Have You Ever Had Sex With A Straight Friend?

[Daddy Bear]

Have you had a close friend that was straight and you wind up doing something sexual with him?

 

[Daddy Bear]

My best friend back in the mid 90's was named Eddie. We did everything together and people would mistake for being brothers. He was a handsome young man with dark hair and eyes and when he smiled his eyes would crinkle up. We worked together and when he wasn't with his girlfriend he was with me. I wasn't out of the closet then but living is a small town everyone knew I was gay so we got kidded a lot about being boyfriends. He would just laugh it off and reach over and grab my hand or butt and we all would just laugh. He spent a lot of nights at my house. Watching movies or playing video games and afterwards he would sleepover.

He started this morning ritual of showering first and coming back to my room and climbing on top of me and pinning down my arms. He would straddle me and rub my now hard dick between his ass checks. We were both wearing briefs so there was no real sex just a lot of horse play. He would joke if we were going to be called boyfriends we should act like it. And i would laugh and bet him he couldn't make me cum. This went on maybe once or twice a week for a few weeks and each time I fought back less and less. I was enjoying it and I'm pretty sure he was too.

Then one morning I decided I wanted to see how far this would go so when he went to shower I took off my briefs. When he came back he pulled the sheet back and my rock hard dick was laying there waiting for him to mount me. He laughed, said something about morning wood and he got on top like he had before. I closed my eyes and dared him to make me cum. I opened my eyes and he was grinning and then I felt his hand on my dick. It felt amazing.

He pulled on it a couple of times and I asked if him if he really wanted to do this. He leaned down to my ear and said yes but that we needed to get on the floor. I slid down on the floor and leaned against the bed. He moved over next to me proceeded to jack me off. Our faces were just inches apart. His leg was against mine. I could see he was getting hard but he told me to not touch his dick. He tried several techniques with my dick. One hand up and down the full shaft. Then just the head. Stroking my dick with one hand and pulling on my balls with the other. Then with both hands. He would do it dry and then spit on his hand and do it wet. This went on for about 5 minutes and he then said he was about to give up. I begged him not to stop so he kept on. Finally I felt my cum rising and I warned him I was about to cum. He kept on jacking and the first rope went over his arm and landed on his shoulder. He held my dick against my leg and let the rest of my load drip down my thigh. He let go of my dick and bumped his shoulder against mine and said I told you I could make you cum. I wiped the cum off his arm and off my leg. It had felt amazing and I thanked him. He said I owed him one.

We played around many times after that and I even sucked his dick several times but my favorite jack off fantasy was him jacking me off.

 

[Lé_Asmith]

Have you had a close friend that was straight and you wind up doing something sexual with him?

Not straight

 

[herbho]

I had a college roommate who was two years younger than I was. He had a girlfriend, who was not sexually active with him. We found out later that she was fucking another guy and got pregnant. Anyway, my roommate would frequently get drunk, which went a long way to loosening his inhibitions. One night he came back to the room pretty late. I was already in bed, but not asleep. He stripped down to his underwear and flopped into bed. After a few minutes, he tuned onto his stomach and asked me to rub his shoulders, since he had been playing a lot of basketball and was sore. I thought nothing of it and did it. After a few minutes, he asked me to rub his back, then his butt, which was small and firm. Then he turned over, put my hand on his erection and rubbed it up and down. I couldn't contain myself, so I pulled down his underwear and began playing with his hard cock. In a very short time, I was greeted with a handful of cum. After he came, he showered and went to sleep, never saying anything about it. This happened about twice a week, until, as I was giving him a handjob one night, he grabbed the back of my neck and pulled my head to his cock. I eagerly slurped it down and got a mouthful of sweet cum.

We moved off campus with another two guys. We shared the same bedroom, while the other two shared the other. One weekend, the other two roommates went home, leaving the apt to the two of us. Sure enough, he got drunk and it started. This time, I decided that I wanted something more, so, in the middle of blowing him, I reached over, grabbed some lube, lubed him up and sat on his dick. He gasped, but started moving and then pumping. He came in my ass, cleaned up, and went to sleep. We repeated this several times that weekend, doing it on the living room floor and in the shower. Twice, he bent me over the couch and pumped me from behind. I enjoyed every minute; it was just raw, uninhibited sex.

Unfortunately, I went away to grad school and he stayed to finish his degree. I learned that he had to drop out of school, because he missed too many classes. He eventually married and moved to OKC, where he fathered three kids.

