I'm a little older so, I use Viagra sometimes with my girl, but the problem is out of any of the girls I have dated in the past this one is the only partner I have yet to give an orgasm to. I tried both oral and vaginal without success. Maybe toys or lube will help. She says she doesn't always orgasm. I don't think its my size, not hung, just 6.5" x 5" here. Any suggestions?
Girlfriend not getting an orgasm
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Not all women can orgasm. I had a girlfriend some years ago that had never had an orgasm at age 31. Talk to her and ask her if there is anything she likes that gets her off. Don’t be disappointed if she just can’t though
Important question first is did you make her cum/orgasm before? If the answer is no. Then like the ones above me have stated or suggested, not many woman do from their partner/sex. If the answer is yes. Then she’s either enduring possible bouts of stressed/hormones/age. Talk to her. Be there for her. She’ll tell you what’s wrong. If she doesn’t mention any of the above, she maaaaay be possibly getting smashed by someone else, cumming/ orgasm galore.
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It's your journey hunni no real advice apart from to take the time to learn your woman's body and what it responds to x
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Ask her what makes her get to orgasm when she has them. Maybe she just can't have them all the time, as every woman is different, and every sexual session is unique in its own right.
Exactly! I've been fortunate enough to be able to bring every woman I've been with to orgasm, but each has been quite different in how and when it happens, and it doesn't always happen, event with easy-to-orgasm women. Communication is key, ask her what feels best for her.
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Nearly 2.5 years since thread was started, I’m interested to know if things have improved, have you found her ‘switch’ yet?
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Uh, he's trying to get her to orgasm on his own, I don't think using something artificial will help
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The vibrator works wonders. Its the end goal that matters
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Yeah, but it'll lower his self esteem and have a low feeling of self worth.
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Yeah, but he won't be at least with that pussyBut...sis is cumming, though.
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So it's not about her pleasure, it's about his ego? Gotcha.
This isn't a women's issue, it's one man's issue with one woman.
But you responding to me nearly 6 months later with some bullshit for the 2nd time was necessary?
Go home, Roger.
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Seems the op @rockhopper wasn't following, but I don't follow your calculations.
Agree with @Holly Doors.
Did this story a happy ending or at least did she?
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Right, and everybody here should just accept your insensitivity towards the subject and not expect anybody to react so vehemently??
Take your own advice before you give somebody else it.
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Hey I never meant it to be that way.T&J, but can't accept anybody who wants to be that insensitive toward a man who wants to try help his woman orgasm.
That's callous resignation.
You may not have meant it that way but that's the only way it can be taken.
This guy doesn't need to be the one to make her cum with his penis. If he can't accept that A WHOLE LOT of women just aren't gonna cum easily with peen in pussy sex and that his partner may be one, that's not my problem. And I don't feel bad for someone who lets their ego get in the way of giving a fuck about ACTUALLY pleasing their partner.
Nothing against you personally. Or even the OP. I'm just making a very obvious observation. If dudes care more about being the most amazing lay ever than actually wanting happiness for their partner, even if it means they aren't the ones causing the pleasure with their dangling bits, then I care not about their insecurities. They have other qualities they need to focus on.
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