Hate-Fucking/ Rough Sex

[gaydude45]

I'm sure everyone has gotten into this to one degree or another, but if so, how have you engaged in it?

Were you in the active position (i.e. man during straight sex, or top during gay sex), or in the passive position (bottom during gay sex)?

What were the conditions that led up to this encounter, and how did they add to its intensity?

 

[halcyondays]

I've had several good hate fucks over the years most from stupid arguments which led to pushing, shoving and wrestling which resulted in fucking. Here a few of the more memorable ones.

A mother who found out a couple years later that I had fucked her son all fours years he was here at uni chewed me out for it when she was in town visiting friends we have in common. She and I had hooked up at a wedding over a decade earlier while she was separated from her first husband. Ten years later her grown up gay-as-the-day twink son remembered me and sought me out when he attended college here. He loved sucking and grooving on my cock. Anyway his mother's incandescent anger (you're old enough to be his father, etc.) landed she and I in bed for an angry hate fuck--the same bed where I had plowed her son over a hundred times. He called me "daddy." Come to think of it so did she.

An angry lesbian--her term not mine--who used to work in the office frequently argued with me for not being feminist enough got into it at her place and ended up in her bed. Her girlfriend had recently broken up with her making her even more upset. Mad angry fucking ensued--some of the hottest ever. A lot of it was just personality clash. Opposites attract. It led to a short term intense affair before she moved on. "I still mad at you but at least you're a liberal" was her parting shot.

Anyone remember the First Gulf War? I had been seeing this empty headed conservative girl--perfect stereotype of the ditzy blonde. She was for the war, I against. Argument. Bed. Fuck. Then we ended it. She was goddess hot & sweet but had almost nothing going on upstairs. Great sex though.

That's three.

 

[helloguy]

I’m very interested in this topic. I’ve never hate fucked anyone in either position but can imagine scenarios it would be hot in. At the same time, it feels like a really immature response to conflict if resolving the conflict is your goal. I have had some of the hottest sex of my life following resolving argument though. Kind opposite energy though, like deep love-fucking, not hate-fucking

 

[gaydude45]

I’m very interested in this topic. I’ve never hate fucked anyone in either position but can imagine scenarios it would be hot in. At the same time, it feels like a really immature response to conflict if resolving the conflict is your goal. I have had some of the hottest sex of my life following resolving argument though. Kind opposite energy though, like deep love-fucking, not hate-fucking

Make-up sex is also wonderful; I have another thread for that very topic: Make-Up Sex

 

[gaydude45]

I've had several good hate fucks over the years most from stupid arguments which led to pushing, shoving and wrestling which resulted in fucking. Here a few of the more memorable ones.

A mother who found out a couple years later that I had fucked her son all fours years he was here at uni chewed me out for it when she was in town visiting friends we have in common. She and I had hooked up at a wedding over a decade earlier while she was separated from her first husband. Ten years later her grown up gay-as-the-day twink son remembered me and sought me out when he attended college here. He loved sucking and grooving on my cock. Anyway his mother's incandescent anger (you're old enough to be his father, etc.) landed she and I in bed for an angry hate fuck--the same bed where I had plowed her son over a hundred times. He called me "daddy." Come to think of it so did she.

An angry lesbian--her term not mine--who used to work in the office frequently argued with me for not being feminist enough got into it at her place and ended up in her bed. Her girlfriend had recently broken up with her making her even more upset. Mad angry fucking ensued--some of the hottest ever. A lot of it was just personality clash. Opposites attract. It led to a short term intense affair before she moved on. "I still mad at you but at least you're a liberal" was her parting shot.

Anyone remember the First Gulf War? I had been seeing this empty headed conservative girl--perfect stereotype of the ditzy blonde. She was for the war, I against. Argument. Bed. Fuck. Then we ended it. She was goddess hot & sweet but had almost nothing going on upstairs. Great sex though.

That's three.

Incredibly stories! Cool that you went the bisexual route with all of it, too. Wish I were that lucky.

 

[ILoveGames48]

i usually dont get rough during sex if i am the top--but as a bottom it was casual sex until one guy few years older than me was into rough--there was times i wanted to make him either stop or slow downbut then some reason --either i didnt care for few minutes--- or just actually started to feel great---
but i grew to like it rough---

 

[gaydude45]

i usually dont get rough during sex if i am the top--but as a bottom it was casual sex until one guy few years older than me was into rough--there was times i wanted to make him either stop or slow downbut then some reason --either i didnt care for few minutes--- or just actually started to feel great---
but i grew to like it rough---

It's awesome when one doesn't want your top to do something and he does it anyway ... making it better than ever. Good stuff, man. Gonna bottom here, shortly.