 

[12254951]

Only sucking and jerking.... He was a little bit drunk and slept at my place.

He said, come on.... Let's jerk off...

 

[Dcleatr]

My first time with a guy was with a straight friend as am I. We're both married, I'm mid 60s and he's in his mid 70s. Sent him some pics of some sexy shorts I wear when I can't be naked (we're both nudists). In a couple of the pics, I was semi hard. He commented on how nice my dick looked and wondered if I had ever played with another guy. I said, no, but was interested. He proposed we get together to experiment. Since that first time sucking a cock, I've sucked 2 more in less than a year. I'm hooked.

 

[Ua23]

I call them the heteroflexible. When I was younger and single the majority of my friends were straight men. I never fooled around with any of my close friends to not ever ruin friendships or cause drama. However I have slept with or some sort of sexual play with at least 10 guys who identify as hetero men. Often drugs and or alcohol were involved. Once visited my brother while he was in university and he had rented a house with 4 roommates. Over the next 2 years I slept with them all. One guy said it was because I didn't flirt with him he wanted to know why I didn't think he was attractive. So he pursued me. Tons of fun. No strings.

 

[tomaskontos20]

Not sex but play. A stranger in the office building where I was interning was in the cafeteria toilets playing with his dick at the urinal when I walked in. I stood a few places down from him and got hard when I noticed him. He of coursed saw that and asked me if I was new to the building. He worked there as well, on a different floor.
We went into a cubicle, and her jerked me off and I jerked and sucked him. He told me he wouldn't blow me because he had a girlfriend and he was straight.
The next time we met he said he broke off with his girlfriend and he sucked me, but he told me he was straight. I didn't know what to believe but we had a good time for a few months.

 

[henry777]

He responded to my Craigslist ad. He wasn't interested in kissing just suck and fuck. We hooked up a few times and the last one I fucked his ass real good. Last I heard, he has a wife and a kid.

 

[theplayerking]

My straight roommate in college fucked me once because we were bored and horny. Never happened again. He just said he was curious and glad he tried it once. I tried to fuck him a bit, but I have a large penis and he couldn’t take more than the head. He really liked the rim job I gave him.

 

[ArabicBottom]

Kind of a long post, but I’m trying to get as many details in as I can


I have been with a lot of “straight” guys, only about two I would call friends tbh. First guy was a friend of mine from school, I remember what happened vividly since I’ve been crushing on him and his thick cock for years. A few years back we were hanging out and I was outted to him when his friend saw me on his story. His friend told him that I like to get fucked by men, abd that I’m always cock hungry. He confronted me and I just came out to him. He was curious because he was told that I’m a bottom and I told him yes that I exclusively bottom. We were smoking somethingsomething and I could see the print of his cock through his thob (an Arab man’s garb, a loose white dress kind of). He noticed me looking and grabbed it asking if I would touch it (Arab guys usually do this jokingly with each other). I extended my hand to grab it and he stopped me for a second saying that he was joking, I asked if he wanted me to grab it. He said no he was joking so I asked I he wanted me to suck it. He laughed it off so I asked if he wanted me to take it up my ass and I pulled down my sweats, bent over and showed my hole. He didn’t say anything he just looked at it then started touching my hole. Kind of drifted off into it a bit then recoiled. I asked him again and he said he’s not into guys. So I asked if he wanted me to pull my sweatpants back up he didn’t answer. So I went back over to him asked him if he wanted me to touch it and I grabbed his cock. He was hard so I played with it over his thob. Then went down to kiss it and sniff it. I asked if he wanted me to take it up my ass again. He nodded so I lifted up his thob and pull his cock out. I started sucking him off as he watched. His clothes were in the way so he stood up and took them off. I took him into my mouth again while standing and remember looking up at him while I struggled to take his cock down my throat. I was tearing up trying to deepthroat it so I stopped looked up at him and asked in he wanted me to take it into my hole. He went down took my sweats fully off and started grinding his cock on my hole from behind. No lube, just my saliva from when I was trying to deepthroat it. Slowly his cock was going in, inch by inch. He was going in a little then fully out, each time going in he was getting a little deeper. It took us a while to get it fully in but when he did the weed hit us hard at that moment. He proceeded to fuck me as hard as he could asking if this is what I wanted. I remember not answering and just moaned and took it. He didn’t last as long as I would have wanted and fucked me in that position until he shot his load inside me. He rested a bit on top of me as his cock started going limp inside. He pulled out and looked at my hole a bit. I don’t know why but I stayed in that position for a while letting his load leak out. He sat back then took a snap of me then sent it to his friend saying that that he knows that I get fucked. He told me to get up and get dressed he didn’t want to see me like that anymore. We didn’t address that the whole night then things just got weird between us. I did try to fuck him again but he didn’t want to.


