hey guys,
I know it’s like a one in a billion chance that anything would ever happen to me but I have always been curious how I would react if I seen one of my favourite porn stars in real life. It would be quite obvious where I knew them from to both of us.
Has anyone had this thought? How would you react? What would you say? Has this happened to you?
OK, porn is work. There are "stars" and then there is every other actor. Stars work harder and tend to have more boundaries and contractual obligations. I've worked at the same events as service staff and manager and event coordinator as a few hundred (I can remember Francois Sagat, Matthew Rush, and Dawson, that's it so don't ask, unless I see 'em I don't remember their names). Francois and Matthew were both sweet and both invited me to some after party I did not go to, Dawson did try to pick me up but only on the third time round so I declined, have dated a couple of actors (date is a very generous term for what we were up to but they didn't meet me as such, we were just friends who met through friends), and have had a couple of really mindblowing slut fests with guys who were not working and just out for some extra kinky fun on a couple of occasions but that was years ago.
I don't bother guys who are working/stripping/tricking or hosting because they have plenty of that to deal with. Other than that, I wait for a guy to tell me what he does, if he does, and overwhelmingly, guys have been totally thankful I a) didn't say anything one way or the other b) didn't ask to see their clips when they did disclose and c) treated them with respect just like I would anyone. I guess when you've been around it (I was doing BDSM shows at 19 in a hardcore leather bar, it's work, not sexy) a long time there's nothing all that exciting about it, unless there is real chemistry between two strangers for whatever reason.