 

[gaydude45]

It's awesome when one doesn't want your top to do something and he does it anyway ... making it better than ever. Good stuff, man. Gonna bottom here, shortly.

Awesome sex, last night. He want hard and ROUGH from the get go. Boy oh boy was he ever huge!

 

[ILoveGames48]

There’s times like it rough just depends on my mood.. there’s also times I’d like to meet a guy or guys to fuck me harder than I’ve ever been fucked

 

[gaydude45]

There’s times like it rough just depends on my mood.. there’s also times I’d like to meet a guy or guys to fuck me harder than I’ve ever been fucked

Bareback?

 

[ILoveGames48]

When talking about liking it rough .. is it just the anal sex you like rough .. or you like to be spanked / whipped hard n rough

 

[gaydude45]

When talking about liking it rough .. is it just the anal sex you like rough .. or you like to be spanked / whipped hard n rough

Anal sex rough. Althoigh my boyfriend did recently get into biting me while pounding me, which immensely added to the pleasure.

 

[ILoveGames48]

Can’t start conversation so can’t talk more about it here

 

[gaydude45]

Can’t start conversation so can’t talk more about it here

You can't start the conversation? I really don't know what you mean.

 

[SamMann75]

You can't start the conversation? I really don't know what you mean.

Can't private message you. Need you to private message me and him

 

[gaydude45]

Can’t start conversation so can’t talk more about it here

Sorry man, I don't DM for hard topics such as these. Public forum, only. Thank you.

 

[chrisrobin]

I'm sure everyone has gotten into this to one degree or another, but if so, how have you engaged in it?

Were you in the active position (i.e. man during straight sex, or top during gay sex), or in the passive position (bottom during gay sex)?

What were the conditions that led up to this encounter, and how did they add to its intensity?

Once, it was amazing how my pent up feelings all came out in that fuck, it became a hole to fill, to pound and have no feelings for the guy.
Theraputic

 

[MNpervert]

Never had 'Hate Sex' with men. Plenty of rough sex in my life though. I have had two instances with women though in my life where arguments turned into hot sex

 

[SamMann75]

How about hate fucking the girl (who you have no problem with) because you hate her boyfriend?

 

[ILoveGames48]

Back many many moons ago.. I worked at an amusement part .. .. one guy worked one of the games ( squirting water into a clowns mouth .. how tonic is that). And I’d go over and visit him a lot as he was very handsome.. him smiling at me every time definitely made me wanna see him more ..


Few times I’d go to visit him he’d be too busy so I didn’t get to talk to him..

Then I met this girl.. she’d smile at me too and I’d visit her a lot when I couldn’t visit him .. one day she kisses me out of nowhere .. thus beginning a relationship..

We went to her place one night after work. And she was very forward what she wanted so of course I gave it to her ..

Few days later at work I got to visit him as it was slow at the time.. it was him asked me out and I quickly said yes .. .. we went out for dinner and talked. And went to his place and we both were horny .. as we took our shoes off and pants n shirts .. underwear still on..

We kissed made out and played with each others cocks and he sucks me a while I sucked his .. then got on my knees ass up where he rimmed my hole and grabbed lube that had stashed on head of bed ..

He lubed up and slides it in and slowly begins to fuck me.. it was then he was getting harder as he held my hips .. I was thinking fuck he is very rough with that cock.. he wasn’t hung but what he lacked in length he had in thickness ..


I’d bury my face in a pillow as he didn’t slow down .. if anything got harder and he’s moaning as I can feel I his cock throbbing then shooting as he didn’t stop fucking ..


He pulls out I rolled over and laid on my back where he sucks me off..


Then he asks me if he was too rough.. I thought about saying a little but I said no that he wasn’t great ..

He then tells me his girlfriend won’t have sex until married so he was glad he had a bi side and really needed to fuck.. I told him anytime


Few days later at work the girl that I had fucked at her house was at his booth they both were laughing.. then as she went to leave later on I went to talk to him and I just kind of asked who was that girl he was kissing.. he says that was his girlfriend ..

I thought holy shit— then I told him what happened .. he was like.. you’re bi too.. I said not really .. I’m just horny ..


But I told him I really liked him.. ..he says he liked me as well .. ..


We sneaked a kiss then I walked off.. she saw us and was upset.. then he says why she upset as she got screwed by me before he screwed me..

For few months he and I were together and the more we got together the more assertive at what we did ..

There were few times we did it few days in a row.. my ass would be sore still from day before but that didn’t stop me..



I think it was wild how few guys I’d been with were casual at sex.. then there’s guys wanting assertive sex..

Variety is slice of life I guess