Second friend was an Egyptian guy who I befriended through a mutual friend. He was always commenting on how big my ass looks and jokes about how I have a bigger ass/thighs than his wife. one night he was having a get together at his place by the pool. I jokingly mentioned that I would love to go skinny dipping in his pool. He told me I could go after everyone leaves. So I stayed back until everyone left then mentioned that he said “we” would skinny dip. He was for it and took off his shorts, looked at me and asked why I’m staring at his cock. His cock was easily 6” soft so I jokingly said that I can’t measure up as I’m much smaller. Can’t remember much of that but I did take off my clothes and he made a comment on my ass being smooth or not manly or something. We were swimming and talking and he mentioned how it’s been a long time since he saw his wife (she lived in Egypt while he was an expat here). He mentioned that he didn’t have sex in a long time. I said something along the line that I can’t go a week without having sex. I think he asked when was the last time I had sex and with who. I told him when and that it was with a man. He didn’t seem surprised and mentioned that he figured I’m not only gay but also a bottom. Said something along the line that I looked like I love getting anal. Remember something he said in Egyptian that stuck with me that my ass/thighs was/were meant for fucking. I was instantly hard. He noticed and asked if I thought he’s sexy. I told him yeah and that I’d let him fuck me. We started kind of fooling around, touching each other with him brushing his cock on me and he asked about how my hole is (how I can “endure” getting fucked, if I was loose, how it’s clean..etc). One thing lead to another and I just got out to the side of the pool, bent over, spread my ass cheeks and showed him my hole. I think he said something about how it looks used or “opened” and told me to get back into the pool. So I’m back in the pool fooling around and I just go for it and grab his cock, play with it tryna get him hard. He’s not getting stiff, remember him just sporting a semi the entire time. I try to go down on him and he tells me no. He doesn’t like getting sucked off. I think I asked what he likes or what he wanted me to do and he gets out of the pool and goes into the house. I thought he wanted to shut it down so I got out of the pool to put my clothes back on but he came back with a bottle of lube in his hand. Told me to show him my hole again so I got on my knees and bent over for him. He started playing with my hole rubbing it with the lube he brought. Got me lubed till my hole relaxed then proceeded to finger me. Remember him starting with two right off but not long till he had four going in and out my hole. I don’t remember how long this went on but I glanced back and he was rock hard, cock in hand, most of his other hand inside me. I wanted to grab his cock and he refused told me to stay there until he loosened up my hole enough. Once he was satisfied he shoved his cock into my hole taking the entire thing all at once. He fucked me doggy right by the pool only taking breaks to loosen me back up. We went into missionary and he told me to cover my dick he didn’t want to see it. His cock was impressive but I couldn’t tighten on it because he kept me as loose as possible. He fucked me in the pool where I got to tighten up a bit, but he took me out to lube me and loosen me back up. He refused to let me ride him (which is alright, I enjoy what he was doing much more) because he’s the “man”. He took me inside his house where he fucked the cum out of me in his living room. I tightened on him when I came so he loosened me back up and took me to his bedroom. He put on some straight porn and got to fucking me from behind. He pulled out and shot a huge load all over my ass. He sat back lit up a ciggerette while still watching porn, I look back at him and he told me to jiggle my ass. Wanted to cuddle but he wasn’t into it. We talked a bit and I told him he kept loosening me up and I couldn’t feel his entire cock the way I wanted to. He said he wanted it loose like his wife’s cunt. Said he doesn’t like men and that’s the only way he would’ve fucked me. We still in contact and still hang out but mostly so he could fuck me and almost fist me. Introduced him to poppers which became mandatory whenever we get together

 

[brandon38]

I had a college roommate who was two years younger than I was. He had a girlfriend, who was not sexually active with him. We found out later that she was fucking another guy and got pregnant. Anyway, my roommate would frequently get drunk, which went a long way to loosening his inhibitions. One night he came back to the room pretty late. I was already in bed, but not asleep. He stripped down to his underwear and flopped into bed. After a few minutes, he tuned onto his stomach and asked me to rub his shoulders, since he had been playing a lot of basketball and was sore. I thought nothing of it and did it. After a few minutes, he asked me to rub his back, then his butt, which was small and firm. Then he turned over, put my hand on his erection and rubbed it up and down. I couldn't contain myself, so I pulled down his underwear and began playing with his hard cock. In a very short time, I was greeted with a handful of cum. After he came, he showered and went to sleep, never saying anything about it. This happened about twice a week, until, as I was giving him a handjob one night, he grabbed the back of my neck and pulled my head to his cock. I eagerly slurped it down and got a mouthful of sweet cum.

