Got a question about erection quality

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I've been watching a lot of amateur porn with what in sure is average sized guys and the like. I've seen a lot of men who just don't seem to get all the way hard or have issues maintaining an actual stiff erection. I used to see it in regular porn and just figured it was harder to keep a larger dick rock hard. I've always stayed rock hard all the way through sex. But seeing this on lots of amateur porn I gotta ask. Is it common for men to just not get really hard erections? I always thought erections were, well hard.... We called it a hard on or a stiffy, not a floppy.... I've not done a threesome or anything since I was in my 20s. Even then the other guys were as hard as I was... Sorry of this has been asked before
 

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Porn is not real life...not even amateur porn. I'm like you. Rock hard all the way through penetrative sex. You can't even bend my cock once it gets hard.
 

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I think there are gay porns where the actors do it for money. They are probably not attracted to sex between men; so they are not excited.
Me, even today at 65 when I have sex with a man I get hard very quickly and I stay stiff until I cum.
Obviously not all men make me hard. I'm not a fan of backrooms, so attraction starts first with the eyes and I don't just look at what he has between his legs
 
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Good observation and I would agree with Art & LouParis10 in their assessment of what transpires in porn.

As for me, rock hard and then some sometimes.
 
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Now that I’m over 60, when I a get an erection, I appear to get near full length and thickness but not more than half hard. During intercourse when I do finally get fully hard at times I’ll be unable to cum, yet at others I’ll cum almost right away after getting fully hard.
 

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Now that I’m over 60, when I a get an erection, I appear to get near full length and thickness but not more than half hard. During intercourse when I do finally get fully hard at times I’ll be unable to cum, yet at others I’ll cum almost right away after getting fully hard.
Time to see a GOOD urologist who specializes in male sexual function.
Could be a simple issue, but you don't want it to get worse before taking action.
If you've had a change in meds recently, it may be part of it - but you need to see a Uro doc to be certain.
Indy
 
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I see a Urologist every 4 to 6 months because of Prostate issues and he stated it is all apart of ageing. Of the six I have seen over the years only one even really wanted to talk about sexual function.
 

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I see a Urologist every 4 to 6 months because of Prostate issues and he stated it is all apart of ageing. Of the six I have seen over the years only one even really wanted to talk about sexual function.
Thats terrible only 1 out of 6 medical professionals are trying to help you. Do kegels and edging it should help
 
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With me I get hard while getting sucked and then fucking someone my dick will get soft for while then as I’m about to cum I get rock hard ..

That’s one reason I don’t fuck too fast at certain parts of fucking as it is soft and could allow it to bend or even break