Girlfriend to Homoflexible Couple?

[gaydude45]

Good afternoon Ladies,

My boyfriend have recently entered a lengthy on-going discussion surrounding the possibility of engaging with a woman, sexually, albeit on an equal footing with each of us enjoying what the other does. I am at least nominally bisexual, and my partner had sex with a woman on one occasion. Basically, we're both 100% all male with fabulous working equipment, and know that if some good pussy were in the room that we would ravage it with abandon (consensually, of course).

My question is this: would any of you women here be girlfriend to two gay men? If so, describe in what capacity.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Ravage it?

Barf.

 

[Acquar]

I would... if they were a couple of Cagatay Ulusoy's clones
You're not really looking for a girlfriend, just a sexual partner in a threesome. Then my answer is: I'm into intimacy, that's the only interesting thing for me about sex... so: no.

 

[gaydude45]

I would... if they were a couple of Cagatay Ulusoy's clones
You're not really looking for a girlfriend, just a sexual partner in a threesome. Then my answer is: I'm into intimacy, that's the only interesting thing for me about sex... so: no.

Well intimacy sounds lovely. That's what we're all about. But I've never been with a woman, just men. And yes, we'd be looking more for a sexual friendship as opposed to a full-blown romantic one.

You'll have to forgive my writing clumsily or from a place of ignoramce, because I am. I really have no idea what I am doing if if is with a woman. Therefore the idea of women who are into gay couples appealed to me upon us discussing it.

 

[EllieP]

I would advise you find a female sex worker willing to accommodate you. Definitely not my jam.

 

[gaydude45]

I would advise you find a female sex worker willing to accommodate you. Definitely not my jam.

Not our cup of tea, and this is merely for discussion not proposition. And prostitution is illegal.

 

[Acquar]

Well intimacy sounds lovely. That's what we're all about. But I've never been with a woman, just men. And yes, we'd be looking more for a sexual friendship as opposed to a full-blown romantic one.

You'll have to forgive my writing clumsily or from a place of ignoramce, because I am. I really have no idea what I am doing if if is with a woman. Therefore the idea of women who are into gay couples appealed to me upon us discussing it.

You've never been with a woman, you have no idea what to do with a woman... you're just curious then. How could a threesome with a woman enhance the relationship with your boyfriend? What would be the benefit for the woman? I mean, you have a relationship with your boyfriend but the woman would be there as a sex toy... do you really think you'll find many women interested in that kind of 'exchange'? If not a sex-worker then you should try some kinks sites. Women's brains are usually wired differently.

 

[gaydude45]

You've never been with a woman, you have no idea what to do with a woman... you're just curious then. How could a threesome with a woman enhance the relationship with your boyfriend? What would be the benefit for the woman? I mean, you have a relationship with your boyfriend but the woman would be there as a sex toy... do you really think you'll find many women interested in that kind of 'exchange'? If not a sex-worker then you should try some kinks sites. Women's brains are usually wired differently.

This is just a fantasy. I wouldn't take it in a manner so literal or personal.

 

[gaydude45]

Decided to come back to read my original posting. It's interesting how some focused on the title and not the substance of the message body, which comes down to two points:

"My boyfriend and I have recently entered a lengthy on-going discussion surrounding the possibility of engaging with a woman, sexually, albeit on an equal footing with each of us enjoying what the other does."

"Would any of you women here be girlfriend to two gay men? If so, describe in what capacity."

Clearly this is describing a non-romantic arrangement; not only are we already in a relationship, but my message clearly describes a curiosity on what physical intimacy is like with a woman, not emotional intimacy. I hope that is clear; if we wanted emotional intimacy with a woman, we would be with one.

 

[SubbySlutForBigDick]

Not our cup of tea, and this is merely for discussion not proposition. And prostitution is illegal.

Escorts (which is what modern day prostitutes are called) are not illegal so I echo @EllieP on going that route as it is a better route to go as IMHO a lot of women won't be wanting to be "a girlfriend" of a gay male couple

 

[gaydude45]

Escorts (which is what modern day prostitutes are called) are not illegal so I echo @EllieP on going that route as it is a better route to go as IMHO a lot of women won't be wanting to be "a girlfriend" of a gay male couple

An escort walks you down the street. A whore will have sex with you for money. No matter the mental gymnastics, if exchanging sex is intended as part of a financial transaction then it is prostitution, which is problematic (legally speaking) for all involved, not to mention the moral and physical perils involved in it.

It is evident to me that finding women into gay men is rather remote. It is interesting that the answers here have latched on to one factoid or another while missing the big picture. I have posed similar questions elsewhere in this forum, and received far less equivocation and polemical discourse.

I prefer men, always will. But I have a curious part of me that feels as though it needs to be scratched. That's definitely not a crime, and feels as though it should be treated more normally. Resorting to illicit activities is not an option. This was to engage discussion on whether a friend like this could ever be found, and whether or not an arrangement could be made between my partner and I and her. That's it.

 

[Acquar]

It is evident to me that finding women into gay men is rather remote. It is interesting that the answers here have latched on to one factoid or another while missing the big picture. I have posed similar questions elsewhere in this forum, and received far less equivocation and polemical discourse.

I prefer men, always will. But I have a curious part of me that feels as though it needs to be scratched. That's definitely not a crime, and feels as though it should be treated more normally. Resorting to illicit activities is not an option. This was to engage discussion on whether a friend like this could ever be found, and whether or not an arrangement could be made between my partner and I and her. That's it.

Women into gay men are not that rare (I'd be with some, separately, for sure)... but into threesomes, without any connection to the couple other than sex... again, quickest way to possibly meet a woman with that kind of interests would be a kinks site. I'm not being judgemental, I totally understand curiosity but I'm being honest. That's why I mentioned women's brains. Women usually need more than mild physical attraction to even consider the idea of having sex with someone (let alone, two -almost- unknown men at the same time). It takes time to build a friendship and it'd be dishonest to do so just expecting to have sex then... so, you don't even look for a friend, just the experience.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

An escort walks you down the street. A whore will have sex with you for money. No matter the mental gymnastics, if exchanging sex is intended as part of a financial transaction then it is prostitution, which is problematic (legally speaking) for all involved, not to mention the moral and physical perils involved in it.

It is evident to me that finding women into gay men is rather remote. It is interesting that the answers here have latched on to one factoid or another while missing the big picture. I have posed similar questions elsewhere in this forum, and received far less equivocation and polemical discourse.

I prefer men, always will. But I have a curious part of me that feels as though it needs to be scratched. That's definitely not a crime, and feels as though it should be treated more normally. Resorting to illicit activities is not an option. This was to engage discussion on whether a friend like this could ever be found, and whether or not an arrangement could be made between my partner and I and her. That's it.

Oh, do get out

 

[gaydude45]

To the Ladies present on LPSG, I hope you all have a splendid evening. I look forward to new replies.

Cheers.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

This is just a fantasy. I wouldn't take it in a manner so literal or personal.

So this is literal fap fodder?

 

[gaydude45]

So this is literal fap fodder?

Unwatching the thread, now.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

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