We moved off campus with another two guys. We shared the same bedroom, while the other two shared the other. One weekend, the other two roommates went home, leaving the apt to the two of us. Sure enough, he got drunk and it started. This time, I decided that I wanted something more, so, in the middle of blowing him, I reached over, grabbed some lube, lubed him up and sat on his dick. He gasped, but started moving and then pumping. He came in my ass, cleaned up, and went to sleep. We repeated this several times that weekend, doing it on the living room floor and in the shower. Twice, he bent me over the couch and pumped me from behind. I enjoyed every minute; it was just raw, uninhibited sex.

Unfortunately, I went away to grad school and he stayed to finish his degree. I learned that he had to drop out of school, because he missed too many classes. He eventually married and moved to OKC, where he fathered three kids.

This sound amazing what wonderful experience you had .

 

[alpha_centauri]

My best friend back in the mid 90's was named Eddie. We did everything together and people would mistake for being brothers. He was a handsome young man with dark hair and eyes and when he smiled his eyes would crinkle up. We worked together and when he wasn't with his girlfriend he was with me. I wasn't out of the closet then but living is a small town everyone knew I was gay so we got kidded a lot about being boyfriends. He would just laugh it off and reach over and grab my hand or butt and we all would just laugh. He spent a lot of nights at my house. Watching movies or playing video games and afterwards he would sleepover.

He started this morning ritual of showering first and coming back to my room and climbing on top of me and pinning down my arms. He would straddle me and rub my now hard dick between his ass checks. We were both wearing briefs so there was no real sex just a lot of horse play. He would joke if we were going to be called boyfriends we should act like it. And i would laugh and bet him he couldn't make me cum. This went on maybe once or twice a week for a few weeks and each time I fought back less and less. I was enjoying it and I'm pretty sure he was too.

Then one morning I decided I wanted to see how far this would go so when he went to shower I took off my briefs. When he came back he pulled the sheet back and my rock hard dick was laying there waiting for him to mount me. He laughed, said something about morning wood and he got on top like he had before. I closed my eyes and dared him to make me cum. I opened my eyes and he was grinning and then I felt his hand on my dick. It felt amazing.

He pulled on it a couple of times and I asked if him if he really wanted to do this. He leaned down to my ear and said yes but that we needed to get on the floor. I slid down on the floor and leaned against the bed. He moved over next to me proceeded to jack me off. Our faces were just inches apart. His leg was against mine. I could see he was getting hard but he told me to not touch his dick. He tried several techniques with my dick. One hand up and down the full shaft. Then just the head. Stroking my dick with one hand and pulling on my balls with the other. Then with both hands. He would do it dry and then spit on his hand and do it wet. This went on for about 5 minutes and he then said he was about to give up. I begged him not to stop so he kept on. Finally I felt my cum rising and I warned him I was about to cum. He kept on jacking and the first rope went over his arm and landed on his shoulder. He held my dick against my leg and let the rest of my load drip down my thigh. He let go of my dick and bumped his shoulder against mine and said I told you I could make you cum. I wiped the cum off his arm and off my leg. It had felt amazing and I thanked him. He said I owed him one.

We played around many times after that and I even sucked his dick several times but my favorite jack off fantasy was him jacking me off.

Your friend is not heterosexual/straight at all, he is bisexual.

None of the men in these stories are really hetero/straight.

But a lot of queens need the pipe dream fantasy that they are or have had sex with a straight/hetero guy, as if there is something wrong with a man being bisexual or gay.

