women- usually a MMF 3some where a married couple wants another guy involved- well….. the presence of the other guy helps me get in the mood. Plus, pussy feels good on your dick, gay or straight

The purely physical mechanics and physical pleasure involved in fucking someone is similar whether you’re fucking a man or a woman

it’s fun to find an otherwise truly straight guy who understands this and uses your ass as a fleshlight
 
The actual experience of finding someone to experiment with a gay man like me was difficult. Staying hard was equally difficult especially while trying to wear a condom. Stroking and blowjob helped. I met someone who wanted to help me experiment and she knew I might have problem getting erect. The entire thing was very sexual and not romantic.
 
In the early years when you aren't even out to yourself and you just want to fit in with your friends, you try to make it work.

It would be the same as a straight person having gay sex. It's not what you want but you can make it happen if you try hard enough.

Basically, having sex opposite to your orientation is like assembling Ikea without the instructions. It's awkward, difficult, mechanical, something you don't want to have to do too often, and you just have to fake that you got it all woked out.

Women don't know you are gay. Ever.

You know in your own head that you you aren't bringing your A game. They either don't notice or just make up a reason in their own head why. Such as "they aren't as pretty as the last girl", "they aren't experienced enough to please a man properly", "they're boobs are too small", "he was probably too drunk", "he's got a lot of stress at the moment", etc etc.

For some women, your worst sexual performance is better than most of their previous experiences. Because a gay man making an effort to fake it is better than a lot of straight men who don't know a clitoris from an elbow.
 
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guys im genuinly curious, how do these gay guys, or guys sexually interested in men, have sex with women? Like don't the women notice? How do they even get hard around them.

lmk!
well I get hard during a bumpy bus ride, that doesn't mean I'm specifically attracted to public transportation. penises generally just need stimulation to get hard, being with someone you're attracted to isn't necessarily required.
 
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If I don't have sex or jerk off every day, I become sex obsessed.

So if I didn't cum for a week, I'd probably get an erection from a gentle breeze.

So a warm wet mouth, even from the wrong gender will do the trick. Or even easier, waking up with a raging boner and putting it to her.
 
well I get hard during a bumpy bus ride, that doesn't mean I'm specifically attracted to public transportation. penises generally just need stimulation to get hard, being with someone you're attracted to isn't necessarily required.
So, for men, attraction is a social construction once they can have sex with anyone.