GBU NYC experience

[body4body]

Not sure if this is the right subsection of LPSG but wanted to share my thoughts on the GBU party hosted in NYC (Brooklyn this time)

I messaged the host on sniffies (I didn’t know he was the host even until after the fact) and I said want to meet? He said catch me tomorrow night at this place. There will be 100s of hot guys… okay cool.

It starts at 10PM, I get there 11PM, pretty good crowd but I have a show to catch so I come back 2AM

2AM it was packed! Theres a coat check and free alcoholic drinks. The price is discounted if you’re under 21 (or maybe extends to 21). It’s $40 if you’re 21+ $25 if 18-20. As written online I can confirm the rumors in my personal experience: there are rarely any older guys (40 is the cut off for GBU, apparently) and out of the let’s say 70 guys in the basement maybe just ONE I would consider overweight.

With that being said… I’ve seen online comments about the host denying entry to men who don’t look good in the face, but as far as I’m concerned I can’t confirm or deny that detail. What I can confirm it I think it’s likely the party truly doesn’t allow overweight or older men. But you don’t need to be “fit”, otherwise understood as being your body being toned from exercise. My body type is average and I was let in. I would say 65% of the guys there are toned/muscular and 35% are average build but not fat. although to be fair it’s NYC where I think it’s more common to find men especially gay men more into fitness, I think a party in Atlanta or Dallas wouldn’t have so many fit guys…

It’s a good crowd, it’s NYC, so there’s a mix of different hairstyles skin tones ethnic backgrounds… they give you top bottom verse bracelets.

If you’ve gone to this party what is your experience? Do you keep going and if so for how long have you been a member?

Debating whether to go in the next two weeks.

 

[Skier74]

I find the ageism offensive ‍

 

[body4body]

I find the ageism offensive ‍

Do you find the sexism offensive as well because women cannot come?

 

[Ricanpup25]

Not sure if this is the right subsection of LPSG but wanted to share my thoughts on the GBU party hosted in NYC (Brooklyn this time)

I messaged the host on sniffies (I didn’t know he was the host even until after the fact) and I said want to meet? He said catch me tomorrow night at this place. There will be 100s of hot guys… okay cool.

It starts at 10PM, I get there 11PM, pretty good crowd but I have a show to catch so I come back 2AM

2AM it was packed! Theres a coat check and free alcoholic drinks. The price is discounted if you’re under 21 (or maybe extends to 21). It’s $40 if you’re 21+ $25 if 18-20. As written online I can confirm the rumors in my personal experience: there are rarely any older guys (40 is the cut off for GBU, apparently) and out of the let’s say 70 guys in the basement maybe just ONE I would consider overweight.

With that being said… I’ve seen online comments about the host denying entry to men who don’t look good in the face, but as far as I’m concerned I can’t confirm or deny that detail. What I can confirm it I think it’s likely the party truly doesn’t allow overweight or older men. But you don’t need to be “fit”, otherwise understood as being your body being toned from exercise. My body type is average and I was let in. I would say 65% of the guys there are toned/muscular and 35% are average build but not fat. although to be fair it’s NYC where I think it’s more common to find men especially gay men more into fitness, I think a party in Atlanta or Dallas wouldn’t have so many fit guys…

It’s a good crowd, it’s NYC, so there’s a mix of different hairstyles skin tones ethnic backgrounds… they give you top bottom verse bracelets.

If you’ve gone to this party what is your experience? Do you keep going and if so for how long have you been a member?

Debating whether to go in the next two weeks.

I’m going 5i lmm

Not sure if this is the right subsection of LPSG but wanted to share my thoughts on the GBU party hosted in NYC (Brooklyn this time)

I messaged the host on sniffies (I didn’t know he was the host even until after the fact) and I said want to meet? He said catch me tomorrow night at this place. There will be 100s of hot guys… okay cool.

It starts at 10PM, I get there 11PM, pretty good crowd but I have a show to catch so I come back 2AM

2AM it was packed! Theres a coat check and free alcoholic drinks. The price is discounted if you’re under 21 (or maybe extends to 21). It’s $40 if you’re 21+ $25 if 18-20. As written online I can confirm the rumors in my personal experience: there are rarely any older guys (40 is the cut off for GBU, apparently) and out of the let’s say 70 guys in the basement maybe just ONE I would consider overweight.

With that being said… I’ve seen online comments about the host denying entry to men who don’t look good in the face, but as far as I’m concerned I can’t confirm or deny that detail. What I can confirm it I think it’s likely the party truly doesn’t allow overweight or older men. But you don’t need to be “fit”, otherwise understood as being your body being toned from exercise. My body type is average and I was let in. I would say 65% of the guys there are toned/muscular and 35% are average build but not fat. although to be fair it’s NYC where I think it’s more common to find men especially gay men more into fitness, I think a party in Atlanta or Dallas wouldn’t have so many fit guys…

It’s a good crowd, it’s NYC, so there’s a mix of different hairstyles skin tones ethnic backgrounds… they give you top bottom verse bracelets.

If you’ve gone to this party what is your experience? Do you keep going and if so for how long have you been a member?

Debating whether to go in the next two weeks.

think I might check this party out tn, I’ve been getting the texts but wasn’t sure if it would be worth it

 

[body4body]

I’m going 5i lmm

think I might check this party out tn, I’ve been getting the texts but wasn’t sure if it would be worth it

Let me know how it goes!

 

[Ricanpup25]

Let me know how it goes!

I had a good time, it was pretty packed this Saturday and some really hot guys

 

[body4body]

I had a good time, it was pretty packed this Saturday and some really hot guys

Glad you had fun. NYC guys are next level sexy

 

[Strawberry101]

Is this even legal?