 

[DayOldBate]

Kind of an odd story as my experience happened in reverse to most stories. I came out pretty early. Lost a bunch of people I thought were friends. But my best friend didn’t particularly care, was as straight as an arrow and whom I crushed on briefly. So by this point we were writing and playing music together and this went on for a while. A few years pass and we start a garage/bar band and there comes a point where we’re pretty much living together. We get shitty drunk and suddenly he drags me to his bed, explaining that he’s “pretty sure” he’s not totally straight. In the midst of explaining I didn’t see us this way I’m suddenly dealing with his tongue in my mouth and things just get hotter and heavier and I find myself letting him have his way with me. Probably the best make out session and fuck I’ve ever had. I asked him about it the next morning, super hungover, and he was bummed I didn’t sleep with him in his bed. We never went so far afterwards, but we definitely cuddled a few times before we went our own ways.

 

[alpha_centauri]

No because if a man is really actually heterosexual or straight he is not going to habe sex with me or any other men.

I did mutual group masturbation with male friends/peers decades ago. It was not with any regularity and happened maybe only once or twice or three times at the very most.

 

[alpha_centauri]

Kind of a long post, but I’m trying to get as many details in as I can


I have been with a lot of “straight” guys, only about two I would call friends tbh. First guy was a friend of mine from school, I remember what happened vividly since I’ve been crushing on him and his thick cock for years. A few years back we were hanging out and I was outted to him when his friend saw me on his story. His friend told him that I like to get fucked by men, abd that I’m always cock hungry. He confronted me and I just came out to him. He was curious because he was told that I’m a bottom and I told him yes that I exclusively bottom. We were smoking somethingsomething and I could see the print of his cock through his thob (an Arab man’s garb, a loose white dress kind of). He noticed me looking and grabbed it asking if I would touch it (Arab guys usually do this jokingly with each other). I extended my hand to grab it and he stopped me for a second saying that he was joking, I asked if he wanted me to grab it. He said no he was joking so I asked I he wanted me to suck it. He laughed it off so I asked if he wanted me to take it up my ass and I pulled down my sweats, bent over and showed my hole. He didn’t say anything he just looked at it then started touching my hole. Kind of drifted off into it a bit then recoiled. I asked him again and he said he’s not into guys. So I asked if he wanted me to pull my sweatpants back up he didn’t answer. So I went back over to him asked him if he wanted me to touch it and I grabbed his cock. He was hard so I played with it over his thob. Then went down to kiss it and sniff it. I asked if he wanted me to take it up my ass again. He nodded so I lifted up his thob and pull his cock out. I started sucking him off as he watched. His clothes were in the way so he stood up and took them off. I took him into my mouth again while standing and remember looking up at him while I struggled to take his cock down my throat. I was tearing up trying to deepthroat it so I stopped looked up at him and asked in he wanted me to take it into my hole. He went down took my sweats fully off and started grinding his cock on my hole from behind. No lube, just my saliva from when I was trying to deepthroat it. Slowly his cock was going in, inch by inch. He was going in a little then fully out, each time going in he was getting a little deeper. It took us a while to get it fully in but when he did the weed hit us hard at that moment. He proceeded to fuck me as hard as he could asking if this is what I wanted. I remember not answering and just moaned and took it. He didn’t last as long as I would have wanted and fucked me in that position until he shot his load inside me. He rested a bit on top of me as his cock started going limp inside. He pulled out and looked at my hole a bit. I don’t know why but I stayed in that position for a while letting his load leak out. He sat back then took a snap of me then sent it to his friend saying that that he knows that I get fucked. He told me to get up and get dressed he didn’t want to see me like that anymore. We didn’t address that the whole night then things just got weird between us. I did try to fuck him again but he didn’t want to.


