Yes. Had a more active sex life when I moved to japan. I was fresh out of college, finally out living on my own, and I wanted to take the opportunity to have more sexual experiences and explore my sexuality. But...while having a daikon (Japanese slang for big white dick) made me exotic and lots of guys there wanted to test drive it, very few actually could. I’d meet many people for sex, then comes the time for me to try and stuff my dick in them annnnnd nope. Too large.
I mean I’m fine with oral or even a hot hand job. Though those weren’t always great quality either, guess because many of those guys had never played with anything over 7. I personally don’t think the mechanics would be all that different, but who knows maybe they are? It definitely felt interesting being treated as an exotic commodity though, having people hit you up for sex because they’ve never been with a foreigner or someone with a rather big endowment. But most meet ups were just for them wanting to have the experience, only three of those guys turned into fwb regular meetups. And those guys were glorious!
Personally, I don’t think my dick too large, any size is usually possible for a person to take inside them. But most of these guys just wanted to have a one time hookup and didn’t have the patience to try and ease themselves open to fitting my dick so yeah :/ It actually made me lose wood lots of times. Especially because pain is a huge turn off for me and I want my partner to feel comfortable, so if I try putting it in and the immediate response is “it hurts”, yeah I deflate pretty quickly and it isn’t easy for me to get it back up. Best to just call it quits then.
Met a guy here though who it was originally too big for, so we decided to meet up sometime later in a few months. In between that time though, guy went out, bought a dildo closer to my measurements, and practiced using it. By time we did meet up, he was able to take me, though he was still quite right around my dong. I was super impressed at the level of dedication he went to just to be able to get fucked by my member. And to my credit, still to this day he says I’m the best sex he’s ever had - told me he felt my dick poking his stomach from the inside when I was deep in him and he also came completely hands-free like a volcano. Total pride moment for me.