 

[body4body]

Is this even legal?

By what measure?

 

[malakos]

I find the ageism offensive ‍

I don't find the discriminatory aspect of it bothersome, but I would say it is sketchy and perhaps predatory assuming the possibility of fakery, or at least creepy to fetishize barely legal men like this even if they are verified as being as old as they claim.

 

[body4body]

I don't find the discriminatory aspect of it bothersome, but I would say it is sketchy and perhaps predatory assuming the possibility of fakery, or at least creepy to fetishize barely legal men like this even if they are verified as being as old as they claim.

The discount exists because 1) younger people are less likely to go to these events 2) less likely to afford it and 3) more likely to be attractive. Not because it's creepy. Come on now!

 

[malakos]

The discount exists because 1) younger people are less likely to go to these events 2) less likely to afford it and 3) more likely to be attractive. Not because it's creepy. Come on now!

More likely to be attractive to whom? Those who fetishize the barely legal?

 

[colorfulkent]

Do you find the sexism offensive as well because women cannot come?

ageism is a negative thing to some people (obviously not you). Having separate spaces for men and women or in this case heteros and homos, is socially acceptable. Especially when they are safe spaces to be yourself. Do younger gay fit men need safe spaces away from older gay men? I know you want to answer that question, but .....

 

[colorfulkent]

What if the party was exclusive to only white boys?

 

[body4body]

What if the party was exclusive to only white boys?

It is a private party though, not an actual business like a gay bar.

More likely to be attractive to whom? Those who fetishize the barely legal?

Sorry for acknowledging most people find a 20 year old hotter than a 40 year old! lol

 

[malakos]

It is a private party though, not an actual business like a gay bar.

Sorry for acknowledging most people find a 20 year old hotter than a 40 year old! lol

Do most people find 18-20yos overwhelmingly more attractive than 25yos, so that we would say it's acceptable and natural to incentivize 18-20yos in particular to come to sex parties, and we have no reason to suspect this has anything to do with fetishization of the very young, the barely legal?

 

[malakos]

What if the party was exclusive to only white boys?

White men, you mean?

 

[body4body]

Do most people find 18-20yos overwhelmingly more attractive than 25yos, so that we would say it's acceptable and natural to incentivize 18-20yos in particular to come to sex parties, and we have no reason to suspect this has anything to do with fetishization of the very young, the barely legal?

Honestly I don't entirely disagree with your idea and point here despite my previous joke post. Most people would probably find a 25 y/o more attractive. I will say I share some of your sentiment, but this particular situation I think it is different.

It's honestly a bigger question and you can more or less attribute this moral question to the bigger moral picture of sexual morality. There is strange behavior and there is immoral behavior.

LPSG rules do not permit me to speak about this topic at length (cannot speak about non-adults)...

 

[glenarm680]

I finally went to GBU for the first time (though in LA). What a great experience; 10/10. There were literally hundreds of guys there. I think there were 500 in total (though obviously not all at the same time.) I showed up a little before 3am thinking it might be starting to wind down, but there were probably 200 guys there. Some more were even showing up as I was leaving a little after 4am.

Nearly everyone was hot, and guys were actively fucking. They weren't just standing around looking at everyone else who was standing around, which is what usually happens at a lot of sex parties in my experience.

Maybe I'm the wrong person to be commenting on the admission policy as I am an in-shape early 30s white guy, but I support it. The mix of guys was almost all hot. I didn't feel like I was out of my league (which can happen frequently,) but I also didn't feel like I was ever going to get approached by someone I wouldn't be interested in. I think that security is very important, and I think as a result, a lot of guys seemed to have their guards down and were overall more friendly and willing to fuck.

The only downsides were that coatcheck seemed overwhelmed and slow. Based on the bracelets, there seemed to be a lot more bottom and vers guys and not as many strict tops. As a vers/bottom, I ended up only topping.

I'd love to try one of the NYC nights whenever I'm back there. I'd also love to see this in San Francisco, though SF is such a sleepy city for nightlife that it may not work there unfortunately.

 

[body4body]

I finally went to GBU for the first time (though in LA). What a great experience; 10/10. There were literally hundreds of guys there. I think there were 500 in total (though obviously not all at the same time.) I showed up a little before 3am thinking it might be starting to wind down, but there were probably 200 guys there. Some more were even showing up as I was leaving a little after 4am.

Nearly everyone was hot, and guys were actively fucking. They weren't just standing around looking at everyone else who was standing around, which is what usually happens at a lot of sex parties in my experience.

Maybe I'm the wrong person to be commenting on the admission policy as I am an in-shape early 30s white guy, but I support it. The mix of guys was almost all hot. I didn't feel like I was out of my league (which can happen frequently,) but I also didn't feel like I was ever going to get approached by someone I wouldn't be interested in. I think that security is very important, and I think as a result, a lot of guys seemed to have their guards down and were overall more friendly and willing to fuck.

The only downsides were that coatcheck seemed overwhelmed and slow. Based on the bracelets, there seemed to be a lot more bottom and vers guys and not as many strict tops. As a vers/bottom, I ended up only topping.

I'd love to try one of the NYC nights whenever I'm back there. I'd also love to see this in San Francisco, though SF is such a sleepy city for nightlife that it may not work there unfortunately.

This notification brought me back to the NYC parties I went to! Wow, what a spectacle it was.

I find the T/B/V ratio at these parties is roughly similar to a normal standard deviation. 15% are full top, 15% are full bottom, and the rest are all vers. I haven't been to a bathhouse in so long but these comments are making me want to go back lol! It's nice to hear at that party guys were actually having sex.