Second friend was an Egyptian guy who I befriended through a mutual friend. He was always commenting on how big my ass looks and jokes about how I have a bigger ass/thighs than his wife. one night he was having a get together at his place by the pool. I jokingly mentioned that I would love to go skinny dipping in his pool. He told me I could go after everyone leaves. So I stayed back until everyone left then mentioned that he said “we” would skinny dip. He was for it and took off his shorts, looked at me and asked why I’m staring at his cock. His cock was easily 6” soft so I jokingly said that I can’t measure up as I’m much smaller. Can’t remember much of that but I did take off my clothes and he made a comment on my ass being smooth or not manly or something. We were swimming and talking and he mentioned how it’s been a long time since he saw his wife (she lived in Egypt while he was an expat here). He mentioned that he didn’t have sex in a long time. I said something along the line that I can’t go a week without having sex. I think he asked when was the last time I had sex and with who. I told him when and that it was with a man. He didn’t seem surprised and mentioned that he figured I’m not only gay but also a bottom. Said something along the line that I looked like I love getting anal. Remember something he said in Egyptian that stuck with me that my ass/thighs was/were meant for fucking. I was instantly hard. He noticed and asked if I thought he’s sexy. I told him yeah and that I’d let him fuck me. We started kind of fooling around, touching each other with him brushing his cock on me and he asked about how my hole is (how I can “endure” getting fucked, if I was loose, how it’s clean..etc). One thing lead to another and I just got out to the side of the pool, bent over, spread my ass cheeks and showed him my hole. I think he said something about how it looks used or “opened” and told me to get back into the pool. So I’m back in the pool fooling around and I just go for it and grab his cock, play with it tryna get him hard. He’s not getting stiff, remember him just sporting a semi the entire time. I try to go down on him and he tells me no. He doesn’t like getting sucked off. I think I asked what he likes or what he wanted me to do and he gets out of the pool and goes into the house. I thought he wanted to shut it down so I got out of the pool to put my clothes back on but he came back with a bottle of lube in his hand. Told me to show him my hole again so I got on my knees and bent over for him. He started playing with my hole rubbing it with the lube he brought. Got me lubed till my hole relaxed then proceeded to finger me. Remember him starting with two right off but not long till he had four going in and out my hole. I don’t remember how long this went on but I glanced back and he was rock hard, cock in hand, most of his other hand inside me. I wanted to grab his cock and he refused told me to stay there until he loosened up my hole enough. Once he was satisfied he shoved his cock into my hole taking the entire thing all at once. He fucked me doggy right by the pool only taking breaks to loosen me back up. We went into missionary and he told me to cover my dick he didn’t want to see it. His cock was impressive but I couldn’t tighten on it because he kept me as loose as possible. He fucked me in the pool where I got to tighten up a bit, but he took me out to lube me and loosen me back up. He refused to let me ride him (which is alright, I enjoy what he was doing much more) because he’s the “man”. He took me inside his house where he fucked the cum out of me in his living room. I tightened on him when I came so he loosened me back up and took me to his bedroom. He put on some straight porn and got to fucking me from behind. He pulled out and shot a huge load all over my ass. He sat back lit up a ciggerette while still watching porn, I look back at him and he told me to jiggle my ass. Wanted to cuddle but he wasn’t into it. We talked a bit and I told him he kept loosening me up and I couldn’t feel his entire cock the way I wanted to. He said he wanted it loose like his wife’s cunt. Said he doesn’t like men and that’s the only way he would’ve fucked me. We still in contact and still hang out but mostly so he could fuck me and almost fist me. Introduced him to poppers which became mandatory whenever we get together

Isn't it super dangerous for bisexual and gay men in Islamic countries such as Egypt, the Levant, and Arab countries? Yes I know people are going to do what they want but I have read about 'honour' murders, people being discovered or outed and imprisoned and killed or executed, etc.

A bisexual scientist friend went to Egypt and Morocco. He is European, very tall, blond muscular jock type build. He was flirted with a lot just walking around various cities but completely ignored it and pretended that he did not know how the Egyptian, Arabic, and Berber men he saw wanted sex. My friend traveled with a man he was in a relationship with at the time but they did not go to any gay/LGB pubs, places, were extremely cautious and just told people that they are "friends traveling together to see Egypt and Morocco."

A different scientist friend who is gay has traveled to Egypt, Morocco, Algeria, Libya, Lebanon, Turkey, UAE, and Jordan. He did not have sex with anyone and just said he was there on holiday or for research.

Lol those guys you had sex with can claim that they are "straight" all they want but as the old joke goes denial is not just a river in Egypt.

 

[ArabicBottom]

Isn't it super dangerous for bisexual and gay men in Islamic countries such as Egypt, the Levant, and Arab countries? Yes I know people are going to do what they want but I have read about 'honour' murders, people being discovered or outed and imprisoned and killed or executed, etc.

A bisexual scientist friend went to Egypt and Morocco. He is European, very tall, blond muscular jock type build. He was flirted with a lot just walking around various cities but completely ignored it and pretended that he did not know how the Egyptian, Arabic, and Berber men he saw wanted sex. My friend traveled with a man he was in a relationship with at the time but they did not go to any gay/LGB pubs, places, were extremely cautious and just told people that they are "friends traveling together to see Egypt and Morocco."

A different scientist friend who is gay has traveled to Egypt, Morocco, Algeria, Libya, Lebanon, Turkey, UAE, and Jordan. He did not have sex with anyone and just said he was there on holiday or for research.

Lol those guys you had sex with can claim that they are "straight" all they want but as the old joke goes denial is not just a river in Egypt.

Executing gay people in ME is just ignorant western propaganda. Even in sharia law, you have to have four witnesses who have witnessed the act itself to verify that it actually happened. Most of people getting imprisoned are rights activists (who I respect and should not be imprisoned for demanding to allow us to live our lives freely) and even those are in very strict countries like KSA, which if you ever been to the Middle Beast festival you’d see people being unapologetically queer there with little to no repercussions other than social perception that it’s frowned upon. Usually foreigners visiting can do what they want behind closed doors as long as they don’t do PDAs (which also goes for their straight counterparts btw). Sure there have been “events” where there was mass arrests of gay men in the Middle East, but it was just for show and MOST people were let out without persecution (as long as they didn’t have drugs or have committed other illegal acts).

Also, Jordan has decriminalized homosexuality and homosexual acts since the 50s, something that even western governments have had criminalized during that time. Most cases you’d hear about gay people being arrested and persecuted is for public indecency which even their straight counterparts can be arrested for. I say all this just FYI, and I’d like to note that our society is still regressive and as a queer person you’d still have to face extreme bigotry from people and it’s still scary and hard for someone to be themselves

 

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Executing gay people in ME is just ignorant western propaganda. Even in sharia law, you have to have four witnesses who have witnessed the act itself to verify that it actually happened. Most of people getting imprisoned are rights activists (who I respect and should not be imprisoned for demanding to allow us to live our lives freely) and even those are in very strict countries like KSA, which if you ever been to the Middle Beast festival you’d see people being unapologetically queer there with little to no repercussions other than social perception that it’s frowned upon. Usually foreigners visiting can do what they want behind closed doors as long as they don’t do PDAs (which also goes for their straight counterparts btw). Sure there have been “events” where there was mass arrests of gay men in the Middle East, but it was just for show and MOST people were let out without persecution (as long as they didn’t have drugs or have committed other illegal acts).

Also, Jordan has decriminalized homosexuality and homosexual acts since the 50s, something that even western governments have had criminalized during that time. Most cases you’d hear about gay people being arrested and persecuted is for public indecency which even their straight counterparts can be arrested for. I say all this just FYI, and I’d like to note that our society is still regressive and as a queer person you’d still have to face extreme bigotry from people and it’s still scary and hard for someone to be themselves

You would know better than I do. Our media and groups in the Western world say it is super dangerous and people who are not heterosexual or even just suspected get killed by police, family/neighbours, etc.

Rights group: Iran executes 2 gay men over sodomy charges

Is it true that is Middle Eastern Arabic and Levantine Islamic countries transgender surgery at least for trans women was easy to get for adults who want to do this and they are allowed by Islamic law to become transwomen legally? Can a biological woman get a sex change surgery in these countries and legally and socially become a man?

FYI, in the Western world 'queer' has always and still is a slur used against gay and bisexual men and women.

Stay safe can you emigrate elsewhere?

I went to university with men from UAE, Morocco, and I knew a student from Pakistan who was my friend's flatmate at his uni. I did not tell them I am bisexual as it was something I kept private. The man from UAE said he loved the USA as he could go anywhere, socialize with other Arabic women, listen to music and watch any films or TV shows he wanted. He said in UAE he could not drive a car as police and private security would pull him over and ask him for ID or say he was on or near private land. His family was well off but he was not super wealthy. He and the man from Morocco did not drink any alcohol at all and would pray in private multiple times per day and go to a mosque as they were used to doing this.

My friend's roommate from Pakistan was different. The first time I met him we went to a strip club with women stripping. He did not drink any alcohol. Then a year or two later we all went out to dinner and he ordered alcoholic drinks for everyone including himself and got buzzed or drunk. I asked him something like "I thought that if you are a religious devout Muslim you are not allowed to drink?" He said something about how "No it is fine and I am still Muslim but do not pray multiple times per day daily as I can make up the times I did not at other times..." He was not a bad guy then but after he started to drink regularly my friend said he would go to a bar or dance club and do really weird things to women that are illegal and completely socially unacceptable to do, like go up to a random lady he had never met before and start to touch her genitals and breasts. I was shocked by this when I heard about it but a different south Asian man and woman told me how he thought that these women are prostitutes or very easily freely sexually available as they were not covered up and were wearing short skirts and a blouse that shows their cleavage. I am not sure how common it is for men in countries that are very heavily Islamic with very strict religious laws to believe this, or if he was just using the traditional seperation of men and women in Islam as an excuse to grope women? He started seeing East Asian prostitutes and stopped doing this to women in bars and dance clubs.

In my country we have fake racist cults for black North Americans, they pretend to be Islam or Muslim but they only allow black people to join. Actual black african muslim emigrants who are not from North Africa do not join these cults. The Pakistani man would get into arguments with members of these cults including the men saying they are an imam who would try to get black Americans to join the cult, and my friend's Asian Muslim roommate bluntly told them how these cults such as the Nation of Islam are not really Islam or Muslim at all, because there are muslims of all races and ethnicities and Islam is for everyone.

I never had sex with any of these men as they are heterosexual or presumed to be heterosexual and at the time I was dating other men and women.

Do you hear news of these false cults in your country?

Wikipedia has an article about them do not go to it unless you use a vpn or hide your IP.

The cult is the Nation of Islam, but there are others. They are not Islam or other religions but are cults as they exclude everyone who is not black.

The cult even has private schools to indoctrinate or forcibly convert children into it.

 

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He had just found out he was cheated on so we went out got drunk so he could have a fuck her night. He made out with a couple of girls then we took Uber home. He stayed at my place and asked if he could borrow shorts to sleep in. Then he proceeded to get naked to change. I made a joke (hoping he would) saying we should just sleep naked. He said ok, and threw my shorts back at me. We both crawled into bed watched a little tv while we finished some terrible drinks his drunk add had made. I started dosing off when he tapped me hard enough to be a punch in the shoulder. Then looked at me and said I need a blow job. At first I said no and laughed it off. But he started rubbing his dick on my leg. Well drunk me is only so resilient. After a few min of moaning he grabbed my arm and started pulling on it. He wanted me to come out from under the blanket. Then said I would like to fuck you, is that cool. Lol for me a dream come true I didn’t question it. He took out a bunch of frustration on my ass that night.
we didn’t really discuss it for a few weeks. He pulled something in his back and asked me for a back rub. In the middle of it he said don’t get any ideas you’re the bottom bitch. He’s straight as can be now with a wife and two kids but I’ll never forget the night my fantasy came all in me lol.

 

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Growing up I had a major crush on one of my neighbours, he was 4 years older than me & of course when you're younger that's huge lol. He was really good looking, short brown hair with a centre parting which was "cool" at the time, he clearly worked out & had a very nice body & he was a really nice guy, I always had a bit of a crush on him. As time went by & we grew up I came out, even though it was pretty obvious I'm gay, my friend had a couple of girlfriends. One Friday night when I was 21 I went to my local pub for a couple of drinks, a couple of friend who I'd been to school with were in there 7 we got chatting. After a little while my neighbour friend came in with a couple of his mates. They'd obviously been to another pub & had a couple of drinks. The night went on & after a couple of drinks I needed to pee. I went into the toilets & my friend was in there, at the urinal, we got chatting as you do lol & he asked me if I could help him. I didn't realise what he meant at first. He could see I wasn't catching on & he put his hand on my shoulder & said "I've always been nice to you haven't I?" I instantly nodded. He asked me again if I could "help him" & then he looked down towards my cock, I was rather surprised. I reached over & gently put my hand on the front of his jeans, I could feel his cock which was already hard. We went into the cubical, I unbuttoned & unzipped his jeans, he was going commando, which was the first time I'd ever seen a guy in person. His cock pretty much stood up like a flag pole. I started to suck him, he put his hand on the back of my head & started moaning. After only a couple of "sucks" he gently held my head & quietly moaned, I tasted his warm load shoot in my mouth. I was surprised, but also really turned on. I'd never had another guy do that. He quickly sorted himself out & got out to the bar, I gave it a minute so not to look suspicious. I got out to the bar as my mate & his friends were finishing their drinks & they left. A few days later I saw him again, we bumped into each other in another pub at lunchtime. We got chatting & he apologised, telling me he was sorry for "trying it on" with me. I told him it was ok & that if he ever needed any "help" again he could just ask. It turns out he was happy to do that lol, it became a regular thing until he met his gf who is now his wife. The nice thing is he was always cool with things, we became even closer friends because of what happened.